Im sorta new to love for animals and it all started when i was at a friends and his dog tried humping me. we just laughed it off but when i got home i lookeed into it and got curious. now i want to experiance true love with a dog in just about any possible way (with the dog) and i have a couple thousand pics and clips, however sometimes i think to myself why. why do i love animals? (this may seem like a familiar post but its not i read those and decided to make my own because i didnt know if it would fit.) is it normal to question yourself about your love for animals? sometimes i even debate if i should or not and then i think come on this is wrong its an animal. dont get me wrong, i am definately into animals...well dogs mainly but i have never experianced anything other then a casual jerk on a couple friends dogs but none of them could cum (either too young or fixed) and my own dog who is fixed and very uniterested in sex. im sure once i try it i will love it but back to my question. is it normal to think about if its wrong or if i really should? thanks for any help you can give.


(ps if this is the wrong topic or whatever please move it or help me to fix it thank you!)

hello again. i made 1 mistake already. i saw the title and realized i forgot to mention something. feel free to post any similar storys too about what you may think or do to overcome such thinking. thanks

Hey Dogmann,

I'm also pretty new to this whole subject also - and I have even less experience than you, but I wanted to let you know that I often question myself on why I like animals. If you think about it, you can't really help questioning yourself everynow and then, when there is so much pressure from society about how 'wrong' it is to 'love' your critters. I don't think many zoos are 'out' like gay people, and so that part of their life often has to stay a secret - which might lead you to question yourself.

For me anyway, the reason I love animals is because I've never been even remotely attracted to anyone (sofar) and I've always had animals.

In any case, this is starting to look like a novel (sorry) but to answer your question, I'm constantly questioning why I like animals more than people, which is why I like this site so much, it's so great to know there are others out there - what a great resource for all of us!!

thanks bc and im into animals because my first thought was wow is that real (i couldnt believe what a dogs dick really looked like) so i "investigated" it and became very interested and also because im not the best looknig and the girls dont really like me much and i am a mix. i mike m/f animals and f humans but for some reason i like m/dog the best. i would possably try minor things with a guy such as helping him with an animal and such but thats another story. anyway thanks again. i was thinking i was the only one but its good to know im knot.

I was rerererereading my reply but I don't think I was very clear (actually I'm sure);

I think with any alternate lifestyle it's normal to question whether or not its okay especially one that is frowned on by people in general - I always ask myself if it makes me feel bad/guilty (not in my case) or if i'm hurting anyone (never ever) - I hope that helps a little bit

I have never questioned this.. It wasnt till I was in my 30's that I discovered that I was interested in dogs in a sexual way .. I have always loved animals... and cant think of a time that we didnt have a dog, cat, or even a horse while growing up.. My parents were avid animal lovers and I remember at one point we had 4 of our own dogs and tended to take in strays and find them homes.. I am even trying to remember a time when we didnt have a pet and I cant think of a time at all...

I tend to think that since I didnt discover this till later in my life it was easier for me to deal with.. I was already comfortable with my sexuality .. and had explored different .. ummmm... sexual experiences.. I have always been pretty laid back and can accept most anything that comes my way.. maybe this helped as well.. being non-judgemental where others are concerned :0)

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**note** after writing this I thought maybe I should edit out my age comment... but instead I decided to just say... please no underaged references! :blush:

I think it's perfectly natural to question things that make you differ from the perceived 'normal' attitudes of society.

The main thing to remember is that you are the one who has to live with the answers you get, not anyone else.

This post has been edited by furisforfun on Jan 15 2006, 09:43 AM

I have always been into female dogs, quite exclusively. I used to question it alot but over the years after finding sites like this and meeting others who were like minded, that all helped me accept the real me, and i am now quite comfortable with who i am, a female dog exclusive zoophile. I don't think there is anything wrong with it, and is perfectly normal.

I know we all started out some way, and we all had our doubts along the way, there are many many wonderful people here whom i am sure can attest to that.

I hope this has helped

oh and :welcome:

Tundra

hiya dogmann...

I'm not going to be able to add anything that really hasn't already been said - but just wanted to highlight the repeated thought...

we are taught what is acceptable and the norm of society during our most influential years -and old habits and though processes are hard to break..

we are told that boy meets girl - they have baby and live happily ever after - well that doesn't quite work for most of us here - and when we realize that we are somehow different -many of us first question ourselves - "what is wrong with me" and then immediately after we have feelings of "guilt" and feelings of "disappointing the ones who rasied us" "our families" and in some cases even disappointing something far greater than "family"

I know it is true with a lot of other minorities - like homos - something I had to struggle with myself - what would be "abnormal" is if you didn't struggle though these initial feelings - because indeed we are going against what has been taught to us -and often I would say - well I don't want this - I don't wanna have to hide - and I want to be "normal" and the biggie "why me?" - and for ME at least I found it was a spiritual matter - that I had to seek acceptance and approval of MYSELF -and in order to achieve that I had to establish understanding from something beyond humans - you call that what you would like - spiritual - connecting to the universe - whatever - but I truley believe that if your heart is good - and you ask the "universe" or whatever you would like to label it - it will respond - that you will quietly and sutblely be told "yes you are fine and the universe is good with this and your path" in some personal way...

thats just my experience -and relayed only to give you an option that maybe you haven't considered... it may not suit your personal path - and I'm not insinuating that it will suit everyone elses or anyone elses path.. just food for thought...


may you find peace in your journey

I used to, but then why question anything you love? It's much better in the end to just be in acceptance with yourself on the things you like and the things you don't. I think half the battle with this particular topic is the morals involved. When you dig deeper and question what morals actually are, you realise that they are a series of beliefs based on peoples opinions. Who are you then, to deny yourself the things you like or love based on someone elses opinion?

The thought of questioning my sexual desires for anything including animals never even crossed my mind. I love it and thats all I need to know. A guess thats a very simple answer for you.

I had the openess all my life.
Even before sexual maturity.
Then again, I am part horse inside due to the fact I was one in my previous life.
Always wandered where those extreme feelings came from, and why I got around so wel with animals.
After regression at multiple independent persons, it was more then confirmed for me next to the facts of my own investigation.
Human... mare... I don't look at species... I look at the person in the bio bodysuit.
And if she's compatible (warm blooded, anatomicaly capable, ect.) then why not? ^_^

Hi dogmann,
i 1st discovered that i like dogs when i was younger, and ive asked the same question ever since. My answer is that i feel more attracted to female dogs more than a human, and i can live with that . But i don't know if i would like it or not because i haven't done much with a dog( i don't have a dog and none of my friends do ). So i'll have to wait and see :unsure:

This post has been edited by wyldfyre67 on Jan 17 2006, 04:26 AM

that sounds like a mighty fine way to look at it and i think that is some d#$n good advise. thank you everyo0ne who responded as this has helped me a bit and now i dont feel alone in questioning myself on why. now could a mod or experianced person of the site please tell me where i should post a request for anyone who wants to just chat with me onyahoo about sex with animals (preferably dogs) and just make some new friends to chat with? thanks again

you can make that post in the personals section