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I'm a 32-year-old single, straight male currently living in Central Florida, and I'm interested in something more than just sex. I'd really like to find a woman I can connect with on a deeper, more satisfying level, something with the promise and potential for longterm.
I don't currently have a dog. So, if you're looking for instant pet play or simply wanting access to a dog, then I'm definitely not the guy for you. However, if you're interested in building a meaningful relationship with someone, establishing a deeper connection with a man who'll wholeheartedly support and encourage your zoo lifestyle, then we might just hit it off. I have no experience in the lifestyle myself and, at present, don't have any interest in sexual activity with animals. I've always considered myself more of a bestiality voyeur, someone immensely aroused by watching a woman enjoy sexual pleasures with animals. Though, I would hope she's still predominantly interested in me, with her beastly pleasures being ancillary to our relationship.
Now, before I continue I feel I need to make one thing perfectly clear. I know this sounds harsh, but I'm really not interested in friends. If I seem like a cool guy, someone you share a great deal in common with and you could really connect with, but you're taken or your heart is spoken for already and all you can offer is friendship, then I'm really not interested. And I'd rather not do the "Let's be friends and see where it goes" routine either. Obviously I want my significant other to also be my best friend, because I feel that's essential to a strong, lasting romantic relationship, but I'm not interested in connecting with someone only to be strung along and kept at arm's length as a mere friend. Perhaps I'm too judgmental or entirely too hasty, but I nonetheless believe that we all know relatively early on the potential for a relationship. We know within a short time whether there's a proper romantic chemistry and sexual attraction to warrant pursuing a possible romantic relationship, or if there's no spark and the best we can hope for or offer is a friendship. In those instances, where there's a mutual agreement that while we click, we're not romantically/sexually attracted to each other, I'm perfectly fine with a friendship. But if one party or the other has an unreciprocated desire for something more, it's best and only fair to just break it off and part ways. Pining away for someone you can't have or who'll never feel for you what you feel for them will only twist you up inside, make you bitter and resentful, drive you insane and ultimately tarnish whatever good the other person saw in you in the first place. I've been there before. We'll both be happier if we just walk away. Trust me.
As for what I'm looking for in a woman...
I'd prefer if you were somewhere around my age, in the 25-35 age range. Of course, if you're younger or older, then it's all a matter of chemistry and I'm certainly open to any and all possibilities. I've found that greater age differences do tend to complicate matters, but age truly is just a number and it by no means accurately measures one's life experiences, the mental and emotional maturity of an individual, and the basic chemistry that defines attraction and is essential for a successful relationship. So, if we click, if we can relate to each other and share a lot of common ground, and the chemistry is there, I'm not concerned with the number. (Just to give you some idea: I've dated women up to 10 years younger and as much as 16 years older.)
Now, even though I'm currently residing in Florida, I've been longing to move for a while now and I'm hoping to make that happen within a year or two, so I'm open to the idea of possibly finding love regardless of geography. So, while it would obviously help if you were somewhat local, like in the same state, for the sake of that initial meeting to see if there's a spark offline, I don't want to limit myself. Besides, even if we do live in the same state, unless you happen in be in the same neighborhood, there's still likely to be a degree of distance involved. And while a 2- or 3-hour drive, one way, isn't initially as bad as living on opposite coasts or entirely different continents, it's still going to grow tiresome when one of us has to make that drive every time we want to spend time together. Eventually, someone's going to have to move. And I'm willing to relocate for the right person.
Physical appearance? Honestly, I don't have a set type. You can be any ethnicity, any height (within reason), any weight (within reason), and just about any body type. Though, like everyone, I have my preferences. I'm a sucker for shorties, women in that 5' even to 5'5" height range. The alpha male in me likes a girl who's tiny, delicate, and maybe in need of my protection, someone I can wrap in my arms and make her feel completely safe and protected, and someone I can heft over my shoulder and carry off to the bedroom in caveman or pillager style. I tend to be drawn to brunettes and redheads more than blondes, but I also have a weakness for goth girls or punk chicks who dye their hair freaky anime colors like blue, pink, or purple and have the whole tattoo/piercing thing going for them. (Think Suicide Girls.) I also favor brilliant, expressive eyes that smolder with seduction and twinkle with pixie mischief, sweet and alluring smiles that tease and entice, thick athletic legs that can really grip and squeeze during sex, and deliciously spankable, bitable asses. I tend to favor women with softness and curves. Not fat, but definitely not skinny. Somewhere in the average/athletic/voluptuous range. But, again, while we all know looks are important since you have to be physically and sexually attracted to someone to want to be involved with them, the looks take a backseat to mind and personality. Intoxicate my mind, enchant my soul, and you'll arouse my body. And beauty is so subjective anyway.
