I'm probably posting this waaaaaaaaaay late... but

I just have to say that you'll never know if you like it or not until you try it...
after your first time it is your choice to continue or not.

Now if you're worried that you'd regret having intercourse with your dog, maybe start smaller.
Let him perform oral on you to see if you like it, perform oral on him if you want to try it. All to form a better opinion.

...well...at least that's what I did.


(This is my first post, so "hi" to you all. :))

^_^ glad you enjoyed the experience, val. Isn't it fun? :w00t:

welcome, createdvoid. :)

First of all, Welcome to the board! You will always get good advice from all of the members here.

I have known several women that embraced zoo as a general plus to a good marriage, to those that regarded it as a thrill. Either way, it worked to add flavor to their sex lives. None ever complained once experience was gained.

I gave my daughters choices regarding their sexuality, and their responsibility of having other species in their home life. They know of my own experiences, and they have my blessings to enjoy inter-species sex. Better that than unwed motherhood caused by overactive hormones.

My oldest has her own Bull Mastiff, and he is a protective gentleman towards her, as well as a companion, playmate and lover. She takes care of him on every way, as she should. She rightfully feels that he is her responsibility, and that she should attend to all of his needs as part of having him in her life.

This is good, as neither daughter is married, and they want to have a clear minds when they do decide that they want to get married and start families. They can be virgins as far as men are concerned.

At the moment, you seem to be on the pivot point to a decision regarding your canine companion. You have not got a human male in your life to attend to those needs all of us have such as love, acceptance, dependability and of course, sexual. In reality, it shouldn't matter if you did or not. He is always there for you, in whatever role you desire for him to fulfill. Any future human male in your life, will most probably accept any arrangement the two of you have as a bonus.

It ain't like you have 4 kids in tow!

Your canine companion is still young, but he will be more pliable towards learning the rules you would/should be setting for any mutual activities. This is pointed out in another post, and is very good advice.

The decision is always yours. Follow your heart in this matter. The brain rationalizes too much sometimes, and can cause indecision to rob you of what you need, or want, at this particular time in your life.

My paternal grandma always said "love the man, love his dog" (in this case, a German Shepard). Without that philosophy, she couldn't have kept her fidelity to grandpa throughout WWII. How many other women turned to their husbands "best friend" for companionship and comfort during those hard times?

You have never been alone, or will ever be, regarding the need for fulfillment. How you deal with it is up to you.

Some of you seem so interested in my situation, I wrote this out today about what happened Monday. It definitely wasn’t in my plan.
We’d just been for a jogging walk and played games outside, I was a bit sweaty and had taken off my jog suit in my bedroom when Danny came in and I just had my underwear on. He was in a good mood and he came over and sniffed at my crotch and I just stood and let him and stroked him and asked him if he liked it. Then he started licking my thighs and my knickers. It was very arousing but I started to tremble and felt dizzy. I kept thinking that’s enough I should really tell him to stop. The curtains were open so I sat down on the bed, he carried on and then I opened my thighs for him, it felt like they opened themselves. He just went on and on licking me. I got really excited, my heart was thumping and my face seemed to be burning. I felt myself melting and he was trying to lick it up through my knickers. Then I tried to get up again but just didn’t have the willpower, then I just took off my knickers and opened up for him. It just happened. It was an incredibly erotic feeling to do this for him and to see it. It was like in a dream. I felt really naked, in a sensual way, not embarrassed and shy like if I am naked with a man as I’m quite big. His tongue was the most sexual thing I’ve ever felt, it seemed to find every tiny bit of my pussy and even right into my vagina. I was amazed that he knew exactly how to do all this to a human female. I felt his hot breath and his muzzle. I just felt so open to him. It was a beautiful feeling. I felt very feminine. I laid back on the bed. Then I just had to take off my top and my bra as well. It was just an urge. For the first time ever I felt that I wasn’t in control over him and had to trust him. In a strange way, that made me even more excited. He just kept licking me with his big warm smooth tongue, he didn’t do anything else. I kept trying to tell him he was a good boy. My hips started moving up and down, and my thighs lifted up and opened wider for him. His licks had a wonderful rhythm which I was responding to and I got really carried away like in a dream. Eventually I had a big orgasm. I havn’t had an orgasm for months. Later I sat up and cuddled him and told him he was a good boy, then I told him to go to his basket, and I was so pleased he obeyed me, but he took my knickers with him! My pussy was quite swollen up for a while afterwards. I was worried I had an allergic reaction at first, but it was OK. After a while I went back to normal. I was very dreamy then I felt very excited mentally but soon started to feel ashamed of what I’d done. I was shivering. I tried to promise never to do it again. I woke up in the night, couldn’t believe what had happened but couldn’t forget how exciting and this is scary and weird, how sort of natural it had all felt. It was much easier to give way than to resist. I thought I was a pervert or a freak. I had all sorts of feelings. I’m feeling more calm now. Sorry to ramble on like this. Love Valerie. :rolleyes: :heart: :blush:

hello, you are the one to make this decision. i am a person who would ask myself a couple question, what will it hurt if i enjoy myself, no one will know, is it safe, ask yourself these question and maybe they will help you make a desicion.

