I told my boyfriend about me being into all of this. Im glad he supports me and everything. But i cant do anything. I mean its always been a fantasy with a dog for a year now but it has never and will probably never come true. I know im one of the lucky ones whos lover accepts them for who they are and want to be a part of it and i dont feel completely rejected but i cant help to think in a sence hes mad at me. if i ever did he sees it as cheating. has anyone delt with a major rejection or what was the worst that happened when you admitted to some one youl ove that you were a zoo?

i havent had to deal with that yet but let me ask you a question.. did he say he was mad at you or that it would be cheating if you did do it..

depending on how open he is perhaps you could do it with him and a dog at the same time; if hes not that open then you could always ask him how he feels about you and a dog

you have to decide what is important with you and decide that if he is the one to accept you. He is angry maybe but you have to make your life desision. if he will not accept you, will you keep him?

I told one girlfriend that I had some fantasies about bestiality. She said that she didn't even want to date someone who had such thoughts. You can guess what happened there. Another that I told about my interest said that it was okay - but she felt that it was cheating on her, and she didn't want me to be playing with any male dogs or other animals while I was involved with her. Eventually we broke up over other primary issues - and in part I resented that she set that limit on us. I gave up a part of myself and she gave up......nothing. Most I could never be so open with - they had given me signs that it wasn't okay. My best response has been acceptance but with no mutual interest.

My girlfriend fell for me like a brick, despite the fact she knew I was a zoo.
Perhaps because I am no longer active.
But she knows I still have those urges and feelings for animals.
She's very open minded yet loves me for who I am.
I couldn't be happier! :D

As I have said on other pages. Got plastered one night and let slip about my past with my four leged lovers, awoke the next morning she was gone and so was our friendship. In a couple of days it was fairly well known about my love live in her home town. So from then on I keep my mouth shut unless they are open about it or I have found them in a compromeing situration. On several occasions I have found a female with a dog that left nothing to the imagation, some of them became good friends. No I never got to have sex with them. Most of the males I have known even the ones from up in sheep country would joke about haveing sex with ewes or having a poddy calf suck them. Yes a few were caught, but they claimed that they were just trying to see if someone could do it, or just trying to see what it felt like.