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Posted: Jun 26 2009, 08:42 PM
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QUOTE (killjoy08 @ Jun 26 2009, 03:08 PM)
I'd personally like to hear from some of the women who visit this forum, how they feel about this thread. As I said in my posts, I am male so I could only offer the opinion of a male. Not to sound sexist but females tend to be more emotional by nature and I could see the term "love" coming up more often when they talk about their partners. It's often hard for a guy to say he loves some one and if it's easy, does he truly mean it? Some of us might be unable to admit our feels but are faced with them when our partners are done, you only realize what you had when you no longer have it.

Also, this thread might be best answered by some one who is in both a zoo and a human/human relationship at the same time, be it with another zoo or a non-zoo. For them, they would have to consider how much time they spend with each partner, what level of interaction is there between each. We all know that dogs and other animals can't speak our language but who do you spend more time talking to? Who do you find yourself telling secrets to or confessing your feelings to? When you are sad/depressed/upset who do you turn to for comfort? For a guy, being emotional and letting your guard down might feel safer around your animal partner as many men are raised to think some emotions are "weak" and you shouldn't let any one see. How often have you cried where others can see you, specially your human partner?

Lastly, some say "I got it solely for sex" but as I pointed out, is that 100% true? Is sex the ONLY interaction you have with the animal? Do you feed it/water it? Do you take it to the vet when its ill? Do you shelter it? Do you brush it? I don't mean to anthropomorphize animals but when you do and compare the care you offer them to the care you would offer a human mate, is it really that different? When you take a wife, she moves into your house (usually) and when you get a pet, they move in as well. If you work and your wife takes care of the house, you are providing the food for her just as you would for your pet. If she's sick it's up to you to take her to the hospital (since you have the money/insurance) just as you would have to take your pet to the vet. NO I am not trying to say women are pets or objectify them in any way, I am simply making an analogy in a way that's easy to understand. Whether or not you realize it, your relationship to your pets is similar in many ways to a relationship with a spouse, even pets you don't have sex with.

HAHA what is it about my name that it sounds like a guys i wish it was more girly lol :)

Im a 21yr f. I live in south texas and i am a zoo and was at one point in a relationship with a human, so not exactly zoo exclusive. I dont have anything against this thread, as i have mentioned before i believe as long as the animal is taken care of and treated like a pet rather than a sex to then thats ok. there is no need to have a high emotional level for you pet as some zoos would have, my dog grew on me because i have been single for so long. I do have a person on mind and i find my self talking to him more than i do my dog. Im an open person i believe in honesty and if there is an issue thats on my mind i dont confide it to my dog i speak with the person. but if the point comes to that i dont want to see that person yes i turn to my dog and i talk to my dog. To me, men arnt very comforting when feeling sad. Even though dogs cant say "its ok everything will be alright" theres nothing better then feeling that you are loved by something or someone. and for the record i cry all the time im VERY emotional but not exaggerated.

Again zoophilia and bestiality are different. on your last note killjoy, hopefully sex isnt the only form of interaction that people have with the dog. they still have responsibilities to take care of their pet. even though they are similair to that of a responsibility for, lets say a human child, doenst mean they have to be loved like a human. I see my dog as my partner as i would with a human rather then just a pet. I have other male dogs, but i dont put them as high on an emotional level as i do with my main man, they are simply my pets and same goes with my female. but i love then groom then feed them play with them every time that i need.
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Posted: Jun 26 2009, 09:56 PM
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I am ok with ppl that dont have an emotional bond with their dog and have sex. BUT as long as they care about it and they not misstreat it.
I dont like ppl that just have sex and after that they dont care about their dog, forgeting to feed it or just keep it locked somewhere.
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Posted: Jun 26 2009, 10:21 PM
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dont mean to throw off the subject but what about puppy mills when all they use their dogs is for breeding. yes they are fed and what not, but they dont hardly have any interaction with people at all so its not entirely impossible for a dog to be used just for sex when they can be locked some where used for breeding.
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Posted: Jun 26 2009, 11:56 PM
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QUOTE (Horndawgs110503 @ Jun 26 2009, 10:21 PM)
dont mean to throw off the subject but what about puppy mills when all they use their dogs is for breeding. yes they are fed and what not, but they dont hardly have any interaction with people at all so its not entirely impossible for a dog to be used just for sex when they can be locked some where used for breeding.

puppy mills is a big subjext. What they do is so cruel and bad, they just use dogs for money and when they are no more needed they just throw them out like nothing. The problem is that many ppl dont know about what is happening there.
Those things should have closed but they have a lot off money to be closed by law. The only way is ppl learnabout it and go close it themselves but then what happens to so many dogs that are in there. Someone who loves dog must take the leadership in these things or else it is just a suffering camp for dogs.
How much i would love to kill these ppl that torture weak animals for profit but then by the stupid law i must go to prison :(
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Posted: Jun 27 2009, 01:13 AM
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yes what they do is cruel but i was just saying that people can do the same when just having a dog for sex and not really care for it. just feed it and have sexual interaction with it. i wouldnt doubt it that someone has done that. but i know people here we love and vaule our pets whether we keep them at that level or see them as something more

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Posted: Jun 27 2009, 04:18 AM
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I tend to agree with energy on most points. "We are all individuals and each with different needs."
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Posted: Jun 27 2009, 04:47 AM
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QUOTE (st benard @ Jun 27 2009, 04:18 AM)
I tend to agree with energy on most points. "We are all individuals and each with different needs."

exactly but how we take care of those needs varies.
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Posted: Jun 27 2009, 08:38 AM
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I agree we all have different needs from any kind of relationship sexual or otherwise, human or non human. But what I think the OP was trying to get at was that he/she felt there was some quintessential superiority of being emotionally involved with your animal lover, versus saying just enjoying sex with them and having no real romantic bond with them. Personally I think its a losers game to try and split hairs over who's a true zoo versus a true beastie. In the end it serves nothing but to divide our community, such as it is. Nor does it legitimize one stance versus another in the eyes of non zoos/beasties. All the non zoo/beasties in the world think of us all the same anyways.
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Posted: Jun 27 2009, 08:25 PM
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Hi Guys, Im a newbee AND female so here goes.

I wanted to try sex with a dog because I wanted the experiment !!

My emotions didn't come into it ( until I came ) then it was frantic - enjoyment I mean.
What it has done to my emotions is that the experience has ADDED to my outlook. I don't "love" the dog, I love my boyfriend because we are human. I "care" greatly about the dog and try to give him a lovely life.

I am not in any way "hung up" now that I have tried it, it was fascinating in many ways which I won't bore you with unless you ask. I will definitely do this regularly now as it is fantastic.

It remains to be seen if my emotions become affected the more sex I have with Bruno ( the dog ) For me it is just sex, and I feel that it is the same for Bruno - he doesn't care if I orgasm, he just wants to orgasm himself and if the first time was anything to by he orgasms a lot - or maybe he doesnt - perhaps I orgasm ( cos Im human ) and he just comes ( because he is a dog )

Any clearer guys ?
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