1 and 3. Mostly 3 would like to meet and chat with like minded, but at times just need to satisfy the sex drive......

Frankly, I'd just like to have access to a trained male dog for a little while to introduce my girlfriend to the joys of it. Sadly, dog ownership is out of the question for either of us.

Unfortunately, all the zoo meetings to "share" a K9 seem to be either men who are just looking for some action and hope Rover will score that for them or people who want to fim it or watch it or something. My gal's not an exhibitionist -- she doesn't want to be filmed or gawked at while she's having sex.

I realize that this leaves the giant question of "what's in it for me" for the dog owners, and since I can't answer that question I don't hold out much hope that either of us will ever be able to actually indulge our zoo fantasies. There are other options (strays, petsitting, etc.), but since mention of those seems to stir up a lynch mob around here, I'll drop it.

I don't think a lynch mod Atomix - just members expressing concern and illustrating the flip side of the coin...

we have never forbidden the discussion or support of "fence hoppers" but we also can't forbid members who don't approve from expressing themselves...

admittedly the topic does often bring about heated expressions - but I think that members on both sides of the issues have gotten carried away -it's not what side thier opinions fall on - it's how they express themselves...

the floor has always been open and remains open for mature discussion of the topic.

1 and 2.

I just want to experiment more, and develop friendships with people who share this incident. A month ago I would have said I want to date a zoo, but I am with someone now that, although she is not a zoo, is more than I could ever ask for or need or want, and doesn't shun me for this interest. So for now, it's not even so much casual sex (because I'm devoted to my girlfriend and having someone share their animal with me and having them there to me is a form of cheating in my opinion), it's I just want friends. More the merrier? :)

Thinking about it, I should have just voted the friends one lol.