As for personality, if I had to pick a single attribute it'd be wit - the combination of intellect and humor. I definitely favor intelligent women, as there's nothing sexier than a wicked sharp mind. You should be able to hold you own in conversations covering a wide range of subjects. Degrees of higher education are good, but you can also just be a voracious reader that's instinctively sharp and naturally bright with an insatiable desire to learn. You should also have a great sense of humor. I define a good sense of humor as one that clicks with my own: witty, sarcastic, snarky, maybe even a little dark and twisted. Think George Carlin, The Simpsons and Futurama, the Cohen brothers, Oscar Wilde and Dorothy Parker. Or, if you laughed out loud when reading American Psycho and Catch-22, then we're probably in synch. For me, the first sign of chemistry is usually good banter, a good back-and-forth of snarky remarks and playfully sarcastic quips, the ability make each other laugh and delight the mind, and have that feeling of, "Finally! Here's someone who gets me!"
Also, playfulness is always appealing. While I have a tendency to be drawn to submissive women (submissive in the bedroom, anyway), I like submissive women who are also feisty, assertive, even a bit stubborn, who'll make me work for it, and who aren't afraid to take the initiative once in awhile. I love it when a girl will pester me while I'm working, even after I've rebuffed her, she'll keep coming back, being pouty or salacious, possibly even deliciously aggressive, dragging me away from my work and forcing me to discipline or punish her - simply because she craves a good spanking or a lusty, angry fuck. God, I love that...
I think I would describe my ideal woman as a kitten with claws.
So, are you a bit coquettish and teasing, but in a good way? A little bit silly and playful, unconcerned with what others might think of you? Ever dance in the rain just for the hell of it? Do you know how to make your own fun in almost any situation? If you're equal parts sexy, seductive siren and playful, carefree girl then you definitely score points. Also, I'm fond of strong, independent women, women with goals and ambitions, determination and drive, opinions and beliefs that you hold with conviction. I love a good debate and enjoy having a significant other that's not afraid to disagree with me, to argue points with me, to be aggressive when it comes to her opinions, thoughts, and desires.
And, of course, all the usual desirable qualities: loving, honest, faithful, etc.
Bonus Points: You earn serious bonus points if you're artistic (paint, sing, play an instrument, etc.), wear glasses, have an exotic accent, or if you're Asian. Especially if you're Asian. Heh.
Lastly, I think it's important that we share some common interests, hobbies, passions. There's that line in High Fidelity: "What really matters is what you like, not what you are like. Books, records, film -- these things matter." And while I disagree with the second half of that sentiment (because what you are like is just as important) I completely agree with the first half. It's important that like at least some of the same things, because that will give us something to talk about and discuss, activities to share and enjoy together, and a way of integrating the other into our lives. If we enjoy similar activities, then you can hang out with me and my friends, joining in on whatever we're doing without being the girlfriend who just gets dragged along. And vice versa.
My personal trinity is books, movies, and music. I'd like a woman who's a bit of a bookwhore, always reading something, and capable of spending a relaxing weekend afternoon curled up on the couch with a good book, sharing an intimate moment with me on one end and her on the other, each in our own book, but enjoying the closeness. Also, I'm a live music junkie, making every effort to attend concerts, operas, and the occasional musical. Hopefully it's a passion my partner would share so we could enjoy those outings together. While I don't expect you to share my tastes in heavy metal and rock (though, that would be cool), it'd be nice if you loved classical music and opera.
Also, it'd help if you were a bit of a geek or nerd, a woman who actually enjoys video/computer games, roleplaying games (Dungeons & Dragons, Shadowrun, Star Wars, etc.), anime, CCGs (Magic: The Gathering, etc.), tabletop strategy/war games, and/or comics and manga.
And if you're the sort of woman who loves spending time outdoors, or at museums, or visiting aquariums, the zoo, parks and gardens, then we're likely to have some common ground there.
Of course, it helps to have differences, both for the sake of exposing each other to something new and as a means of spending time apart (which is healthy, even for the best of couples). So, don't feel as though you have to like everything I like and if you couldn't say you love everything I listed then I wouldn't be interested in you.
Now, if you made it through all of that, then I applaud you for your attention span. Heh. Seriously though, if you're the least bit intrigued or something I wrote resonates with you, feel free to drop me a line and tell me a bit about yourself, and feel free to ask any questions you may have about me. |
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"He who is cruel to animals becomes hard also in his dealings with men. We can judge the heart of a man by his treatment of animals." ~ Immanuel Kant
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