This is also my first post. It hard to talk about being zoo sometimes, even at zoo sites due to the fear of ridicule

Hmm, can't give you much help here. I am in the same situation. I have some friends of mine, I have a feeling they might be into it but its only a feeling. I have been battling with myself, wanting to tell them, but not wanting to at the same time. All I can say is becareful, cause I do know how bad things can turn out if you get the wrong reaction.


As far as family goes, my family knows I 'was' a zoo, thou I don't think they know I am still a zoo. My parents had caught me with our dog when I was 14. Mother was pissed, father really didn't care, as far as I could tell anyways, afterall, he didn't say anything about it and just dropped it. Either he didn't care, or blocked it out.

With either subjects, just try to find a way to test the water. Also, as others have said before, jokes are 0% reliable.

I`m a bit off topic but I`m wondering if there is any approach or hint to use with the volanteers at the shelter thrift store..Most are older ladies but all pet lovers [the other "accepted" kind] All are real sweet now and I don`t want them to hate me but how I`d LOVE to know someone local with interest in "beastie"..
My wife knows about my beastie porn hobby but does not share my interests.. ck9 [m]
I love "beastie" email
[EMAIL REMOVED - USE THE PRIVATE MESSAGE SYSTEM]
put beastie in subject as I don`t open spam thanks

unknownone how old are you now and what did you do with the dog at 14?

NOTHING UNDERAGED ON THE BOARDS PLEASE!!!!! READ THE RULES

Hi +++TEF+++,
As most of the contributors to your thread have eluded too, this is a fairly precoscious situation. Almost a be damned if you do, damned if you don't problem.

For what it's worth I think you ought to take your time, dropping certian hints that might spark a reaction. If that fails, get one of your colleagues in this forum to send you an anonymous e-mail with zoo content, you could then say "look at this, what do you think of this?" or words to that effect. Note body language as well as the words used as both may not give the same signal. Then take it from there.
Either way it's no use pushing too far too soon, patience and respect is a virtue here. You may wish to read thread "Experiences Of K9 Enjoyment
My wife and our dalmation" in the Zoophilia section, where some of these items were discussed towards the end of the thread with hologramdog. This is not the only one, there are a good many as good, if not better.

There is a wealth of knowledge in this forum and everyone is rooting for your happiness, and that of your lady friend. All your friends here ask, when they contribute, is to be kept up to date with events. They are all really helpful and have your best interest at heart.
We all hope it works out well for you both.

Hello,

While I have been a BeastForum member for a month or two, this will be my first post. I've been in the shadows, you might say, more interested in finding out what bestiality entailed, enjoying the comments and stories written, and downloading the graphics. However, this thread is relative to me, as to the fear of self disclosure, as well. Every posted reply I've read, except one, has been either cautious or negative and I respect these opinions - all of them. Many, I'm sure, are based on life experiences. You can't ignore experience because it is the source of our wisdom, to do so is nothing short of foolishness. But, the Creator gave us the ability to make our own decisions and as such, we must weigh the possibilities.

Let me make it understood here that I am not a proponent one way or the other. I feel a responsibility only to what is, or should be, obvious. What is the worst that can happen? You could lose a friend and depending upon her reaction... Well, it can get quite nasty. On the other hand, I wonder why you might want to tell this friend your darkest secret and it is dark because up to now you've been in the closet practicing it on the sly and in private. Please don't mix up real life with the anonymity of the internet. Now, back to the question of why. Are you looking for approval or are you looking for someone to join you in that closet. It can be lonely in there; lonely enough to make us doubt ourselves. For me it is 'family' or 'fetish', and would I be willing to give up my love ones to practice my admitted deviant behavior. For me, again, the answer is no because what I desire goes well beyond bestiality. God, I envy you ladies or at least envy those of you who have the pride and determination to make you own decisions.

Damn, I just realized that I have been assuming the questioner to be female. If not female, this question really hits home as my children are grown and I've been married to same woman for nearly forty years. I love my wife and she is aware of my interests, but I'd be a fool to force the subject. My interests are not as important to me as she is.

Best of luck in your decision.

This post has been edited by southflorida on Nov 14 2006, 12:37 AM

My wife of 53yrs found out about me just recently. She is dead set against it. She thinks I am crazy and should stop immediately. She is still with me and wants me to stay off the computor. So keep it a secret until married 50yrs or so!!! :P :P :P

CoyotePuma...be careful of any type of underage reference.
As for telling someone...if I did it would have to be someone I have total confidence in trusting, and I'd probably bring it up by showing a picture and seeing how they react.

This post has been edited by Itzwolf on Nov 11 2006, 12:58 AM

To add to what you can loose
a few years of your life [your in jail]
Your pets
your friends
you can be forced to move
Why stick your neck out?

I say everyone has a right to know what their lover is into as it affects their lives as well. And they should know about it before anything happens.

Not only do they have a right to it in my opinion, but so do you. You shouldn't have to hide who you are, to someone you are considering making a permanent face in your life.

If they think it disgusting.. perhaps there is someone else out there that is a better fit to your lifestyle. Someone you can enjoy yourself with completely, as it should be.

people the board mim age is 18 years
The result of under 18 is you are GONE
New members read the stickys
We just got over this, it was very nasty for every one
Our mods are nice people you are being foolish
I do not like yelling,
This is the LAW
IF YOU CANT KEEP IT OVER 18 be kind enough to go
If you go we wont feal bad for kicking you
There is no business for underage here.
This comunity is far biger than you two and I like it.
Do not F#$% it up.
No BITCHING
Rus

This post has been edited by rus80 on Nov 14 2006, 12:10 AM

post edited - thanXies guys :)