Alice, I have not seen this story before. What a great story! You touch on something very important, that the woman may have sex with the dog and become addicted and maybe unihibited in a way she can't be with her husband/ boy friend. Men be careful what you wish for. I quite agree with you that if the couple go into this with the right attitude then the man and the woman will both be winners. It sounds like even Brad has really adjusted to the situation even if he complains some. I have been visiting another site where the founder of it is a 23 year old female that had sex with a dog and admits to it. She seems to admit liking the experience at the time but insists she will never do it again (the guilt factor trip). It seems more common place that when women experience bestiality they don't go back to square one. I found it interesting Alice, that you said if Jim died you would not get a new boyfriend/husband. Sounds like we know what your prefernce is!

Thanks for all the great stories, this one is really good provacative and thoughfully written.

You go girl!

hoseboy

I would love that kinda relationship!! with a dog and man ^_^

mel_33_au

Is your first post given to me? Thank you so much. I gave yuo a 10 to start you off. Just 99 more posts, even short thank you's to other authors and contributors and you can start giving votes too. The authors and contributors will appreciate what you write. Thank you again.

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wicked mutt
You can start with a dog. He is easier to train and keep than a man. The dog is not judgemental and as long as you know the rules of the pack and how to keep a beta packmate happy, your dog will love you.

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Hoseboy

Thank you for your kind appreciation for my writing. Yes, when a woman has experienced a dog, she is changed forever. Sex with an average dog is better than any man with few exceptions.
However, the relationship with a dog is not complex as with a human and thus, not as rewarding. If Jim did pass, I know that I will not marry again or even have a boyfriend. I still have my Emily. If she were to pass, I would probably find a girlfriend even if Jim were still here.
Jim is an exceptional husband and I love him dearly. I know that I will never find another like him. I won't even try.
Jim is the father of my children and I love them all dearly. Children are the one benefit of having a husband. But then, a woman could have a sperm donor or adopt.
I find the love of a woman much more comforting and compatible with me. I could imagine a life with another woman and our dogs. So, if Jim were to pass, which I hope will be in the very, very distant future, I would live with just my Emily.

A 10 for your thoughtful post
Thanks again
Alice

This post has been edited by alicealice on May 26 2008, 09:26 PM

Alice,

A dynamic with a man is that he has to feel confident to get a proper erection. If that confidence is missing then his sex life suffers. Men are also visual and have secret desires to see their wife/girlfriend have sex with other men or a dog. A dog is less threateneing than a man. The woman is usually not going to run away with a dog but this is very possible with another man. The male psyche can be fragile and threatend by the introduction of a dog into a relationship even though the man wants to see this, however he does not want to see his woman have a k-9 addiction. However it does seem that if the man can't perform what a wonderful solution in having a dog to fulfill his wife/girlfriiends sexual needs. There seems to be a couple of results from the woman's standpoint. the dog can perform many more times than a man and the woman develops a stronger sexual appetite. Am I right about this Alice? From the man's standpoint, it appears the woman provides more and better quality sex to the man after the dog is introduced into the relationship. Men need to get over their egos and enjoy the ride!

hoseboy

hoseboy

Yes, your paragraph sums up all of the important observations.

A man should be an active participant in the relationship of a woman and her dog. The experience is much richer for both of them. It took Brad and Ann some time to come to this understanding.

My husband Jim understood this from the begining since he could not satisfy my sexual needs alone. Captain, our dog, is an extension of Jim. Jim is very active with me while Captain mounts and ties. His fingers and especially his mouth can excite me as no dog can. I know that a lot of dog porn shows the woman alone with the dog. (I hate dildog porn!) But in reality, I love to have Jim or Emily play with me as I have my dog. With Emily in the mix, Jim has a lot to do even with Buddy helping.

As we age, Jim will not be able to perform as he does now since men naturally slow and medication is needed to sustain erections. We expect that dogs will augment Jim even more. Jim can still perform orally and Emily and I will be more active in performing oral sex on Jim since his natural blood flow will not maintain a hard erection as it does now.

A 10 for a good summary.

Alice

hi there alice...yes that is my first post here or anywhere to anything on this site...and a huge thank you for the vote too...i luved reading the story, and i would luv for me to be the girl in the story and to have my poor excuse of a hubby (i am knot married, not married to male) watch me as i scream with intense orgasms with my doggy luver :angel:

mel_33_au

The affection of a dog is of great value so you are fortunate. There are many women who are in bad relationships with men and would trade for a dog if they only knew how much better their lives could be. The social barriers are significant and many women, especially older women, could not even consider it.

Some younger women are now introduced to the zoo life by their boy friends who think that it's cool to watch a girl get f**ked by a dog. I believe that the percentage of zoo ladies among younger women is significantly higher than even my generation. (I’m in my 30’s)

So be happy that you have your dog. It could be worse.

Thanks for the reply

Alice

Alice,

Very interesting insight into the dynamic of that particular trio.

My question comes from a slightly different angle, and is really a 2 part question:

In the past when I had a dog (and gf/wife), I was always clearly the alpha, and my partner mirrored that as they helped train and assimilate the dog into our 'pack'. I can't imagine (although I've seen 'em!) a relationship where we weren't in charge... and from past experience dogs don't much care for unclear structure.

