im in a relationship atm on our 5th year now and i havent told her granted we dont own a dog, but we just had a child together and i have an engagment ring, but i want to tell her befor i give it to her, should be interesting i imagin lol

I'm not currently in any sort of relationship, but in the past, I've had 2 lovers that knew, and a few that I dared not let it be known to.

Of the two that knew, one was active, and the other wasn't.

ive dated one and she accepts so thats good

with mine I feel that I have nothing to hide. Even though I haven't straight out said anything, I let it be obvious to him. and I'm not so sure he isn't interested. :P
We were in his car one day and drove past someone walking a dog. He casually says "that dog has some large balls." I didn't see the dog at first and immediately turn to look, and then say "ooh, nice."
then at another time, he said that if I ever had sex with a dog I'd have funny-looking puppies (I have no idea how our conversation got to that point), and I said "that's not true, dogs can't get girls pregnant." then he said "how would you know? You ever tried it?" I said, "no, but I'd like to." He just laughed.
Now I just need to find out if he is interested too, but I think he may be. :whistling:

About 3 1/2 years ago when I started with neighbours dog, I had no Idea howto do it. So I was looking in every animal chat, for a good guaidance. If I only looked properly,, this BF,, was already in my husbands harddrive, password and all, and the howto section here would be all I needed. But I started chating with several women, mostly from germany, (becouse I speak theyr langauge) . So with few women, (mostly married women ) I got close, with few wery close. I must say that talking about sexual , a d sensual stuf, and admiting each others desires, somehow it draws people together, no mather male or female. Ok the was a girl Andrea, she was in relationship with a guy, that she loved very much. But her dog passed away few months befor she met her fiancee. Yes we had many happy hours and we were bot horny talking about dogsex. So one day We talked about her fiancee, he would never accept bestiality, thats what she sayed. So I suggested to her, to introduce me to her fiancee, and I will admit to him that I have relationship with a dog, and I will tell him how nice and how healthy it is for a woman. But, he was not a computer man, that was another problem. But than Andrea had another Idea, becouse she knows what type pf girls he likes, and she found a picture from the internet and told him that it was me. Well, we started chating,, we both were not good on computer, but soon he wanted to have cybersex. That was the time that I have told him that I love dogs beside the men. I felt very dirty , becouse I reported the progress to Andrea,, but I got him to accept dogs, to be as mens supstitutes. Enyway,, everything worked well and 4 motnths after we started chating,, christmass was there,, and I suggested that a proper present for Andrea would be a dog. Than I asked andrea what kind of a dog she would like/, she wanted a black lab,,, so was her previous dog. So she got a Black lab , 9 months old for christmass, ready to start training. * months after that, they got married. They both got what they enjoy, but there is one fiasko,,,, but thats only for me. Andrea told me that thomas was sucking the black lab sometimes,, but she was the one who made him do it. Thats not for me,, but they loving it, cheers
zenny

^that is so awesome. :D

I revealed to my partner that I am a zoo, interested mainly in dogs and horses (Huskies, and shephards and stallions, Oh my!). Originally she was put off, but apparantly she's had a couple of zoo experiences in the past, and is now looking forward to when we get our affairs in order and can start looking for a four legged partner :)

I've also come out to a few of my closer friends, some of whom share the interest, other's who are turned off by it, but they've all stuck by me, so I count myself lucky. :)

I am rather arbitrarily quoting Wishful' here; but my question is this: would your conviction that your spouse (male or female) would not accept your interest in bestiality actually make you consider divorcing him or her.

I ended an eight year relationship a couple of years ago for several reasons, but one of them WAS definitely because she wasn't into bestiality at all. She did in retrospect get into a little fantasy talk about it in bed, but would go no further. And I got frustrated and bored.

I'm seriously thinking of holding out this time for a committed zoo woman.

Just wondering how big a factor it is for y'all in choosing a partner.

SM

well my gf dose not know, but i do want to tell her but i dont know how to go about doing it.

Hey Doc',

I guess my question is, when you do get around to telling your girlfriend about your zoo lifestyle, what if she doesn't like that lifestyle and doesn't want you pursue it any further? Would you give up bestiality or her?

SM

My GF knows ... oh wait .. My GF is a horse ...

I dont think i will give it up, but i dont want to lose her, but if i do O-well. I'm not going to stop being a zoo, i love my animals to much.

Unfortunately, while I am very happily married, my wife has no idea about my zoo tendencies. In fact we were married well before I discovered them. I also realized I was submissive and told her about it. That nearly cost me my marriage. I have to live that part of my life in secret and I'm sure some of you know how hard it is to stifle urges so strong. I can only hope one day I will find someone close by to share that part of my life with. Don't get me wrong, I love my wife and would never jeopardize what we have... 18 yrs worth... together. Just hope to be able to be me at least on a part time basis.

I kinda envy those of you who are able to share your zoo experiences with others. :)

I'm a firm believer in open and honest communication with a significant other, considering it essential for a healthy, successful relationship. So, in order for a relationship to work, I'd need to feel that I could trust her with my fantasies and kinks.

Of course, I'm presently single, so I have that luxury, the ability to feel them out and get a sense for whether or not she'd be disgusted or repulsed by the ideas or the imagery that turns me on and, if I feel she wouldn't accept me, end the relationship before it progresses to a point where I feel I constantly have to hide a part of me from her. I've no doubt it would be infinitely harder to confess my interests to someone after being married to them for several years, because I'd be terrified of how they might react and what it might cost me.

Wife knows and is ok with it.