I was always raised with my parents viewpoints on different things. I had always thought of animals in a sexual way but had never had the nerve to act on these things. I have recently had a male dog perform oral but have never passed that point. Afterwards I felt ashamed because of my upbringing, feeling that what I had done was wrong. I was wondering for people that have been there and to be able to talk to them about this lifestyle. How they got into it and what it was like the first couple times getting into it. I am 18 by the way and would just like some advice with what you should do and what not to do. Thanks in advance.

Sexilover -- You came to the right place. I've been lurking around for a long time but rarely contribute. shy I guess. But you should meet many knowledgeable and friendly folks here.

:welcome: to B.F. sexi ;) my start with animals was much like yours i was raised around them and always had a strange interest in them sexualy :rolleyes: as well it was not for a long time that i realy tried anything with one and i was hooked on it :wacko: as for your feeling guilty about it because of your up bringing it's understandable what matters most is what your heart is telling you and go with that when your dog did oral on you how did it make you feel at the time did it feel right then? if so then go for it if not don't your the only one who can say what's best for you :) good luck with what ever you do

Asuggesrion from me, go back to the HOW TO's section and read away!
Welcim to our little group!
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himfella
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It's whatever YOU, personally, are comfortable with. And that certainly changes over time. Just hang around here, talk and look around. No pressure. However, that only applies HERE. DO NOT decide to talk it over with people in real life. Once it's out there, you can't take it back. Welcome, relax, and give it time. Find your own comfort level.

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Well without going into age specifics I would venture that most of us experimented to some degree when we were of the more young adult variety. Rather than of the old geezer variety like I am now. That being said I think it also needs to be remembered that most, if not all of us where brought up in societies that shared a dim view of animal sexuality. Moreover, our lifestyle tends to be in the minority as far as populational proportions go. Thus increasing the probability that the vast majority of us groped our way into the lifestyle alone and without help. I have oft wondered myself how it might have shaped my sexuality had I had someone help me or talk to me about this unique kind of love and sex. I never really had a hard time accepting who I was or the type of sexual preferences I had. But there are obviously many people who do have hard time with self acceptance or even just plain old self awareness or understanding of their feelings. I certainly don't doubt that getting help early on would have greatly helped a lot of those kinds of people. Especially alleviating some of the self doubts and self hatred that society has programmed into us about "aberrant" types of sexual behavior.

Shame there is and yet you can hardly talk about it with anyone. My advise is keep it for you, its your thing and work it out. I remember when I first saw a bestiality picture in a magazine, I was embarrassed and shocked. But it exited me a lot and looked for more. Then my first movie, had to hide it good. This was in the Betamax time, no internet at that time. Now there is a lot of stuff around, lucky us.

Rob

The best things i can say is that you should take your time (and enjoy every moment), be always sure on what you want before doing it, and keep it for yourself. I was for a long time in the same situation as you are now, i let him lick me, but didn´t allow anything else, then i start feeling more confortable with other stuff, and now i let him mount and knot me, and i really enjoy it.
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You're among friends here.

It seems that the world hasn't changed much since i came of age, half a million years ago! I was raised in a fundamentalist christian family, and suffered severe pangs of shame and guilt over my needs and desires. It took me years to realize that the good Creator made me the way I am, and no doubt intended to do just that. I'm sure he didn't fumble the job! After all, He's all wise and all powerful.

The world is full of people who want to tell us all how to live and behave. They do this because somebody else has told them how to live and behave. Too bad they can't all give us the same advice!

In your shoes, I would ask myself:

Do I believe the Creator intended to make me the way I am, or did he fumble badly?

If I do the things I know I want to do, will it hurt anyone? Any thing?

What do I really want to do?

Who's business is it, anyway?

One final bit of advice from an octogenarian: Try not to get cranky and cynical when you get old like me.

And I do hope you do get as old as me!

As others have said "welcome to the forum" and try reading the stickies at the top of the first page and do as you feel comfortable doing.

well i dont have much on experiance, but welcome to bf, and good luck!

Honey, no need for guilt. What you feel is all natural. We are sexual beings and
we have thoughts and needs. So many people do not act on these needs and live
a life of frustration. As long as no one is hurt then indulge in your desires. Your doggie will love you as you love him. Take you time and enjoy a rich and rewarding experience that your other girl friends just dream of.
Love your doggie and he will love you.
My hubby also says keep us informed on your lifestyle choice.
All the voyuers also want to know!

oxoxo Lucy (1/2 of PA) :angel:

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I suspect your contact with a dog's rongue will remove any of those lingering doupts, right??
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himdella
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Welcome to BF!

In reality no one can tell you what to do (it would be a horrible police state if it was so), what we can tell you, as stated before is what you can do, or give you a basis for you to stand and decide where you want to go.

If you decide to follow this path, welcome and may your journey be fullfilling.
I certainly hope you can live with the trade-offs of this lifestyle (don't worry, it isn't that hard unless you really need to share the very intimacies of your life in "facebook" or something like that :lol: ), and rely on the forum to find friends with a common mind and this particular intrest.

If you decide against following this path, may your journey be fullfilling too :beer:

Having a traditional upbringing can be troublesome with things like this, other controversial subjects and the like, but if you are smart enough to ask for info from various other sources, then you surely are smart enough to decide for yourself, good luck for that.

:o Images of beautiful women sucking off a dog or copulating with one turn me on. I have no idea why but the images are HOT. I would love to talk with a woman who enjoys sex with dogs.