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| alicebotts |
Posted: Oct 29 2009, 12:24 AM
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I'm new here, so i guess there are a number of threads on this topic, but I think I'd probably get lost in transit.
My thread/discussion is how have people who "do" let another into their secret. I'm sure most of us don't widely broadcast that we have sex with animals - there is a very strong taboo out there in the general public. I am 47, a professional woman, and I have been enjoyably mating with my Golden Retriever, "Doggie" for well over a year now. I realise I'm a late bloomer in this regard, but there you are. I live alone, and have a 20 yr old daughter who lives/studies interstate: we are on very good terms. I am also a lesbian and have been openly "out" in that regard for over 15 years. I have been alone now for about 3 years, but recently have tentitively started another relationship with a woman about my age. She is the only person beside myself that knows about my little pecadillo, but so far has reserved any real judgement: she has made it clear she probably won't be involved with Doggie, but so far has shown no indication of being negative toward me. I'm just wondering if any others in remotely thesme situation had positive outcomes. |
| calzane |
Posted: Oct 29 2009, 12:41 AM
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Supreme Being ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Members Posts: 5205 Member No.: 203367 Joined: 15-December 05
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:thinking: sounds good , ;) i guess but you will get more out of your thread if it was in the personal ad an dating area
http://www.beastforum.com/showmainforum-4.html good luck |
| curious1looking |
Posted: Oct 29 2009, 01:02 AM
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Disciple of the board Group: VIP Members Posts: 19207 Member No.: 570365 Joined: 15-September 07
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Hi :)
You'll find hundreds of similar threads in the How To and Zoo Sections ...... not the Personals. Take a browse around those sections or do a search in those forums and you'll find them easy enough. Good luck ! |
| deerhunter |
Posted: Oct 29 2009, 01:13 AM
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Disciple of the board Group: Moderator Group Posts: 16838 Member No.: 53910 Joined: 8-October 04
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Moved to zoo section.
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| energydog |
Posted: Oct 29 2009, 06:48 AM
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Well I personally am still waiting to share this lifestyle with a S.O. That aside, there are quite a few people who have shared and are still sharing their lives with S.O.s who are also involved with the lifestyle. But as with all things the successes of those relationships are still fraught with the same pitfalls that plague the relationships of "straights". And some I don't doubt for good or ill were influenced by one partners involvement in the lifestyle. My point to all my rambling is this. If you are looking for some magic bullet to either bring her into the fold, so to speak; or at least make her definitively zoo friendly, I'm afraid then your search may yield poor results. Regardless of whether people are zoos, beasties or straights they all have the same strengths and weaknesses. Hence zoo relationships are usually no better or worse than non zoo ones. Hope that helps somewhat. :cool2:
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| guthwulf |
Posted: Oct 29 2009, 07:16 AM
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Hello, it is nice to meet you :)
Despite being a straight, married male, I think I am in a similar situation. I am zoo, have been long before I'd heard the word zoophilia. Recently told my wife about my zoophilia. She reacted much in the same way your partner did. She seemed to accept it, but clearly wants no part in it. Threatened to leave me if she ever caught me in the act. I suppose she expected me to be relieved that she didn't leave me here and now, I was actually more concerned than relieved. I think there is a big difference between tolerance and acceptance. I'm sure you know that well. I don't know what will come of your relationship, because I don't know what will become of mine. I suppose it will be just as likely she becomes zoo as it is she decides to up and leave someday. I'd not push it, either way. I think putting the zoophilia thing on the table is a pretty big burden to put on someone who isn't or who has never considered the thought. She knows, your partner and mine both know at this point. I think the best thing to do for both of us is to let her take it all in, and ponder on it. For better or worse, the ball is in her court. This post has been edited by guthwulf on Oct 29 2009, 07:17 AM |
| aquaofny |
Posted: Oct 30 2009, 06:47 PM
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HI i dont understand you say female in this thread but your profile says male so you have wondering what is going on? Please tell the truth
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| SillyGooz |
Posted: Oct 31 2009, 01:02 AM
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Yes, I have had some great success with SO's and then not so great success.
I would not call him a a SO, but as a young male I was very close with the boy next door. Yes, we were all 18 years old. We had a very intense physical relationship. I do not consider myself gay, Bi yes, but we were hot and sweaty one summer night, and fondled each other. It was my first, similar age, male to male relationship. We actually continued these trysts through a number of male/female relationships, on both of our parts. Being young, I was always very experimental and open to kinkiness and taboo. My friend, although very sexual, was far more conservative. I had the pleasure of experiencing a wonderful licking from a friends dog. It rocked my world. I was so excited by this, that the next time he and I were together, I shared it with him.The dog was there and I asked, "do you want to see something". I was stroking his cock and I motioned for the dog to join us. He was shocked, but the look on his face as he licked us both, two cocks rubbing together, enjoying that wonderful tongue. He was sold as well. We continued like that most of the summer, until he got a dog of his own. I then got married, and continued my beastly desires. One night in the heat of passion, exchanging stories about my past, I shared the previous story. My wife was so excited, she asked that I show her with the family dog. That is another novel, but needless to say, licking was not the only thing she did with our loving Ben. My current wife will have no part of this passion, although she loves our dog as much as can be, just not physically. This post has been edited by SillyGooz on Oct 31 2009, 01:09 AM |
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