Hi again!

I've just found this on my homepage, hope it is usefull.

Ps. I quote it from the original, just gave it a little format, thus I believe it is not breaking any copywright.

How To Tell If You're Sexually Normal

By Martha and Howard Lewis

QUESTION: I am 23 and my girlfriend is 20. We have had an
active sex life for over a year, and we are both very satisfied.
Lately, though, after I take her home on a night when we do not
have intercourse, we often call each other on the phone and masturbate
together while one of us describes a sexual fantasy.

Also, when we are together, I sometimes enjoy watching her masturbate.
Is any of this normal? How can you tell if what you are doing is normal?
I'm starting to get worried about myself.

ANSWER: Sexual normalcy is a very tricky concept.

Sex researchers William Masters and Virginia Johnson comment that
"the variety of forms of expression of human eroticism is great.
Defining what is sexually normal is highly problematic."

Many sex therapists and researchers believe that any sexual activity
between consenting adults that harms neither partner should be considered
normal.

Common Activities

The activities you describe are certainly normal by this standard.
What's more, they are common. Many people find mutual sexual fantasy
and watching a partner masturbate sexually stimulating and satisfying.

Defining What's Normal For YOU

Sex educator Dr. Michael Carrera, author of "Sex: The Facts, The Acts
Your Feelings," offers these guidelines for helping you decide what
sexual activities are "good and right for YOU." Answering these questions
may help you sort out what you consider normal sexuality for yourself.

Questions To Ask Yourself

1. Is what you do hurtful, physically or emotionally, to yourself or
your partner?

2. Do your feelings and behavior cause you to feel valuable, worthwhile
and increase your self-esteem? Or do your thoughts and acts make you feel
worthless, valueless and lessen your self-esteem?

3. Are your acts with another person responsible, open, mutual, consensual,
enjoyable? Or are they irresponsible, coercive, anxiety-filled,
guilt-producing and joyless?

4. Do your acts further your contact with others and continue your
development as a whole person? Or do your acts depersonalize, cut you
off from others and limit your chances of personal growth and becoming a
full person?

No Magic Tally

"There is no scorecard to be filled in, no magic tally of points which
means you are certified 'normal,'" says Dr. Cerrera. "These questions
are designed only to help you look closely at your sexual behavior and
see if it is genuinely positive and life-enhancing."

Ok, Ok, it is for two leggers (humans), but I think it applies allso to us, hope it is usefull.

:huh: I, for one, am human :) so I suppose it does apply to me :unsure:

:lol: :lol:

You might be weird but not because of your taste in porno.

I am the same way really, I can only get off to beast, black and latino porn

My view is that every one in this world is weird and/or crazy it is just a matter of witch one and how much.

See, there's this thing about normalcy. In a lot of areas, to be normal is to conform to what society tells us is normal. Like the difference between what is sexy and what supermodels look like, and the difference between medically ideal weight and what pop culture says you should weight.

There are some situations where I considering being this kind of 'normal' to be a negative trait. If you are weird in one of the great many GOOD ways, then celebrate it. Just don't shout it off the rooftop or the 'normals' will frown at you :P

every person has different tastes in what turns them on))

for me human/human porn has no appeal at all
while human/animal is my hot button or animal/animal

in real life my pref is me/animal which i ned no help with
but when with my wife a cold nose or a furry body nearby keeps
me hard enough to do the job)))

other folks like human mixed race etc of same gender
its all in presonal pref. of the person

so no your not weird


HB58

I am going to throw my vote in here and say no, you're not odd. Your sexual tastes are just that... your tastes. Nobody can tell you that you're "strange" because if they do, then all thay are saying is that "You are different than me." Well DUH! I certainly hope so!!!! <_<

My own personal tastes? Well, I am a straight young female, and on the surface my interests are very "vanilla." Straight-up heterosexual vaginal porn.

However, there is the small matter of beast activities... Why is it that feeling a little Sheltie dick penetrate me gets me 10X hotter than most 8" human dicks could? It's because of what turns me on. So animal porn, beast porn, and vanilla porn for me.

Oh yeah, I like black porn too. Not so much black women as black men. And gay porn too... Come to think of it. :angel: I like watching anal anyway, and to me, two dicks are better than one. Hell, throw a dp with a dog and I think I wouldn't come out of my room for at LEAST a day...

So do I consider myself normal? Hmm, good question. The important thing is, I know what I like now, and I am far more sexually satisfied than before, when I expected my sexual partner to satisfy all my needs.

Do what you like, and don't hurt anyone, especially not your innocent pets. BTW kitty sex is a no-no, unless you are very small when fully erect. You'll only hurt her, sorry :(

Shamedgirl
:blush:

I dont think you are weird at all :D
You are you and if you like a specific thing that turns you on... You are individual :D

Personally I can't hardly stand straight porn... doesn't even make me twinge down there :P
Now toss in Good Ol Scooby or Mrs Ed and Man oh Man :wub: hehe

Whats even better? :rolleyes: a hot, Dark Bay, Chocolate colored Mare :inlove:
Now that is on the dark complection side and zoo so the best of both worlds there :D

:heart:

Nothing wrong with loving animals. ^_^