im thinking of telling my girl friend and maby try ang get her into it too!

im just wondering how should i go about this?

(again probly a repeat but i couldnt find it)

This post has been edited by BomB191 on Jul 10 2006, 01:03 PM

Take care. Your girlfriend is not likely to be into animal, so do not force her, not even suggest her. If she really wants, she will tell you, if you talk about it.

How she will take it? You never know. Think about than an ex can shout all your secrets out to the public in no time, if she goes for that.

You could also have the same luck as a friend of mine:

He: I'm into animals
She: Sexual ?
He: Yes.
She: Ok, do what you will with your horse, but keep off mine.

Yor are the one who knows your girlfriend best.

2 true

many thanks

May I make a suggestion: Over the years I found that very often it was my dog that broke the ice.

Their habit of smelling everything that comes within range usually gives you a clear insight into the mind of the other individual. The reaction of most people is to bend down, extend a hand, say "Good Doggie" or something equally purile and stroke the dogs head. In 2 of the 3 instances of my meeting someone who was likely to share my love, the person reacted by being not overly loving but caressed the animal in a way that conveyed trust to both the dog and myself. Their hands usually ran all over the animal and they were saying things like "hello you gorgeous creature", it was then my turn and I sometimes said for example "I really love my dog" or "My dog and I have a relationship", which in turn usually elicits a response along the lines of "What, all the way?". etc.etc.

How does the person to whom you are referring react to your "animals" if it is brought up in conversation or thrown into a discussion at supper. It would be good indicator of their leanings and give you a good basis for further discussion.

If the worst comes to the worst, you might have to content yourself with being as you are on your own and keeping it a secret (Which is hard work) or searching for another soul mate.

Please do not hurt the others persons feelings by throwing it at her as an ultimatum she is then very likely to use a PA system to inform the world at large of your preferences.

As in all associations that could result in mutual love, it takes time, caring and understanding.

Pokerman

Good luck, I would like to know the out come. I'm having same problem with boyfriend.

There is nothing more fun than having your soul mate sharing your love for your furry friends but again there is nothing more risking than talking/getting them into it. You can never force it into a person. Many a relationship have been broken in this attempt this includes one of mine. It is worse if your soul mate goes public fortunately for me that dint happen. Imagine what would happen in a such a situation where there is tremendous heat and taboo sourrounding it. You and your furry friend dont deserve it.

So be very slow and carefull. I learnt it the hard way. The first time I failed miserably the second time I learnt the trick to let your mate's curiosity do the work.

You may try leaving beastiality related books where you mate can see and try to start a conversation with it.

She: Are you interested in these things?
Me: Why are you?
Watch the reaction closely if there is a pause or a nod its great if there is an immidiate yeeww then she might not be ready yet or worse might not like it at all

Change the topic and say "I am just curious not that I am interested"

This will tell you for sure if your friend is interested or not.

If you are very much interested in being involved in a threesome sex with your fury friend but if your soul mate is not at all interested instead of pushing him/her try one of the beastiality hook up this way you can save both your relationship (if it has any meaning to it) and your interest.

Good luck... luckily for me my new love is interested in sex with my fury friends too.

This post has been edited by i_luv_mypets on Jul 14 2006, 05:53 AM