2nd part: I'm often sexually dominant with my partner, and they have enjoyed that as the intimacy and trust are increased when that power exchange occurs (it's not a 24/7 lifestyle thing, it's just another facet of life we enjoy). My partners know that my joy comes from watching their eyes roll back in their head as they are cumming, saying all the right things to them to make them even crazier. That can happen simply with us together, with a flotilla of toys, or perhaps with a dog :)

Is it your assertion that the dog will always compete to be alpha in a sexual context?

I know submissive women (powerful women!) who fantasize about being taken like this; I wonder if they would lose control and develop a doggy addiction as well. At the same time, that desire can be turned even higher if it's controlled (say by a sexual Dom like me). I wonder how this would actually play out.

Ideas? Input?

Scarey info!!!!! :P :P ;) :D

Joe horney Thanks for the Bump and comment.

looney2nz

Dogs find their ranking in a pack based on their perceptions of the pack mates and their own capabilities. Yes, of course, a dog would like to improve his ranking and will assert dominance over pack mates. If the pack mate counters, the dog decides if he should reassert or back off.

So if the husband and wife bow to a dog's assertions, he will take the alpha position. If he is rebuffed, he will move lower in the ranking. A dog will act differently depending on who is around.

If the dog perceives the husband as an alpha, the dog will not approach the wife while the husband is around but will aggressively approach her when the husband is not. This behavior is reinforced if the wife is sexually submissive when approached. Yes, some women enjoy this behavior. Even women who would normally be dominant may submit to their dogs. Consistency is essential.

As you have observed, a dog will conform to his ranking and will be happy to behave in a consistent environment even if he is the omega; he knows the expectation and how to behave. Ambiguity confuses the dog and he will not be happy; his behavior will not be consistent and he may actually attack in the confusion.

While humans can tolerate role switching because they know that in reality the roles have not switched. A dog does not have a "let's pretend" thought process and role switching is confusing for him. The ranking becomes ambiguous and stressful for the dog.

As you have also observed, a dog can provide significant sexual stimulation and satisfaction for a woman. Even dominant women discover that a dog can be addictive. A dog can be a household member and always available. She can have him when she wants. A normally dominant woman could let the dog have her when the dog wishes. She does not have to admit her addiction since she is just “taken by the dog” and not her desires. Ann was inviting Andy the dog to take her by her arousal and lack of panties. The appearance to Brad was that Andy was the initiator while in reality it was Ann’s addiction.

Thanks and a 10 for a well written note.

Alice

Alice - My friend Dee (Deborah) loved this story and asked me to tell you how much she likes to read all of your storys.

And thank you for the nice compliment on the Leroy story also.

All the best.

Ron (rt8290)

Alice,

Since I failed to mention it before, I love your writing :)

I also know the tech industry, inclusive of tech writers/editors.
It can be VERY very dry :)

I tried to use the 'rate' feature, but when I clicked on a 10 for you it took me to an error page :(

With my balancing act, I've only lurked here once in a while... so I'm more NooB than not with the UI and architecture of the board. What's the rating system all about?

Oh that 'hummingbird mind' (a tip of the hat to Ted Nelson, who coined the phrase one night at PARC)... back on track :)

I completely understand what you're saying in regards to the D/s side of things... and while it's been awhile since I had a dog, at one point in time I had a townhouse that was a total menagerie :)

Consistency is everything, and that applies to any pet/companion on the planet.
While you have to understand and respect the power they have, they have to understand that you're the boss (albeit a loving boss) :)

I didn't know any better when I first got cats (w/college girlfriend), and I treated them basically the same as the dogs. People were shocked when the cats came when I called 'em and that they would respond to 'sit, stay, down, up, etc.' - I was just consistent :)

I think if the dog understood his omega status, and the structure was consistent, that it should be a fairly easy environment for all; the wrinkle is precisely what you described - a Domme woman could easily find herself as available and addicted as a submissive woman.

While I take some amount of pride in my ability to tease, delay and build a woman to orgasm ('not yet', 'wait', especially in discrete public situations with the right preparation) :)
I doubt that I could hold a candle to the raw animal power of an aroused dog!
The saving grace is that I can do a LOT more than a dog :)
While their gig is a one note samba, samba is HOT!

I imagine Ann's relationship is horribly stressful with Brad, and from my perspective she is being enormously emotionally abusive to him. Brad opened Pandora's box and Ann is simultaneously enjoying the fruits of it while punishing him :( I hope this relationship has gained some footing and is righting itself.

Namaste

bump for Justice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

rexg thanks for the BUMP

rt8290 Thank you and thank Dee (Deborah) for me. Please continue writing of your adventures and hers. I love reading them.

looney2nz

A member can vote after 100 postings. A post can be a simple "Thank you" or "Bump" reply. I viewed your profile and you have 3 at the time of this reply. Give 97 more "thank you" to authors and you can vote. The authors will appreciate your thanks.

The frequency of longer postings also determines the number of downloads. I have not looked to understand the algorithm. I believe that a short “thank you” does not count towards downloads and multiple line replies are required.

There are a number of entries following the original posting describing the evolution of the Ann, Brad, Andy relationship. We discover how Andy learned his skills as his previous mistress visits our friends. You might want to follow the thread and read how things unfold.

Thanks for you nice note. A 10

Alice

Alice, you are a treasure!

Thanks for sharing these incredible stories and please continue putting these incredible experiences into words so that we may live vicariously through you and others!

:heart:

...and a tenski of course