As many of you know alot of people who already have partners regulary engage in sexual acts with animals. However what has cought my attention is how often I see 'my girlfriend/boyfriend almost cought me fucking our dog!'. Thing begs the question, if your having to hide sexual actions with another living being from your significant other isn't it cheating. Fir i'll put my own personal opinion, I personally beleive if your BF/GF agrees that its ok and has no complaints then its fine. If they don't like it and you keep doing it in secret, its not.

Obviously a common reaction I see when I bring this up is "But he/she may call the police!?!?", then wait a bit. Wait intill you do have a loving bond with them and can trust them before you tell them. Without trust there is no real relationship and if you think they will call the cops then maybe oyu shouldn't be dating this oh-so-touchy person.

Now, a normal counter I get is "But cheater is a matter of love, I feel no love for my beast pet, I use him/she only for sex", well by this logic you have the right to go fuck strangers constantly as long as you don't feel for them. Well, if the other says its alright to have such an open relationship then I think its fine but hiding it from them I beleive to be wrong.

Of course a few times i've even gotten "But I love both my human GF and my animal one equally" then its a matter of weither or not the animal loves you back and such. Now, since animals and humans loving each other to a relationship-type extent is extremly depatable I would rather not get into it, and likely it could cause a flame war which would not be nice at all.

Of course this is a very good argument, but if your completely devoted to zoophilia and your spouse repeatidly refuses then maybe you shouldn't quite be with her anyway. I personally beleive a couple should be widely accepting of each others kinks.

Now, regularly I see healthy beasts couples who are well aware that the other fucks animals, this is a nice relationship we're the couple has chosen a kink that their comfortable with and enjoy. My stand is that yes, its sexual engagment with another creature and without the concent of the woman/man that your in a relationship with it is cheating.

Opinions?

If you're in a supposedly monogamous relationship, and you're screwing someone else behind your spouse/significant other's back, that's cheating, whether that someone is a man/woman/or dog, whether the activity is kissing, heavy petting, oral sex, or intercourse. If you feel guilty and have to hide it, you probably shouldn't be doing it.

Attempts to rationalize this are as silly as Clinton's attempt to redefine the word "is" when trying to wiggle out of his own infidelity.

It's just like wanting to be in an open/polygamous relationship. It doesn't matter how much *you* want it, or how much you "love" (or *don't* love) the other person. If the partner doesn't want it and hasn't agreed to it and you have to hide it from them, it's cheating.

this is a question i am working out my own opinion on right now. I have a boyfriend of several years. he andi live together. prior to meeting him i was sexually active with a dog of a friends. Ive moved and no longer have contact with the friend.
But my boyfriend and i want to adopt a dog. Ive casually commented on beast sex before, alway testing the waters. He caught his ex-byofriend jacking off their dog once and was very disgusted by it.
So now that we are looking to get a dog, im in a situation where i will be able to experience k9 sex again (which i regard as the best sex ive ever had!) but i know my boyfriend does not approve of it.
the question you posed is one i have to sort out for myself now. i have plenty of time to wrestle to questions since a puppy isnt ready for sex and we wont be getting him until the end of the year. but i am interested in everyone's answers to the question.

g in NYC

It is cheating and I don't know how anyone could think it's not. Unless the couple agrees together it's okay (like some couples agree to have sex with other men and women) it is cheating and not okay.

It doesn't matter if its a dog, cat, horse, or whatever animal you can come up with.. it's still a male or female you are mating with. It's wrong and disgusting to go behind your partners back, especially if you love him/her.

I shouldn't even have to explain the jealousy and competition, and various other problems that can arise if you're going behind your partners back to have sex with someone (animal or human). Which isn't exactly easy to get over, we may be human but we are still controlled by our instincts at times.
Like for males, if his girl is running around mating with other males he's going to feel threatened.. he doesn't want to lose his mate or have some other male waltz in and take over. This apllies to males of all species, that feeling is always there. I'm not a guy, but I *know* if I ever found my guy in bed with another girl (whether it be human or animal) I am *not* going to be very happy, and im into beast myself.

Talking helps, believe it or not. ^^

Edit: I apologize to anyone if this came off too strong.. I know someone who goes behind her partner's back to mate with animals and guys. It aggravates me to no end..

This post has been edited by Stub on Jul 10 2005, 08:24 AM

I agree. Its cheating if your partner doesn't know. I can speak on this subject since I cheated on my husband with another man. My husband was so upset, he filed for divorce a few months after. The man I cheated with intoduced me into the swinger lifestyle. So I met spouses and couples who were deeply in love, but had no problem sharing their partners with others. As long as both people are willing participants, its not cheating.



This post has been edited by playgirl66 on Jul 10 2005, 06:07 PM

I agree with Playgyrl66

On the other hand ain't we overdoing it with all that "hollier tnan Thou" thing, trying to be almost saints, regarding beeng completly honnest with our partner?

I presume its all so individual, and let's not forget what we're dealing with - an activity that is almost totaly taboo. Luckily it doesn't aply to me, but if I had a boyfriend, I wouldn't mind cheating on him if that could save unimaginable complications not only with our relations, but also with my personal life (outing, complain to the police etc).

P.S. PLS excuse my English, I'm not anglosaxon.

I had the experance of being caight having sex with my female k9, and my significant other considered it cheating big time.

Good to see so many agree with me.

Key words being "behind your partners back." If they know about it & are okay with it, weeee life is good.