Hi there,

As some of you already read in my first post, I want to go further with my dog (sexually) but I'm having some troubles doing that since I don't live on my own.

There is one option, doing it in the middle of the night when my parents are asleep.
It's just that I'm still a little scared, but very excited at the same time.

So, I'll let you decide. Shall I go any further tonight, or just wait untill I am living on my own?

Sarah.

It's hard to make a suggestion for a scenario like this where is so much to consider, but I don't mean this in a negative way. There is a lot at stake here! If you truly wish to take things farther with your pet, you'll have to do some careful planning:

• You may want to wait at least an hour after your parents have gone to bed. This will give them time to chat and fall asleep, and hopefully after an hour has elapsed their brains will be initiating or already be in the REM sleep cycle, which is the deepest sleep state.
• Conceal your actions as best as you can. Stuff a blanket or towel underneath the crack of your door to muffle sounds and block out light, and it wouldn't hurt to lay a few blankets out on where you plan on being. If you're a bit of a screamer, or think you may be, it wouldn't be a bad idea to have a hand towel to bite down on if you think things are going to get rough.
• If you live on a multi-story house, and your parents sleep upstairs, this would be best done on the bottom floor. Not only will they be less likely to hear what you're doing, but in the event things don't go as planned, you will have a bit more time to pull yourself together and prepare a defense for what you were doing. If they sleep on the bottom floor, try doing this upstairs and as far away from their room as possible.
• Have an emergency plan. If something goes wrong, such as the dog squealing or something loudly hitting the floor, try and have a few fitting excuses that could help avoid being caught red-handed. For example, if the dog lets out a yelp, say you were getting up to get some water and accidentally stepped on his tail.
• Lastly, don't rush things or pressure him into doing anything. Of course, don't do anything you think you're unprepared for either. If he's a big boy, his knot might be too large for you to take and mounting could be out of the question for now. Only do what the both of you feel comfortable with doing.

Of course, don't forget about taking your time and enjoying this special moment.

This post has been edited by secret_admirer on Nov 11 2008, 04:45 PM

I'd have to say Absolutely Not.

Unless you have the secure private place mentioned earlier. Maybe 98 times out of a hundred (I doubt that much) it would go OK, but the one time someone gets up to go to the bathroom, or get an aspirin, or that last slice of pizza, you're shagged.

Try this: Log onto BF after everyone is asleep. Do it maybe a hundred nights. See if you ever get caught. If you do, you can change screens with one click. Then explain why you are up doing that when everyone else is asleep. Think fast--it's good practice. If you're knotted to the dog, it's going to take a lot longer than 1 click, and be WAY harder to explain.

Don't let a moment's impatience ruin the rest of your life......... :pinch:

This is something much too important for forum members to choose for you. I want to say yes because I want you to have fun and do something you really want to do, and yet I still want to tell you no because I don't want you to get in trouble or something to go wrong. Secret_admirer made a very good post above, and I think there is good advice there.
You know your parents best. Think of their nighttime/sleep habits. Do they get up often in the night? If they hear a noise in your room, are they going to run over there quickly paranoid to make sure their "baby" is okay? Or do they leave their grown-up daughter alone? I don't want to scare you, but what if you get caught? Did you think about the consequences? If your parents catch you and disagree with your actions, would you still have a place to stay?

I'm gonna have to agree with Missywolf on this one. Even though I don't have a non-neutered dog(which I am going to remedy soon), parents always have a nighttime habit. For my parents, it seems like theirs is getting up sometime between 12-2 in the morning to use the bathroom or take a pill they forgot to use.

You gotta be careful and go with what your heart tells you. If it says go for it, then go for it, if it says wait, then wait. Don't torment yourself by thinking this is the something others should choose for you.

Thanks for all the tips and your opinions about this and thanks secret_admirer for your detailed planning!

There is one thing that you misunderstood (my fault), I never said I was thinking about letting my dog mount me. Only going further, as in going further than kissing.
What I ment to say was, ( gosh, hard to say.... :blush: ) letting him explore my private area and the other way around. Letting him lick me 'there' and do the same with him.

I know letting him mount me is too dangerous, I read about knotting and that it takes a while before the knot comes out. That just takes too long. Besides that I think I'm not really ready for that.

By the way, I live in a multi-store house, my parents sleep upstairs. I was never intending on doing it in my own room (my dog isn't allowed to go upstairs), I was thinking about doing it in the living room with the curtains closed and lights out. When they fall asleep they hardly wake up from sounds. If they dó wake up, I can hear them coming the moment they step out of bed, so I will have enough time to get my clothes back on (if I even have my cloth off). I'll just tell them I was going to get a drink.
Since I have my own computer in my room I can get on the BF everytime I want. They hardly come into my room.

