i think this would be a good thread for people new to this to be informed about the effects this has had on other people,s relationships good or bad. do you hide your actions and keep it to yourself, does your friend or loved one just get involved for you and they don,t much care for it. has your experience,s with this improved your life with your spouse or friend. tell your story or stories. all posters will get a 10 vote for contributing. :)

I brought the subject up to my (ex) husband and he was totally turned off by the idea and seemed to become angry about it. That's not the reason he's my ex husband, but it's just a tiny indication of the rest of our lives.

I got the courage up to tell my boyfriend one night about what i was interested in. It took some liquor but he was quite receptive to the idea. He's very much interested in adding a dog to our sex lives together. He's admitted he wanted to bring something up to me, but he was afraid of how i'd react to him saying such a thing. Neither of us are practicing zoo's, but we're both curious and intend to be practicing =)

As far as my family or friends go, i don't mention it to them. My family is of the good christian variety and it doesn't seem like anything that's their business. I don't tell them about my other sex, why this =)

ive tried to avoid talking to family about it, and so far im sucessfull.
but i have told afew of my friends and for the most part they are very accepting of it.
As a matter of face, me and one of my friends spent quite awhile talking about it and came to the conclusion that he had the same feelings as i do about animals, which was a plesant surprise ^_^

I've told two people about it...very very cautiously. One of them is simply an online friend of mine that has always shared his deepest secrets, sexual and non, with me. He was extremely freaked out and hasn't talked to me in a few weeks.
The other shares an interest with me actually and would like to watch, but not participate.

The only other person in my life right now would be my best friend and roommate. We are EXTREMELY different people, however. She is actually vocally disgusted that I masturbate. She helped me move and found one of my vibrators and was appalled saying that she will never masturbate as it grosses her out. I can only imagine how she would take something like this...

And I'm single. I didn't share it with the last guy I dated and it is a good thing as he's using everything he has to ruin my good name around here.

Huh?

Well i've always kept it a closely guarded secret and never dared to tell my partner, for fear of us breaking up. But one night things were getting pretty adventurous in the bedroom and it just felt like the right time to say something about it. BIG MISTAKE!!!. It put an instant end to our night of passion and we didn't even speak for a week. Eventually we sat down to talk things through, when i realised my right hand didn't even have a mouth :thinking: . So that put an end to the problems and things are much better between us now :inlove: .

well I told my partner of 5 years about a week? or two ago... it appers he is numb -or playing the avoidance game -all situations are different -and our relationship is not picturesque -the reason I told him is because I have decieded that I can longer deprive myself of the pursuit of happiness -so it was basically a notice -deal with it or I'm outta here... out of fairness I have given him a legnthy time frame -and now I have been openly typing on the board here -and discussing little funny things that happen in threads -and he still just kinda stays ambivilent -whatever -I have always been very open -no lies or secrets other than the zoo issue -I don't lie to my partner -so instead of just dismissing him which I tought wouldn't be fair or kind -I have risked exposing myself -given him the option to accept me for what I am -and that's more than fair -balls in his court...

This post has been edited by southflorida on Apr 27 2005, 11:30 PM

Oh my :(

What's the point of someone loving you if they aren't willing to love and accept you for everything you feel ?

Recently the BF and i discussed everything, from deep dark desires to secrets.I'm willing to do things with him because i think i trust him, and likewise he trusts me and is willing to at least wtach if not participate.

Luckily for me he's got the fantasy of having sex with me after a dog, and/or while i'm full of cum, so in this case it works out for me. He was afraid to say anything about involving a dog for fear it's turn ME off !

My current GF took the Furry interest fairly well and even appeared to be ok with discussion about bestiality. One night I confessed. The next 2 weeks were kinda rough - full of objections, arguments and debates. I got out references, printed posts from the forums and gave her space to think about it. Now she has found a point of tolerance. She is just not interested in participating. She might be interested in watching, but she isn't sure. Her whole response is one of cold tolerance, with a "If you get excited by it, that might get me excited about sex with you."

We had the discussion about "if you have animals, will you still need me?". We discussed spices vs main courses. If she was just a little more saying "that is hot" or such, I'd be feeling better. She has watched the beastie porn or looked at pics and had questions, and gets horny (she says any porn will get her going). I'm not sure where it stands really.

i think i would be a good case study. i am a devoted zoo and have been for over 25 years. i thought as i got older i might start to loose interest (not). i think about it more now than ever. i have a hard time staying focused on things i am working on because i think about it all the time, sex is by far the most important thing in my life ( i think i need help ). i have been married for over 22 years. at first my wife was disgusted with the thought of animal sex. every time we tried it it seemed like it always ended up in a fight. this was really important to me and i was going nowhere with it. 15 years of my life went by with not much improvement. i thought my life was going to pass me by and i would not be able to do the things i so much craved. it seemed like our sex life was starting to suffer to, we were losing our sexual lust for each other, they say this is normal for couples that have been married that long. i thought no matter what i would stand by her side...friends to the end. even thou things didn,t look that good i did not give up. then one day it was like a night and day difference. i think she really starting to like it. we do it more now than we ever have. our love making went from 10 to 20 minutes to a couple of hours plus. we got our sexual lust back more now than ever. there is not a week that goes by that we do not enjoy sex with our animals. :) :) :) :) :) :) i would like to finish by saying to anyone interested in this topic to never give up something you enjoy. it,s amazing what some gentle manipulation and lots of vodka can do. :)

I've never told anyone in my family about it, I don't think they'd really understand. My parents are some-what homophobic and don't seem to like anything which is sexually different, so I don't plan on telling them soon -_-

The only person I've ever told is a good online friend of mine. I was a little worried about what she'd think, but she took it fine. We're still good friends and talk quite often. She's very open-minded, which is a great thing :)

I discovered I was into this 4 years ago... My ex and I had always enjoyed a healthy sex life... I showed him a picture of a girl and a dog ... :0) to see his reaction... his wasnt a good reaction.. so the subject matter was dropped... :ruck:

I have recently started seeing someone... :blush: I met this man on an alternative site ... so he is very open minded... we were talking about boundaries... and he brought up beastiality... and flat out asked me if I would do it.... well I always tell people that if they ask me a question I will not lie... so I didnt ... and told him that not only would I but I have... Funny he didnt totally believe me till we got back to my place and I proved to him I have... :D

He took the news rather well and seems to like the idea ... :whistling:

Since coming to this board, It has helped me realize I'm not the only one imagine that :crazy: . I remember the only time my husband and I talked about it was driving in the car one day can't remember how we were even on the subject maybe talking about a friend of his long time ago. Anyway he said she had sex with a dog. And he told me what it was called zoophilia I didn't even know there was a name for it back then. I've kidded around with him about sex with animals we have some mares and when I don't give it to him :blush: as much as he likes he gets frustrated and I tell him you've got willing girls in the field he doesn't reply. I know I've had dreams about it and I talk in my sleep maybe he secretly knows and is waiting for me to say something lol nahh doubt it. Also my fav. position when we are together is doggiestyle. I would love to have my man know and accept and be a willing zoo that would be my dream come true. Who knows anything is possible.


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Nope, I haven't told anybody outside of this board. I have the ultra conservative family, and don't even want to attempt to go down that road with them.