hello there, this is my first topic so sorry if I sound like a fool... I am trying to find a way to bring my wife into my life of loving dogs.. I have had the dogs I have kind of show up while we are having sex and she doesn't mind them licking her once in a while but how do I introduce the idea of her letting the dogs penetrate her? I have been trying for some time to figure out a way to discreetly bring her into this part of it but I am at a loss. Any advice or suggestions? :blink:

Hi! There are many other threads like this so look around if you want. I cannot help you because I've never had the trouble myself, but someone will be along soon. Good luck!

Yes...don't!

If it's not something that she finds arousing and wants, you're wasting your time and risking your relationship. There's a chance she's find the idea interesting or more, but a much bigger one she wouldn't...

Think of some sexual act that you DON'T want to do - not just something mildly uninteresting but REALLY not arousing - perhaps even a real turn OFF.

Would you want to do it because someone was urging you to? How would you feel if you were being pressured by someone you cared about and didn't want to upset or lose?
Could you get sexually aroused?

There's a big difference between a little licking from a dog and full sex - and it COULD be that she's only gone THIS far to humour you...

For most people, sex with an animal is not like a minor experiment, just another form of sex, another position, for most it's a HUGE leap beyond the norm.

For those of us for whom it's a longterm lifestyle, for some who've fantasised about it for long time, and for some who've spent a LOT of time online in places where it's "routine", it's easy to get complacent and lose sight of the broader picture.

Have you done that? Perhaps not, but check it out...

I hope that helps. It's only my opinion, of course.

Thank you, good advice I think. She has admitted to letting her dog get her off when she was alone but maybe I'll just see if I can wait it out. Thank You again for your response as it is really a load off to talk to someone about this... :unsure