Hi everyone, this might get a little long, but I could really use some advice. I grew up around dogs, and have always considered them to be just another member of the family. So while it seemed like the next logical step to me to view a canine as a possible sexual partner, I had no idea anyone else in the world felt the same until I ran accross the word zoophillia and looked it up online.
For me, zoophile compleatly describes me. All my life I've loved dogs, they're people to me, if a little furrier than average. And in the past few years, I've noticed that in addition to loving dogs, I've started Loving dogs, and fantisizing about mating with them (I'm a girl by the way).
While I've had fantisies for a while, I just recently discovered that there are other people out there who actually do it, and the idea of me having sex with a dog in real life is still new and a bit scary. Of course, I won't be able to have a fully grown male of my own foe at least three years or more because of living situations. But when the time comes, I know I want a German Sheppard.
The problem is that Sheppards are pretty big dogs, and I'm a little afraid of getting hurt, so I'd kinda like to start out with a smaller dog. As luck would have it, my parents are going out of town next week and I get to take care of their dog, a medium sized male black lab. He's a sweet dog, and I've thought about him as a partner a few times, but I wasn't expecting to have the chance to suddenly, and now I'm not sure.
I know I could always get something to stretch myself out before mating a sheppard, but I doubt I'll ever have this sort of oppertunity again until I have my own dog. Basically, I'm not sure if I'm hesitent because I'm not ready yet or because it just seems too good to be true.
Anyway, thanks for taking the time to read all this, and thanks for your advice.
ShadowSearcher

Hey Darkshadow,

You know, it's funny about how many of us fantasize about our first encounter with the furry creatures that we love but when the time comes, we get cold feet. I did and there isnt a part of me that regrets it. For me, it was unbeliveably wonderful and was everything I had desired. I too love animals; all shapes and sizes but mostly on a platonic level. I will say that there is something to say about taking the plunge and indulging your feelings.

Like skydiving, when you're on the egde of the hatch of the plane. You know you are there because you wanted to be. You've taken the steps to be a mile up and know that you want to jump. Fear is the only thing making you hesitate but deep down, you want the adrenaline and the feeling of touching the ground, proving you are capeable of anything. Just dive sweetie. Life's too short not to.

You may or not regret it. Chances are that you won't because even if it's bad, you'll learn through experience... usually the best way. [SPAM].com is a great resource but it's very different in the heat of the moment. When that beast is on top of you, giving it his all in total negligence of your feelings you will know all that needs to be known. You will learn your threashold, technique and mostly about yourself.

I would recommend trying to stretch out a little before you take the plunge, it will be more comfortable for you and you'll have a better time. Even though he is a medium sized dog, he may not be as proportional as you think ;). It's one of those things you can never judge; like how many beans are in the jar or what time the garbage man will come. Better safe than sorry.

Another thing to consider is his claws. Fact is, dogs have dew claws and they will tear up your sides in the heat of the moment. Personally, I like it but if you like, you could resolve it with a pair of socks (no white tube socks though....remain fashionaly aware...)

Anyway, hope I helped. Have fun!

Shane

d - it's good that you're being careful. I suggest you take it slow and easy, play with him and let him smell you, and see how he responds. Have you been intimate with him at all in any way yet?

You might catch him completely off guard. The animals get cold feet, too, sometimes. If you come at him all hot out of nowhere he might wonder what the heck is going on all of a sudden.

Also, keep in mind that if you succeed, he will see you differently from then on. You might have to teach him that it's OK with _you_ but not when anyone else is around.

That said, it might work out very well for the two of you into the future. Good luck!



:drinks:

Thanks for the advice. I think I've decided to wait for now... unless of course I change my mind. ;) :P
I guess, all things considered, I'd rather wait to get a dog of my own and have a relationship to build on, instead of doing it now with what's avalible.
DarkShadow

Hey there.
I would realy recomend that you take advantage of this oppertunity. Being together with a dog is one of the best expiriences you could have. Don't get nervous about it just act out your fantacy. Think how much you have wanted this fantacy. Go with your heart. Do what you think is right, but have fun. You never know an apportunity like this may not come again for quite some time.

Good luck and keep us posted on the outcome.

Dog Man

:angel: :diablo: Oh, at least get your pussy licked.

Ok, so I've played around with him a couple times now, the first time he licked me a little but seemed mostly confused. The second time, he definitly knew what was going on. But even though he's more than happy to mount, he can't seem to find the right spot. :blink: He ended up humping empty air most of the time.
I tried shifting postions, only to have him connect with my butt, which is something I definitly don't want! :huh:
I did try to guide him to the right hole, but as soon as he felt my hand by his sheath, he started humping so fast that I couldn't control him, and he poked at my butt again... That's about when I freaked, and stopped trying.
Advice, anyone?
DarkShadow

Maybe you should jack him off a few times first, sounds like he is very inexperienced. He needs to get used to getting hard and shooting his load. Maybe then the novelty will wear off a bit and he will be a little less anxious.

But, you got a green light! Now you have his interest and attention, and you can develop a rapport with him. Good luck!

keep us posted ... sometimes males have a hardtime finding the hole :lol:

so I have been told :P :P

have patients.. :lol: :lol:

Just a thought, how about missionary position with you leaning off a couch/legs on floor,maybe you could control/guide him better coming onto you?
Enjoy

Well, at least you know he is up for it.

Like some of the other posters said, try different positions, or just giving him a few handjobs to get him used to the feeling off your hand on his sheath, so he doesn't start humping until you've got him where you want him

Whatever happens, I wish you and him the best of luck

My wife had a similar experience with a lab. he would mount her and thrust into her but then he withdrew.