Iv just come out to a non zoo,only on msn like but its still wierd.shes been really ok with it,she doesnt judge me at all!im really pleased because of it.shes also told me she let her dog give her a lick,but im not sure if i believe her or not lol.just thought id let u all no ^_^

First is the nervous excited rush of finding others like yourself here. Then the very nervous meeting or talking on the phone with zoo friends made here or places like this. Then you get the gut wrenching outting yourself to a nonzoo.

If they say they are okay with it - believe them! The ones who aren't, they do tell you quite clearly. I was twisted up for a week before outting myself to my GF and it wasn't good. She slowly adapted and adopted a level of tolerance, though she doesn't get it and isn't turned on by it in the least. Bravo on the courage! You have someone who has explored a bit and that is great too!

Well done, as lugarou says the ones that aren't ok with it tend to let you know loudy/ congratulation on telling someone :D

its funny actually,she fancies me loads lol and wants me to go round to heres,she lives by ainree race course(not sure if you yanks have herd of it) and she was making jokes about letting me look out the window at the mares to get me in the mood for her :lol:
and now i can make jokes(i already have) about being hung like a stallion.im sure shes not a zoo,but then again most ppl are probably sure im not,and we're meeting up next week,going to be very strange.hard to resist aswel,shes dying for sex off me but i really dont wanna do it,but if the dogs there then who knows what may happen.... :thinking: :thinking: ;) ;)

This post has been edited by scouse_mare_lover on Jun 28 2005, 01:27 AM

Nice story.....

I outed myself to my wife of 18 years last year.....

How did it go? Ask her... she goes by Loveyababe.... :P

things have gone slightly pear shaped.i agreed to meet this girl.we havnt set a date or anything,but she now seems overly keen to meet me.just before she told me she loves me,i was only going to meet her as a friend and maybe for a bit of adult fun but thats it.now shes saying she wants a relationship with me dispite what i am.but also contradicting herself saying if i do get with her(wich i dont want to) then i have to stop being what i am!! :angry: she doesnt want me cheatin gon her with animals she says.i suppose it just goes to show how shallow some people are.contradicting herself over and over again with comments like "i dont mind as long as you dont tell me" and "if you must do it,clean yourself properly".she even had a go at me,for her wanting to kiss me,and me not telling her id done oral on a mare. :wacko:



moral of this story is....well...im not sure.but i guess its the last time i tell someone about me,i was really chuffed for a few days there :( :( :(

Obviously, she does not love you, but is attracted by he image she has of you.

She does not seems to accept you as you are, and that is a clear sign of No-Go.

As for me, after several years with my girlfrien, we broke apart... and after several months, independant, changing, evolving, we have decided to start a new relationship... far more balanced.... and yes i have to;d her about my interest, my past (few) experienced in zoo with my late dog.... it was not that hard to tell her... but now i know her position, and the degree of openess she as for herself, for me, and other. It is, i guess, what one may call 'true intimacy' (i.e. tha capacity to open freely to your other half).

Thx for reading me.

Take Care

im not arsed if she loves me or not.i dont want a relationship with her.its just the way she said she wasnt botherd but then went on to say i souldnt do it etc.

Well, she has given you her thoughts, plus her judgement on it. By saying, YOU shouldn't do it, she may told that SHE wouldn't do it personnaly.... kind of read between the line in a sense... by speaking upon you (using the YOU, you should, you would, you must... :( ), instead of speaking for herself using I (I personnaly wouldn't do it, I bla bla, I feel like, I have the feeling.... B) )....

Communication between 2 people ( :drinks: ), or more, is a wide, very interesting subject... i have learnt a lot after i broke-up with my former girlfriend, and started a new relationship with her several months ago... and i love to learn and experiment on it every day :smartass:

Regards