my 2 cents. . . (as a gay zoo)

Well,. . I have met a couple of guys who are zoo friendly in real life. .Both of these guys were really nice and very friendly. I think anyone who would contemplate this at all, would have to have an open mind. I guess the trick would be the issue of trust. . . "Trust" ,. is a huge issue since in many areas of the world, this subject is taboo.

As a gay man,. . you build up courage to even attempt meeting your first guy for a sexual experience, and you go through the same feelings meeting a zoo for the first time: (as I like to call it the nervous butterflys). Thankfully, both the men I met, were just normal gay men who happened to have a thing for zoos too.


what I can say,. . is that the internet and forums are a great way to "meet" people period.. . In a more general sense,. . It is up to each of us to get to know somone. . of course it is "riskey" meeting "anyone" for the first time. You should get to know somone before you do anything foolish. Talk to them,. . talk to people. . get to know them. If you both trust each other to meet in the first place,. . then you should be able to trust each other further.

What I can say is: . .take a chance. . talk to people. . . you will never meet anyone if you never try,. . and if you are looking for love. . try and find somone with similar interests. I have heard of some very bad zoo stories, of people meeting "the wong people". . but I have also heard of some truely heart-warming stories also. . of couples meeting each other this way. . both homosexual and heterosexual couples meeting each other in zoo forums and make quality lasting realtionships with the "addition" of both liking zoos.

take a chance. . meet people.. . get to know them. . don't be too chicken. . I mean come on. . you are here aren't you.?

Sylphboi2

I am, like Allan I am also zoo exclusive. Yet I do like meeting other zoos, and their pets, without any form of sexual play getting in the way. They are great friends and I am very appy to know them. I wouldn't do anything that would jeopardize the relationship, as friendship is very valuable to me. not to mention True friends are hard to cum by.

IF however the owner wants along with her/his pet/lover/wife/hubby agrees, and asks me to have sex with their critter, I won't say no, even if it may seem bit odd for me. If the owner says "yes please go ahead" and animal says no, then it's no. Same as if animals say Yeah please and owners say no, then that is also no. I deeply respect the wishes of my friends and their pets

Hello Everybody,
I like meeting people in general. If by some fortunate chance they share my desires that is only a plus. I enjoy this forum because of the commen denominator we all share. The zoos that I had the chance to meet in my life have been great people but it only takes one person to ruin a lifetime of trust. I wish I had a freind closer to were I live to be able experince the chance to be able to have a drink and talk to a good friend that share this subject. I hope to be able to find other friends soon to share with. Most of my freinds that I experienced things with have moved and this is not an easy subject to bring up with people. At the moment my biggest problem is that I moved from Chicago to Scandnavia and I speak the laguage but my writing is poor so I have trouble writing people I meet.
Tykesknot

In the end, ya have to ask yourself if you really trust this person enough to meet with them at all then you hope for the best.
Myself ive had good experiences, as well as a couple regretable ones, but in the end it all biols down to freedom to choose.

I have several zoo friends that ive met and dont regret it for a moment.
But, like Silver i respect that no matter how much you would like to meet with someone, its still up them whether or not they want to meet you. Just dont hold it against someone if they tell you no, sometimes any friendship albeit unseen, is better than a ruined one.

Guns

Hay tykesknot, I do like meeting zoos as, as you say we have common ground and you are right. it only takes one wrong bad perosn to mess the whole trust thing up. You said you live in Sweden now? I don't have a problem with english so would like to get to know ya better and maybe meet up some day? It's a very hard subject to bring up anywhere as it's still very taboo and very disgusting to many. Can't see why, as I feel the same way about other human/human sex acts but I can still discuss them.

Guns, It does all boil down to trust and if you talked with fur a while and gotten to know them, Have met quite few zoos in sweden, and trust them very much, and love em alot.

I have to second that, that it's still up to the other person(s) as well if they wanna meet you. Yet alone meet them and maybe play or date their pets/animals.
For many it's a big step meeting someone that they only chatted with on the net, and I fur one have not regretted meeting the zoos I have met so far.

