I do believe that this can happen but that sex is only part of a relationship. If a person feels that sex is 100% of a relationship then they will in the end fail their partner because sex is not the end all of a relationship. It sparks the lust for eachother but like fire it needs more then substance to keep going.

I personally would leave a relationship where I was put 3rd its not fair to me. You can say that a dog takes control but in the end dogs are only a sexual desire for most of the K9 lovers. I wouldn't mind my girl ever having a dog as long as it didn't turn into what happened with Brad. If she is sneaking out of her job etc. and having all this sex on the side and I'm not at all, thats ruined the trust we had. From my point of view she loves the dog and not me. It would be similar to going to another man while in a relationship cause your BF isn't doing it. Even being a submissive male by nature it even bugs my thoughts to think of this happening to me. It has to be mutual and at the end of the night shes crawling into bed with me and needs me by her side for her to sleep but I don't get any of the sexual gratification.

Bottom line is she cant become the dogs bitch realistically speaking for me. While I would probebly enjoy the dog as well I still want it to be a 2 partner relationship with a dog for enhancement. I do not believe I'm a alpha but a partner. While I switch roles with my GF dom/sub sub/dom this is part of our relationship and keeps it healthy in bed. Besides my GF has had a Alpha male (not a dog) who beat her and such that went overbored (and not all dom men are like this just saying for her) so she stays away from that thought process.

In the end im a jealous person and its a part of me I wish I could toss in the garbage it would make me a better person for her and myself. That is why I don't think I could handle a dog taking over the sexual spot in my GFs life and would end up leaving the relationship instantly. I do enjoy reading and getting into the fantasy thoughts about it but I don't think a real life setup is for me :( .

One last thing. Sex is not just about the physical part as we all know. Mentally sex is what you share with your partner when you are in love (in a relationship for me atleast). While sex may be 25% or 50% of a relationship it still is a mental and physical thing. The dog pleases you but does not give you the other 50-75% of the relationship. I think most women would not want to lose their BF/Husband over a dog but who knows. All that time/love/dedication/working though things/being their for them all gone for sex.. the mind is warped when in extacy.

PS: Great story as it turned me on and also made me jealous at the same time. People who evoke such emotion in a story are great writer. Great story but if I lose my girl to a dog :( ill be a sad sad man. Oh and SF Bay Area here as well :D

This post has been edited by dirtbike668 on Jun 19 2008, 03:09 AM

Alice: Question from us to you. Was suggested by another here to talk with you about GHOST WRITING A STORY. since we know you do not respond to messages and feel they are a waste of time we are forced to contact you this way ..... Hope we have not in any way broken any rules or policies of the BF. Since Spirit and I both value your writing abilities and the factual way you paint pictureswith words we would ask that you get intouch with us on this matter ....either way please keep up the writing and informative discussions ....Raven Bear and Spirit Hawk

Okono
Thank you. You are so kind.

dirtbike668
Humans are complex beings. As you observed, a relationship built solely on sex will fail. We need the mental and emotional relationship as well as physical stimulation. Even sex is 85% mental and 15% physical. This is especially true for women. Her mind must be stimulated for orgasm before the physical act.

The relationship of Ann and Brad is more than physical sex. Much of this is not explicit and must be read between the lines. As you observed, Brad would not remain if sex were the only factor. Ann and Brad share an emotional bond, they are in love.

Jealousy is a strong emotion. Brad is jealous of Andy, the dog, since Ann submits to Andy’s desires at Brad’s expense. It is clear that there is a dominant – submissive relationship under laying these actions. But Ann, the dominant is submitting to the dog. This role play is fine for her but a problem for Andy should she assert herself. But by submission, Ann enjoys incredible physical sex.

She is also playing on Brad’s guilt in introducing Andy into the relationship. I found that this is a common element in many woman, dog, man relationships where the man starts the woman into K9 sex and finds that he is left out. It is too easy for a woman to resort to pure K9 sex for physical pleasure and uses the man for emotional and intellectual stimulation.

However, an abusive relationship cannot last among reasonable adults. If you have read further. Brad had insight and changes his attitude and that of Ann so the relationship gains balance. The man has to be an active participant in the woman’s sexual adventures with the dog.

There are many woman- woman -dog relationships too. Again, balance is key.

Raven Bear and Spirit Hawk
Your offer to ghost write is very flattering. However, I must decline.

Please consider writing your own posting. Everyone is kind and will enjoy sharing your experiences. Readers want to read of actual experiences. There are some writers whose imagination takes us beyond reality and even pornography needs a level of realism to be effective. Of course, if the reader is prepared for fantasy then fantasy porn works.

Alice

and yet again brad and alice you have me jealous and excited i love your stories i can't get enough of them! :puppykiss: :puppykiss: :puppykiss:

I love your stories alice very well written and very captivating must be from the old cliff-hanger school. Thanks

Dear Alice are you on vacation? We miss your wit wisdom and eroticism! Hope you are having a good time!

hoseboy

hoseboy and Kind Readers

My house is filled with guests who live in smoke or fire areas and are staying with us. I have no time to myself. I need a good K9 f**k but everyone is always around. So just a quick note to let you know that we are all fine and we now have smoke free air.

