thanks southflorida

Dogmann: I've been a zoo for many, many years. At first I denied it, but my feelings were overwhelming, and I thought that something must be wrong with me. I was afraid to initiate any sexual interaction with animals (specifically, my dog).

However, after knowing in my heart for a couple of years that I had a sexual attraction to some animals, but being afraid to act on it, I had a revelation of sorts. My dog had tried to hump me several times and I had pushed him away, but he still often got hard when I came home or we started to play. I realized that my dog wouldn't be trying to initiate sexual contact with me if he didn't enjoy it as much or even more than I might. If it was OK with my dog, then it should be OK with me. I wouldn't be taking advantage of him or using him.

So I decided to let him "have his way with me" at the next opportune time. When we finally "did it", I was amazed by how much we both enjoyed it. And I was also surprised by how much it deepened our relationship. True, I had thoughts that I had done something terribly wrong and even had thoughts that I would never do that again. But after seeing how that one time had brought us closer together and taken our friendship to a whole new plane, those negative thoughts started to change.

Since then I've shared my home with quite a few dogs, and some were lovers, and some remained just good friends. Animals have feelings and desires the same as we do, and some will not want sex with you no matter how well you know each other. It IS wrong to force an animal to have sex with you. That is rape, and is an act that is totally unconscionable and revolting to a true zoophile.

So, I guess, for me, what it boils down to is this: If the act is between two consenting adults, even of different species, and it brings pleasure to both, then it is good. If it cultivates and nurtures a deepening love and relationship, then it is truly wonderful.

(Edited to remove reference to age.)

This post has been edited by Skeezix on Jan 18 2006, 04:40 AM

To a certain extent I've questioned why, and in my case I believe I've worked out why.
For many years I've been close with animals, just as friends, but during high-school I had some very traumatic experiences which were very difficult for me to talk about, even now. But there was always one friend who would always listen, who just always seemed to understand and truly cared about me and how I felt, and that was our family dog. We had been close for many years, but what happened was just an evolution of our friendship. I loved him, he meant so much to me.
But as to the physical relationship, it was just a natural expression of our love for one another. As I mentioned, I loved him, more than anyone I knew. To me, he was my first boyfriend.
So with me questioning why, it's taken me years to realise that all my life I've been attracted to animals, but what happened in my bedroom nearly 11 years ago, mearly just brought the love to the surface.

So the love we all have for animals is always there, it's just different experiences, different circumstances that bring the love out of our sub-consciousness and into our every day thought where we have to deal with it.

This post has been edited by Bi_k9guy on Jan 20 2006, 04:47 AM

Hmm, to put it in the fewest words, I turned away from humans and toward animals in search of honesty, and I have not been disappointed. Well, not by the animals anyway.

the bottom line is that you are what you are, and you will make yourself crazy if you start questioning every single facet of yourself.

why am i sexually interested in animals? it doesn't matter! it is MY interest and no one else has to know about it. period. of course, i certainly don't go around broadcasting my interests.

why am i sexually interested in animals?...why do i have black hair and brown eyes?...why am i tall?...the answer is: YOU JUST ARE. there is no long, complicated answer! the simplest answer is the best answer.

so we're sexually interested in animals...DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT.

This is exactly how I feel! I've never questioned my sexual desire for other species, I just acted on it. Ultimately I am who has to be happy with me. I've never felt guilt after sex with an animal, mostly because I never forced myself on any. Anyway, I've always accepted myself for who I am and been pretty happy being me.

Here's a little story for you.

My favorite non-human sexual partner to date was a pig. I'm sure she thought she was a dog because that is all she was raised with and she acted more like a dog than a pig. She was VERY friendy! Sometimes she was TOO friendly if you know what I mean. :twisted: Basically she was ALWAYS horny. She loved that form of attention, at least she always did from me. The instant I touched under her tail, it would shoot straight up in the air and she'd be grinding herself onto my hand. She was always willing to have sex too, no matter what time of day or night. Sometimes I would have sex with her in the back yard in the middle of the day. I was pretty sure no one would see, but it never concerned me much. I was happy with what I was doing and didn't much care what anyone else thought. I always felt that those who truly cared about me would accept me for me as well.
I think I would have questioned why I never acted on it, especially after I had studied and discovered it was safe. That would be my question: "Why am I not doing something that I want to do, that is safe, and that I feel is normal urges?"
I would already know WHY I done it and not have the need to question myself.