I'm just a little scared/nervous because I never did this before.

everyone is scared when leaping into something really new like this. Don't worry about it. Like I said, just go with your heart.

I tried being general, but my natural tendency to expect and prepare for the worst seems to have permeated my intentions. :rolleyes: I certainly wouldn't expect a "first-timer" to want to be mounted, but you never know. People are different. Either way, it sounds like you have a solid idea of what course the night might take.

If all he is going to do is lick you (I know it's a bit difficult to be open about these things, but in time you'll see how understanding the people are here) then your list of preparations shouldn't have to be very long; it sounds as though you've already made detailed observations of the likely outcomes and formed appropriate reactions to them. Either way, I don't like making decisions for anyone, so I can only say I'm lending advice in case you do wish to explore the passion of your relationship.

What you're curious on doing really is something special, so it needs to be treated as such. When I was living at home with our male shepherd/chow/lab mix, we both liked "exploring" each other, and I knew it was our way of bonding, but every time we did so I felt like I needed to calculate the event down to the last stroke or lick. I wouldn't want you to miss out on this great experience but I definitely don't want you to be caught either; you can't be harmed from being too careful. Being nervous or scared is natural, but being spontaneous and careless is foolish! (Not that I'm implying you are being so.)

This post has been edited by secret_admirer on Nov 11 2008, 08:15 PM

Sarah please post tomorrow and let us know what & how you did.... if you do its fantastic :D , if you dont thats good also :( but either way you go, dont leave us hanging! LOL

Bed

I think it safer to concur with missywolf answer to this question.

The best advice I can give is simply don't get overly excited. Take the time to make sure there are as few risks as possible beforehand.

Ah, the days of experimenting late at night while the parents were sleeping. Brings back memories. B)

ShySarah, you seem to be a logical-thinking individual with a good head on your shoulders. Trust yourself to make your own decision here. We can offer advice and insight, but really in the end you will either take the chance, or you will not.

I was in a similar situation for a number of years; The times my dog and I got physical were pretty much always when my parents weren't home. Sometimes we had only a few minutes and had to sneak in a quickie. What can I say, the body sometimes just moves on its own, dragging the mind (and common sense) along with it. :blush:

My grrl and I actually did have sex a few times late at night while my parents were sleeping. And this was not in a multi-story house, nor was there a lot of distance between their room and mine. Granted, we were always very careful and very quiet, and my parents are heavy sleepers, but still...looking back on it, all it would have taken was (as neandernitz pointed out) one person getting up in the middle of the night and it would have been Game Over, big time. :pinch:

Still, I would be lying if I didn't say I have some fond memories of those few night encounters, hidden beneath the covers of my bed. And I will also tell you that the risk factor can add a bit of a thrill to the experience.

Since it sounds like you won't be trying anything serious with your boy - good move, by the way...save the serious stuff for when you have a good amount of time and the house to yourself - you may find it worth the risk. If all you want to do is kiss or mess around, I don't see the big deal...you seem to know the limitations of what you could do or not do, all that's left is for you to make the choice.

Choose wisely. But whatever you decide, have fun and enjoy it. Your dog certainly will. Good luck! ^_^

This post has been edited by Skyrune on Nov 11 2008, 10:14 PM

Hey sarah,

Maybe sometimes your parents are going out for dinner, or out to meet other family and you can come up with an excuse to not join them. This way you can be sure they will be away for a couple of hours atleast. Do not get it on straight away though, maybe they've forgotten something and teturn 5 minutes later!

Just wait for about 20-30 minutes and then try stuff that you'd like to try out.

I've sent you a private message just now, maybe we can talk to each other in our 'home' language if you prefer that. looking forward to hear from you:).


Oh and also very important: if you're on a public computer which may be used by any of your family members or even your friends, make sure you delete your search history. Even better (to not make your parents suspect you visit any adult websites), if you for instance use firefox as a main browser, use internet explorer to go to websites like this. that way no one will even remotely care why the history of internet explorer has been erased. Its little things like this which can make your parents find out.

This post has been edited by dogandhorsecum on Nov 11 2008, 10:48 PM

secret_admirer, I really admire the way you speak (type) :) . You have a way of using words.. it's amazing. I truly appreciate your help and advice.

Skyrune, I enjoyed reading your post. It's nice to know how others dealt with it. Thanks for the compliment by the way ^_^ .

I know my risks, but I'm pretty sure I won't get caught.
I have decided that I'm going to fullfill my fantasy tonight.

Thanks again for helping! I will be letting you know how it was tomorrow.

If I dare :P .

Wish me luck!

Thanks for the tips but I have already decided ^_^ .

I am fully aware that my browser keeps records of the sites I visit. Do not worry though, this is my computer and no one else but me is using it. (Except when a friend is visiting, but I know how to delete the history ;) ).