Rules of Engagement

Need to Know information for people whom wish to build a Loving, Stable Relationship with your Equine or Canine.

First Things First. You need to ask yourself are you looking for a quickie or are you looking for a Loving Relationship.

QUICKIES: There are three things wrong with quickies. First is an issue of safety . Engaging in sex with a strange animal can be dangerous. For you will have no idea how the animal will react in a giving situation. This uncertainty can lead to pain, injury and or death to you and or the animal. Second reason I don’t like quickies is the sexual fulfillment tends to be one sided. And third it tends to leave your companion with the feeling that you may not care for them on an emotional level. Animals are not sex toys. They are living, breathing, creatures that have feelings. They are capable of Unconditional Love. All they need is our love, care and protection.

RELATIONSHIPS: Before building a relationship, you must first build a foundation on which to build that relationship. You need respect and trust to build that foundation. Respect and Trust is never giving, It is earned. It takes time to earn their Respect and Trust. Once you have their Respect and Trust you will earn their Love. Remember, Lovemaking / Loveplay is a benefit of the relationship. NOT the Purpose of it. Love them as you would want to be Loved. Care for them as you would want to be Cared for. Love them, DON’T Use Them. The more stable the foundation, the more rewarding the relationship.

TIME: Give your companion time to get to know you. Take time to get to know them. The more stable the foundation, the more rewarding the relationship. Any relationship worth having, is worth taking your time.

REJECTION or OBJECTION: If for any reason, if your prospective partner Rejects you or Objects to your advances, you should back off immediately and without delay. They have as much a right to say no as you do. By backing off immediately and without delay you show them that they not only have that right but you respect that right. By backing off immediately and without delay you not only will earn their respect but you will be well on your way to earning their trust. After you have their trust, you will be well on your way to earning their Love. NEVER, EVER, force yourself onto an animal. NEVER, EVER force them to accept you. You do, then you are not an ANIMAL LOVER, You are a ANIMAL ABUSER. Respect them, They will respect you. Don’t hurt them they should not hurt you.

FENCEHOPPING. I don’t recommend Fencehopping (Engaging in sex with an animal that is owned by someone else). Even if the animal in question welcomes your advances. If you get caught, You may be told to leave. You could be Blackmailed. If you work there, you may get terminated (Fired). The police could be called, you could get arrested, you could go to jail, or worse, prison. In some areas, the law allows owners to protect their livestock by any means. They could shoot first, and ask question latter. In some countries lawmakers are trying to pass laws that would treat us Animal Lovers like other sex offenders, meaning that we may be required to register as sex offenders wherever you live. Fencehoppers makes us all look bad if they are caught. Fence hoppers get caught new laws are written. We all suffer. There is one way and only one way not to get caught, DO NOT do it. Fencehopping is bad.

SHARING: Something I am not comfortable in doing. Though STD ( Sexually Transmitted Disease ) is not easily transmitted from animal to human or human to animal. It may be possible to catch a STD from another Human though the animal. Respect your companion. Don’t Share them. They should be your lover, not something that is freely giving to another to use.

CAREING: Animals need a great deal of care, medically and emotionally. They need our love. If you can not properly provide for an animal, if you can not give them the care that they need to live long, happy, healthy lives, then please DO NOT take on that responsibility.

BONDING:
When they are sick, stay with them, comfort them.
Care for them when injured.
Protect them when they are threatened.
Shelter them when weather is bad.
Love them as you would want to be Loved.
Care for them as you would want to be Cared for.
Love them, DON’T Use Them.

Respect them, Trust them, Love them.

The more stable the foundation, the more rewarding the relationship.

LASTLY: Their are two types of people in the world of bestiality. There are the Animal Lovers, the Lovers of Animals, and there are Animal Abusers. It hurts me emotionally and physically when I read a story in the paper or I hear a story on the news how someone injured or killed an animal or how someone sexually abused an animal. It hurts me when I think that those outside our world are looking on us Animal Lovers and Animal Abusers under the same light. I fear till we as Animal Lovers can separate ourselves from the Animal Abusers of the world we will never win our Fight for Acceptances.


Be An Animal Lover, Not A Animal Abuser.

This post has been edited by racoolman on Mar 25 2006, 05:52 AM

a solid ten. good job!

hmm i truly enjoyed reading your post and you certainly can tell how much you love and respect animals! ^_^


ive always had the utmost respect and reverance for animals. More so than humans a lot of the time. Ive devoted my life to saving what is of this planet, much of it because of the organisms that live on it. That said, its hard for me, because I guess i dont consider myself neither a beast nor a zoo.

Although I admire, respect and cherish animals as much as if not more than humans, I cannot take that extra step to becoming a zoo. I cannot love only my animal, kiss it in the mouth, have it sleep in my bed every night, not get angry at it, and I can only anthropomorphize it's actions to a certain exent. I have a hard time believing that when a dog or horse ejaculates it is showing little more than its animalistic instinct to breed, that love and gratefulness somehow exist between human and animal partner. It is still an animal in my eyes and it can not provide the emotions for me that human love does.

It is because of that animalistic nature that i find dog sex so appealing. The raw, natural, and uninhibited nature of the situation is what turns me on. The thought that this animal is horny, and wants to breed NOW. I find nothing sexy about the situation, just so animalistic its extremely arousing.

Just thought id give my view. I agree with everything that is said, im just trying to see where i fit in in this community. :crazy:

You my friend are an Animal Lover, You just Not a Lover of Animals.

:inlove: :heart: :blush:

Yessss!

You put it in words that everyone can understand, and understand the basic problems about sthe sexual relation between human and animal. And state thet we either do not accept any sexual action towards animals, like abuse and fencehopping. Most out in the world do not know us, all they see of us are caught fencehoppers, or abused animals left back by sexual criminals.
In fact there is more to it than that, if we could show out who we are - live one week in the Big Brother house - folks may get anothe rlooks on us, though most of them will never understand.
There are still many folks out there, who do not understand same-gender love, even if they (may) have realized that all mhomos not need to be child offenders, or rapers.
I think your description deserves to get read outside this forum too.

Must remember to vote you a ten

Well said! :)

Although, why limit this to just love for equines and canines?

It is just as important to build a loving, stable relationship with your bovine, and treat them with all the respect, love and admiration they deserve to be treated with. :wub:

It is bovines in my case that my heart beat extra for. I admire them and adore them.

So... whichever species you love, be always sure to only do things that they want to do,
always treat them with respect, always be there for them.

a very well worded essay on what its really about, thanks for posting

HB58
+10 for ya

:clapping: Well done, and easy to understand, greatly laid out & said. :D

Another vary well writen post! Thanks again for your time in writeing them.


10/10 from ManDingo!

i commend you rac :drinks:

very well said ^_^

Thank You Rac, so very well written. :clapping:

10 From CBMX

Very good advice / directions. Well said.
All with animals should read your writings.

a 10 coming your way

Another well written post Rac :clapping:

Thanks for sharing it with us :beer:

Excellent post!! Thank you very much to take the time to write it for us.
This is something I hope lots of newbies will read and find guidance from.
Well done :clapping: