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> To Come Out Or Be Silent?, your sexuality and the public eye
 
should you come out?
Come out to friends? [ 49 ]  [14.37%]
Come out to family? [ 6 ]  [1.76%]
Stay hidden? [ 150 ]  [43.99%]
Tell your lover? [ 136 ]  [39.88%]
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Posted on Dec 17 2004, 03:04 AM
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I have never actually told anyone outside of this room but i suspect my ex suspected i was having a relationship with the dog and My mother once asked me if that dog was "stump broke" - she once used to date cowboy types that thought little of relationships with fem pets so she is not uninformed!. Due to custody mattersd at the time she asked, I told her I was not active with the dog which was such a big lie as I had had sex with the dog within the hour before!

What mother dosen't know she dosen't need to know (p.s. I am 45 years old! - I keep my own secreats).
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Posted on Dec 17 2004, 03:07 AM
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I don't really see a reason to go out proclaiming it to everyone.
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Posted on Feb 4 2009, 11:42 PM
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already came out.......good friends and family knows it ^^

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Posted on Feb 23 2009, 09:57 PM
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I think remain silent is the best option... I consider sexuality to be such a personal and private thing. Only person I have told is my wife and I'm so happy about it. :inlove: I think beastiality is growing slowly inside her...grrr ;) Lucky me. I would never tell anybody else in real life.
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Posted on Feb 23 2009, 11:14 PM
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If your gonna tell somebody its gonna wanna be your lover first. My husband took it extremely well (I mean we share an account here duh :D). Then you might want to go tell maybe your most trusted family member. You can pretty much do what makes YOU feel comfortable.
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Posted on Feb 23 2009, 11:33 PM
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I told my lover...now he's a part of the site! ^_^ :P
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Posted on Feb 24 2009, 01:19 AM
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Let's see, come out, my family disowns me and then I get put in jail! I don't think that sounds like a good idea. Stay hidden.
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Posted on Feb 24 2009, 02:21 AM
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Family and friends do not need to know. I don't like to keep secrets in a relationship, so I knew eventually I would tell my lover. Told him last year and he joined this site. :wub:
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Posted on Feb 24 2009, 07:49 PM
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Many years ago I got a little depressed and drank a little too much one night.
Told a ( then very close ) friend about my love life. I think I had not even sobered up before half the town knew about my love life. Other than to a now deceased member of this site I have not told anybody else about my affection to the canine world.
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Posted on Feb 24 2009, 07:56 PM
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I told my wife, which worked out OK. She lets me have my male canine lover, and she occasionally lets him lick her, but that is all from her side. But it took me more than 10 years to trust her enough and know her well enough to dare to reveal that to her.

Beyond that, the only friends that "know" are on-line friends who only know me by an anonymous on-line screen name, like the people here. No one that could trace the admission back to the real person.

I might, eventually, let my daughter know - but only if she first shows interest or at least tolerance in that direction. For now, no. Other family? No way.
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Posted on Feb 24 2009, 08:29 PM
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Voted to keep it hidden. Maybe in years to come it will become acceptable, looked what happened to being gay or lesbian. Only then will people be really comfortable to come out and tell everyone. At the minute you risk family lovers friends work etc shunning you and making your life a misery.
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Posted on Feb 24 2009, 10:34 PM
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Other than my wife and you all, I'm staying in my closet or kennel or whatever, thank you very much.
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Posted on Feb 24 2009, 11:01 PM
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I would love to admit to my mates and family of my different way of being, unfortunately my job would be gone in seconds, I'd be labelled a beastialist and would probably be disowned by my family as my mother is a devoute Methodist and relies on her belief to get through life, learning this fact about me would destroy her and my friends already call me a wierdo or psycho killer (no truth in this at all) but it would still revile them, so I choose to remain as I am, the only people who know are here on this site :D . Great poll by the way
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Posted on Feb 25 2009, 03:12 AM
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The only other ones that know besides myself are my other zoo friends...
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Posted on Feb 25 2009, 03:23 AM
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QUOTE (st benard @ Feb 24 2009, 06:49 PM)
Many years ago I got a little depressed and drank a little too much one night.
Told a ( then very close ) friend about my love life. I think I had not even sobered up before half the town knew about my love life. Other than to a now deceased member of this site I have not told anybody else about my affection to the canine world.

Respect to you St Benard

I see from your profile that you are probably one of our oldest members, it makes me wonder how long you have been into this lifestyle.

Just curious, that's all

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