This is why I have said from day one, that you NEVER tell anyone anything... all it takes is one ex- b/f or g/f or friend (or a sister) to ruin your life...

About the best that you can do now, is to laugh it off and deny everything... or go the disgusted route...

Good luck!!!

You should never tell anyone unless you know they are zoo first and you should have stayed out of the fight. you should say you are sorry and hope for the best.

I'm really sorry that had to happen to you. It's too bad you came to think she could be trusted. Apparently her true brat, selfish nature emerged. For your unique situation, I would only trust my secret to other zoos for now on. I feel no need to ever share my sexual life with my family, typical or atypical. My significant other, if I get married, is another story, but I will consider everything about myself and them if I go that route and I would prefer a very open and honest communication from the get go. However, I feel no need to share my sexual past or otherwise with a partner unless we're getting married. So far I have done nothing with an animal, but if I come to that bridge and cross it, my current mindset stands. You never know how those less permanent relationships would end.

Most people don't even want to hear about exes and past sexual conquests anyway, and I guess pretty much that can apply to whoever or whatever you had a sexual or non-sexual relationship with.

This post has been edited by GreatDana on Jul 18 2007, 09:00 PM

Ohdear. That could be a bit of a problem. I'd do what Fizzgig said if I were you, if you're a good actor; if not, WebHamster's advice could help.

Im sure you're sister has come to her senses by now. In the heat of an argument most people tend to say things that they don't mean and do things that they wouldn't usually do. After she calmed down she may have re-thought the whole situation. Most likely she won't tell your parents, but she may try to use what she knows to frighten you if she really is a twisted person, in which case she may want to consider her own psychological health. I wish you luck!

Yes thats one thing you need to keep to yourself or only tell someone you really trust. Your sister is like everyone else and we all just say anything during an argument. I would do what dixiedoll said to do by just playing it off and acting normal.