my germanshepherd girl is the love of my life we just match so well i even married her i have a ring on my finger and she has one on her collar .she is truely my world .every thing was fine till i got a saintbernard puppy she is very sweet and my germen girl and my saint puppy play very nice together .this morning as i made love to my girl the saint puppy came up on the bed to watch after i was done lovin up on my german girl i kissed my saint girl and rolled her over on her back and gave her kisses then i kissed down her belly to her muffin and kissed that to she was so relaxed i gave her muffin a few licks then stopped with my german girl looking on i felt bad like i cheated on her my question would be this would you just deal with the feeling and continue or stop and stick with the one you chose to be your wife .this is very hard for me ,i love them both but only one is my wife.thanks mop.

Not to be flip, but this would be between you and your "wife".

Is Sheppy the jealous type? Does she feel her position is threatened? Are you comfortable? (Obviously not...)

Dogs are by nature pack animals, and take multiple mates, tho' more activity by the Alpha male and female, so there's natural precedent for it.

Gotta be what you're comfortable with..... B)

Mindy,
Never been in that predicament myself as I never had more then one dog at a time. I think if your "wife" was upset about this she would make her feelings known in unmistakable terms. Like us our canine companions, we are creatures of habit. If she was "take aback" at what you did, it just might be that it never happened before and was strange. Perhaps she will join you in licking the St.B's "muffin" soon. :rolleyes:

:devil2: am on my 3rd female dog and two of them would not let me fuck a woman in there presents that ones I had would not share , guess U have to try and C if she will share with yur st bernard girl if she shows animasity towards st bernard pup then U better stop or she will hang a beating on her , up to U

Hi Mopar,

How are your girls doing? Your love for your "wife" is great.

I so understand what you are talking about, I feel the same way with my female GSD girl, she is my life my everything. She as you say litterly fits me so well and completely in every way possible. She loves to snuggle, cuddle, loves sex, even her body size fits me so well when we cuddle and sleep. I am so very in love with her. She is my "one and only" While i haven't married her as you have yours, i'd love to do that sometime.

I know how you feel about being devoted to her, I have alot of the same feelings towards my GSD girl, and have a hard time being with any other female. There is a female Border collie/lab mix here that is in full heat begging for sex but i haven't been able to do anything with her. I've noticed that these feelings have gotten stronger over time. It's love true love.

You just have to take time and think what you are comfortable with, and also what your wife is as well, I've known some GSD's that don't like to share their mates hehe. My girl don't outwardly show it towards the other girls but when she smells them on me she does turn her back on me for a bit so i know it hurts her some, and that plays a role with me not doing anything with anyone but her.

I hope things work out good for you and your girls

Tundra

I guess all of us females tend to get a little peeved when our male partner starts showing attention to another female.

:devil2: my girldog dont like sharing my dick with a woman they keep a good thing for themselves :wub:

Hi Mopar,
It sounds like you are not comfortable with this situation. If that is so, it is likely that your body language will reflect that and, as the Saint matures, the GSD may become protective of you. I think you should stick with your wife until and unless syou, she and the Saint are all comfortable wit each other.
Good luck,
LTD

Hmmm I'm thinking just the opposite really. The way to ovoid problems before they can start is conditioning, same as socialization for out-and-about issues. You say the GSD was just "looking on," so no serious problems have begun yet except your own guilt. If you intend to have a sexual relationship with the SaintB in the future, then stick with the program. Continue to be familiar and intimate in your play with the SaintB, and gradually move into simulated sex as she matures, so it won't be frightening to her and so the GSD will have time to accept the new situation, and maybe most important so you can also get comfortable in your own mind.
Eventually the two dogs will have to work out their pack hierarchy, regardless of how you want to define their roles in your mind. Wife, 2nd wife, mistress, consort, whatever. How do the polygamists handle these problems?

thanks for the replys but it didnt seem to bother them as mutch as it did me .thanks again

agreed. Let both dogs get used to the situation.