Hope that CAL Fire will get these controlled so my life with Emily, Jim and our K9 lovers will get back to normal.

Alice

Alice,

I did not realize you were so close to the fires. I hope everything is ok with you and your family. Here's hoping you get that K-9 fuck soon!

Best Wishes,

hoseboy

Alice, I just completed reading your wonderfully imaginative story, as well as the comments of your many readers. I would like to compliment you on the style and detail of your writing. I found the story both creative and arousing. :blush: and was happy to see it continued.

I am also impressed with the amount of time you take to reply to the comments and questions of your readers. I feel this develops a bond of shared experience between the reader and the author that makes the story even MORE enjoyable !

Thank You Alice for being such a great contributor, and sharing your insights, and gift for storytelling with this board.

You have certainly earned a BIG TEN from me ! :beer:

:heart:
redhog

Bump 10 my Friend :rock:

hoseboy We are far north of the fires of our friends but the Northern CA fires brings smoke into our area. We just can't wait of the west wind and fog to clear the air. We have take our families into Mill Valley and Sausolito to escape the smoke.
But the ordeal will soon be over. I'm lucky that I get to sleep with Jim. Poor Emily is by herself each night. And, of course, none of us get the dogs.

redhog Thank you for the kind comment. Yes, I enjoy responding to replies. There are many interesting discussions. A 10 for your thoughtful reply.

aubyd My Dear Friend... Thank you.

Alice

You are very Welcome my Dear Friend and Thank You :angel: :heart:

Girls:

1. Was your introduction to dogs? C) Non consensual (raped or almost raped)

2. The introduction was initiated by? B) Assisted by a person

3. The person who introduced me to dogs was? B) Another girl or female lover

4. Did you feel conflicted as Ann was? B) I felt dirty at first but feel good now

5. Does your husband/boy friend feel good about his sexual capabilities compared to the dog? I dont have a boyfriend

6. Does you husband/boy friend actively participate while you make love to your dog? Same as above

7. Have you performed before others? C) Before small group of people I know

7A If you have performed before others, who initiated the idea? C) Another woman

8. Do you have vaginal orgasms with your dog? B) Most of the time

9. Why do you continue making love with your dog? A) Best sex ever

10. If you had a dog before your relationship with your husband/boy friend, how did you let him know about the dog? Never had a boyfriend and never told my ex girlfriend.




Unfortunatly my brother(who I am sharing this account with) dont want to answer the questions for boys(he is shy):(

Anyway, great story:)
Love & kisses/
Mia

This post has been edited by Wolverina on Aug 1 2008, 03:00 PM

Here's hoping your life will get back to normal. We all miss your posts and observations.

Take care,

hoseboy

:) Hi Alice, First of all, I am a very happily married bi oriented white male who is in the quiet minority who seldom posts but likes to read. I am really enjoying your writing and find the situation very arrousing. Though not active at the moment in the beast sex area, it does cross my mind to become involved again as I was when I was younger although I know that my wife will freak. She has no idea that I have ever had beastial relations although we have watched some good animal videos together while in bed. It really is not her favorite subject though - unfortunately. *sighs*
I grew up on a farm and experimented with horses - an experience which I enjoyed and I used to let our neigbor's dog lick and try to mount me and he did penetrate me briefly several times although those experiences were painful because I really didn't know what I was doing and I was not relaxed, lubed or prepped. Frankly, neither the dog nor I really understood what we were doing - we just knew that we wanted to do it. The dog used to like licking my cock and balls as I jerked off and he'd always happily clean me up afterwards and I loved the feel pf his tongue on my sensitive uncut cockhead.
The one thing that I find puzzling about so many men is that they expect their wives or girl friends do do certain things but if ever asked to do the same thing - they are insulted and don't seem to feel that fair is fair. This ranges from anal sex to oral to playing with pets. I know guys who love to have their cocks sucked and have the woman/girl swallow but refuse to kiss the girl when she is done until she has wahsed her mouth out and brushed her teeth. Heaven forbid that they should ever taste what they sometimes demand or force their girl to tatse.
I see the same in the pet love world where a man will want his wife/girlfriend to have sex with a dog - to suck him and to let the dog mount and penetrate her vaginally and even anally - yet he refuses to do anything oral or anal with that same dog.?????? I found the fact that Ann had her husband eat her out after making it with Andy to be a huge turn on - I'd strongly suggest that she have him share Andy's cock with her orally and maybe let Andy mount him and take him. I see little said of the man of a couple sharing the dog in any way other than sometimes doing as Ann's husband and "cleaning her up" with his mouth after she has uncoupled. Is this really as uncommon as it seems or is it just not spoken of a lot in the forums? Ladies and guys - your views on this area please - and thank you for the story. It's HOT and I'll be looking for more... :) :) :)