I'm not telling you to or incinuating that you should be that open, but why question yourself for being you? If everyone was the same it would be a real boring world!

Enjoy yourself and be happy! You only live once, don't miss out on things that most let pass them by!

As a teen and in my early twenties I tried to deny that the feelings exsisted (probably why I have yet to be mounted but I will get there before the summer) but I am at the stage in my life where I don't question what I like to do because I am living for me and not the opinions of others.

[B]I would have to say that I am new to the whole idea of animal sex, but to be blunt I think I'm just looking for that next level in having sex. I've always wondered about alot of things in life and I've experianced everything else sexually, so now it's all about what else is there, that next thrill. If u think about it most of us who feel this way sexually are lawyers, docters, and other deep thinking people. We want the holy grail, so we keep pushing the limits.

I never questioned at all either why I'm zoo by nature or if it was wrong until I discovered it was illegal in some places to do some things. Questions were asked, and I decided that the answers didn't make sense, so I looked it up in religious text, and decided it doesn't apply to me. Ever since then I still wonder why I tend to be zoo. But that's not good or bad, it just gives me something to do when I want to think deeply, and gave me a reason to discuss it here with all of you, and read all your facinating opinions, which is turning out to be quite a fun little hobby.

I think that indeed, if you grow up with it being no different to any other form of sex in your community, you just don't see it as wrong. I think I could have just as easily, given a different predisposition, grown up straight as an arrow and still not seen any mutually loving relationship, sexual or not, as wrong, bad, or evil. Those ideas are for other communities and families, not mine.

Listen to these guys, they know what they're talking about! :P

I felt a similar way a few years ago, but why change who you are? Just because society views it as wrong doesn't meant it is, and as long as nobody is hurt and everything is consentual what's the harm? Is it wrong to have strong feelings towards another being, human or animal? Is it wrong to make that being's life as happy as you possibly can make it? Is it wrong to love another being and want to spend every waking moment with it?

I really don't question it much either. Once you get past the point where you think there is something so terribly wrong with what you are doing ( if you ever had at all ) you just kind of accept it. I only questioned it for some time when I was just getting into it. By now I just think of it as having the most loyal friend you ever could. They always love you, even if you're in a crappy mood, they can't go a day without seeing you, and they're never gonna do some crazy bull that'd end up tearing you apart. I'd love to see someone's dog cheating on them. ( Not really... That's just odd. ). I think it's just as natural as anything.

I haven't questioned why I like animals. It's fairly simple to me, really. They don't suffer from the same intellectual flaws as humans. They don't have the same motivation to decieve, and they don't have the same greed. They love and accept love freely and without inhibition. They don't judge you on how you look or how much you earn or what car you drive. Perhaps this is more a reference to dogs (as I'm don't know a lot about other animals in depth), but they represent only desirable traits that you want from a partner.

That's why we love animals, or atleast why I do. The question I ask myself is whether it's right to love them like I do. On one side of the coin, you can say that it's natural to love another soul that loves you in return. On the other side of the coin, you can't help but wonder if it's some sort of escape from dealing with people.

In the end I invariably come to the conclusion that no-one is getting hurt, and that it's too beautiful to not share such an open love with another soul, human or animal. I guess you could also cite that as good reason why I'm not zoo exclusive. I hope this gets atleast someone thinking :)

so well put southie.i commend you for your depth and thoughtfullness.i too hope he finds the answer to his own questions and his own happiness.

I totally agree with anyone who is questioning the moral value of it but honestly, like SouthFlorida said, we only think it's wrong because we're told it is, I think if it were truely something evil, God would step in and do something, and so far he hasn't so I am okay with it all :lol:

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I have a Bitch Dog.
My wife doesn't want sex.
I was masturbating in front of her one day and my fixed Bitch started licking me.
God. that tongue felt good, while my wife was playing games on the computer.
If you ever have a bitch Dog lick your cock, you will know how great it feels.
I told my wife how it felt and she diidn't care, so I figure better the dog than her.
Next Dog I get will not be fixed.
They don't say dog is a mans brst friend for nothing.