I think my point was missed. I meant seriously that some of us simply have no desire for any kind of RL contact, for "friendship" or any other reason. It's just not an interest to us.

I do agree that if you are concidering RL meeting you should be very careful. There are a lot of frauds, users and abusers out there, like anywhere in life. That danger isn't what keeps me an "online" only aquaintance though, nor is it a dislike of humans in general. Just no desire to add to the number of humans I already see every day.

We aren't all looking for friendships, partners (we aren't here out of a love of humans after all) or contacts for other reasons by our presence here. I was just highlighting a missing segment in the poll.

Hope that clarifies what I meant. Sorry for the confusion.

Ok ,. . so lets see here. . Some of us. are content to love our animals At home, and have them be a "partner/mate". . and some of us look for a human who shares a similar interest.

there are pluses and minuses to both sides.

I would agree with sentiments that, one should get to know someone very well before meeting them. In many areas of the world this subject is taboo; and the world is full of sinister people. Never the less; to those who are looking to meet another individual,.. . Why not Pm. people who seem to share an interest of yours. reply to their postings and get to know them. Be social. many people out there are just like you and me. they have lives outside of the bedroom.

I am happy for those of you who live alone with your, "lover". . . and I am glad to see you all out being social. Indeed there are others here who share your interests. Share things with the "newbies" ,. . many of them need help. Be not afraid to speak your mind. . this is a forum, and that is what it is for.

I didn't want my posting from before to seem so one-sided. I can see the point of "solitary" zoos and Zoos who are not into meeting people. . . but then again,. . why are you here. Be social. . post things. . be active. .

think of all of us as one big "family". . maybe disfucntional at times. . but a family.

I have the greatest love for all of you out there. and special thanks to those on this board who have been so friendly and nice, thus far.

HUGS all. .

Sylphboi2

Allthough i would love to meet a girl who was into zoo, i would settle for some zoo net friends at first

I chose "mostly one and three". I like to meet other people, Its alot of fun getting to know someone. Its even more fun when you can do certain "activities"( :rolleyes: ) with that person.

For me, i love to share experiences with another zoo or zoo wannabe but really have no big desire to meet face to face. Like Svadilfari i respect others animals and differently, i usually don't play with someone else's partner/lover. if someone happened into my life who shared my zoo love and also clicked with me totally, then i would have to rethink the sharing with him. i will not force an animal, they must be willing and express it. they can and will. also being older, i find not many zoos are into talking and sharing. that's fine, we all have choices and i accept that. I can say no too, when i feel that way. i do have two 'net' zoo friends that i hope someday can sit down and have coffee and talk. would be great! i have learned i can trust them completely.

I voted 3, only interested in makeing friends.


I guess i'm what you call a solitary zoo, i enjoy just living at home wiht my lovers. I am very zoo exclusive, exclusive to female dogs, no disire to find a Girlfriend.

I do enjoy meeting people especialy other zoo's alot, but it's strictly for friendship, i have no interest in being with thier mates or lovers at all, and i would not share my lovers either. I hold a high respect for other's lovers.

I agree when you meet have to be very careful, but it is veyr worth it. I have met and made some wonderful zoo friends, some who are also on here and others not, but none through here yet. Being able to talk openly to someone about this subject can be very benificial.

Tundra

It would be nice to meet some women into zoo in the same geographical area, though realistically there are alot more guys posting here than women.

Good topic though!

I wouldn't mind meeting other zoos. It would be nice to know others with the same interests. While it wouldn't be for the purpose of having sex with somebodies dog, I surely wouldn't pass up the opportunity if it were made available. ^_^

Dont think i am beaing cheaky Svadilfari but i cant put my fealing any better than you alreday stated so i will simply second you and qoute

i just like to meet others with the same intrerest as me
to chat with and the like if anything came out of it fine
if not then thats ok too