I have had three lovers in my life that could except my love of dogs and horses.All three were older than me and two were female.Now that i'm older it's very hard to meet people that can except my animal intrest. How is it for you?

I was Zoo before I met my wife of 14 years. (divorced) I could never tell her. I was doing my dog before and durning the marrage. I always felt I was "cheating" on her with the dog. I know I sometimes neglected the wife. She would be all in the mood and I would have "got some" from the lab just before she got home. I had a couple live in GF's after that and a dog too. Same thing. Hiding my true self from the person I "trust" , cheating by having secret sex with my dog, I got sick of that. Just me and the "boys" until I find that special woman.

Every time I have tryed to bring up the subject of zoo with anyone, you know, in a round about way, I get negitive responses. How do I ask a woman I meet and like and she likes me, how do I say " Hey, by the way, I have sex with my dogs, you want to watch?" LOL shoot, I can't seem to go there. So I stay here, kind of alone. But I enjoy the company of my dogs on many levels. so.......life is good.

Yknot

I met the one who I love through here. So he is certainly ok with it ;)

I don't think I could ever tell my husband.. .. there are other things about me he cannot except... so I don't see me walking in and saying ..hey babe.. I want to make love with a dog and let it knot with me.. .. So I go on visiting here.. dreaming of the day I can fufill that dream... It looks like it will be comming up soon.. I have finally met someone who knows a coulple with a dog..and if things go right... I will get to join them in the next week or so... I am so looking forward to it... Guess i will have to change my name after that *S*..

Nope... my partner knows about it. And she is curious herself... But, opportunity has yet to knock. :lol:

I have a friend who lives with another guy with her son and her dog. She and the guy have a sex life that has a lot to be desired since he rarely wants it and she has normal drives. Sometimes she would come over to my place for a quick romp in the hay once a week after getting out early from a health club but she feared he would find out so quit doing that after a few months.

In an email to her, I suggested in a humorous way, that her dog would probably be more than happy to help her with her needs and also may have sent her a picture of a gal with a dog. I am not sure about that though.

Regardless, she ignored my email so I don't know how it turned out and I think it is best that I leave sleeping dogs lie anyway. We no longer have any contact.

I sympathize with you all and hope you find lovers who accept your life style. People change over time so please don't give up hope. In the meantime, try to bury your guilt. It is unproductive and really unnecessary. Just remember that you have many friends of similar interests right here for support.

1Eagle

moved

well I dont really have a partner,(Im 18 female and single) but I have a few friends that do know,and we have some fun play sessions. I dont wear a sign saying dog lover, but I am thinking of Paw print tatoos on my shoulder. I have been into k9 for a wile now and I love it. and when I do find someone that will be my signifigant other they will know all about is as I live to play with dogs as much as I can, and yes I am real I have pics and I like to chat about it with others, couples and other women mostly, single guys all say about the same thing, and are creepy

Melissa

On a long drug induced walk, my partner approached me about the porn he found and was soo very understanding, he even beat off to it to.. I think its an iffy situation that can either go very well or otherwise. For me, It was a HUGE releif for someone to know and have someone to talk to about it.

Well as I have probably mentioned befor. I personally have never dated any other woman who was remotely into it. But then again I have had very little contact with my own species in that respect. So I will probably never find anyone into it at this point in my life, pretty much like Y Knot's sitch. Mel Pup, good luck to you, though I suspect that since you make it a point of staying away from single guys; then I would think it unlikely you'll find and hook up with one that's sympathetic to your lifestyle.

This post has been edited by energydog on Nov 7 2006, 07:03 PM

As I'm also single,I don't have to worry about what my partner would say. :)

My wife knows that I have a large collection of VHS Vids and DVD's about K9 and Horses but I haven't been able to discuss having any actual erotic moments with a dog (she may suspect though but has said nothing).
We have a very good relationship, each being able to have "fun" when the chance arises but I haven't been able to broach the subject of playing with a dog. We have been married for 30 years and our dog died five years ago.
I have posted in the Europe personal ads but so far have had no luck but I live in hope.
Just wanted to add that I am really glad I found this forum as I feel so at home here.

I have a human female partner, and she knows. We joke about it.

I met her through a longtime friend of mine who found her through posting a personals ad. They had a brief romance, but they were incompatible. During that time my friend told her about my zoo side in an attempt to turn her interest away from me...

...but he failed! She had some zoo experience of her own in the past (eaten by a boxer) so this just made her more interested.

:beer:

*stares off into distance* I like to watch the dog-licking-woman images here because I know what that dog is tasting and feeling, and I can give the same service to my partner.

Plus I am happy to report that the chihuahua in my avatar was recently allowed to join us, so now we are a threesome at least part of the time. Life is good.

My boyfriend knows. He isn't a zoo but he loves that I am. ;) All of my close friends know, which is about 4 people. The fact that they accepted it so easily makes me happy. =] I've never been able to keep secrets from the people I trust, I always make sure to be straightforward. Seems to work for me!

My mom knows as well, and she makes jokes about how at least I'm not a lesbian (she's one haha) or at least I won't get pregnant. I would never EVER be able to tell my dad or his side of the fam though. o_o That would be a disaster an a half.

I prefer to keep my life style my secret, but two of the night staff found me with my last lover. Way back in my younger days a few of my close friends were into sex with animals, even to the point of occasionally making bets and the looser had to make or have an animal make love with or to them. Later in life we all moved apart and went our separate ways. I have been with several human lovers but I have always returned to my love of animals. My last close friend of the human variety knew of my desire to be with animals and he even helped me on several occasions. He had a love of dogs as well, but a few months ago he passed away in his sleep. Now I am left with my memories and the uptight staff around here that watch ever move we make.