Go ahead :devil2: keep posting :inlove:

Well done Val and thanks for taking the time to tell us how things went. Amazing how everything just happened. You wanted it really, deep down inside and no one around you need ever know. Just enjoy yourself and don't worry what anyone else thinks. You know your friends here support you so what else matters ? Life is way too short to put things off. No point waiting till you are about to shuffle off and then asking yourself ... 'What if ?"

I agree with what ferret said ^_^

If both you and the dog want it, why worry? ;)
Glad things are going well for you.

That was beautiful, you are so lucky.
Enjoy. :wub:

You've already been given alot of good avice. What you are going through is actually quite normal for most who are just figuring out this lifestyle. Your feelings of remorse are simply coming from what society has programmed into you in what is right and wrong. If you do go all the way, yes, it will become that secret you keep in the way back recesses of your mind. Personally, I can live with that, and enjoy my activities with my boy. As for behaviour, you'll still need to make sure that he must obey you. I still maintain the leader status with my dogs, including the one I'm active with. I have no obedience issues, and the sheer closeness of our bond is very apparent. Every time he looks over at me, you can literally see the love pouring out of his heart and soul, as his expression softens to one of utter contentment in his world.

If you do go all the way, just make sure the door is locked and curtains are closed. As you release your inhibitions, the feelings of guilt should fade away over time. I feel no guilt when my boy is mounting me. I'm enjoying every minute of it.

Oh, and one more thing, if you do let him go all the way, do not panic if you are tight enough to actually tie. His knot will go down when he's done, and he'll slide out no problems. You might have some initial discomfort when you feel his knot growing inside of you.

This post has been edited by dawgz on Oct 4 2008, 06:15 PM

Thanks everyone. Things are going quite well and I'll post something more soon. Love xx

Congrats Val. Welcome to the wonderful world we all have on this site. If you want to take it further then its up to you If you just want to be licked to fantastic orgasms then go for it girl
Lots of love
Debbie xxx

Your post certainly hits home here also. I am an older lady but have been aroused by animal sex since I was growing up on a farm but never took it any further. Mostly I think, because I never had the opportunity....raising children...never alone and never had a male K9. Only VERY recently have I discovered that this information was available on the internet and that other people also were interested!!! For so many, many years I thought I was a total pervert and doomed to hell...whatever that is....and was terribly guilt ridden just for my thoughts!! I would get so turned on seeing dogs mate and felt like everyone could tell. Now I know differently and have also found someone who is willing to allow me access to their male. When I was younger, I too was more inhibited but as the years go by, I have changed my thoughts...like another post here.....sex is sex....pleasure and there is more kinky stuff out there than I ever imagined!!!! Beast sex is rather mild in comparison. Really, I think more people have desires that they will NEVER share with anyone. The fact that you are willing to share is great and is a beginning of you being fully aware of your sexuality. This is long but I also had concerns about it interfering with my relationship with my husband and then not liking sex with him again. Another lady shared her experience and said that it is 2 different things. Your love your husband/boyfriend and how they make you feel but can also love the pleasure from your K9 friend. Makes sense...I love my vibrators and dildos too and receive much pleasure from them but wouldn't get rid of my hubby and use them exclusively. Best wishes to you hun.

sadly i had to see, that a lot of people even here in the forum do this only for their own pleasure. They would do it with animals from strangers and everything. Thats annoying, it makes me sick. So i really like the fakt that you think so much about it. Because i know, if u do it, u do it not only because u are horny or something, but to give him the pleasure as well. So I in ur position, would just only do what you want to do and what u let him do. Not more, but also not less. If its not what u want, stop it. If its not what he wants, stop it. I know ull do the right thing and i wish u two so much happyness and pleasure

Another entry from my ‘diary’ for anyone whose interested. I lasted three days before I just had to let Danny lick me naked again. I promised myself I’d decide after a week but I thought about it all day at work, in fact I couldn’t concentrate very well on my job. When I got home on Thursday, he seemed to know I wanted him to do it, he was all over me as soon as I got in. My pussy kept melting all day and I think he could smell my femaleness immediately. I normally take him out for his walk but he was so insistent I just gave way to temptation, went into my bedroom and undressed myself. I lay on the bed and opened myself and his tongue was licking me. The way he does it is so intimate and tender, he really seems to love doing it to me. It was lovely and it felt beautiful and natural and very quickly I had another orgasm. I just felt so sexy. He kept on licking me and I sort of had another one. I actually fell asleep for a little while. I woke up, he was licking my face, then I got up and fed him and had a shower. I felt much calmer that evening than on Monday and we had a walk later on. I felt like I was walking on air, we seemed so close. I just had this happy feeling and didn’t feel bad. The next day I thought all about it nearly all day. I got aroused several times and couldn’t wait to get home. He knew what I was thinking about and it all happened again. On Saturday I had visitors and then went out, I had to tell him not to nuzzle me. He was very good but I felt sorry for him, I knew he wanted to and was disappointed. On Sunday they were still here, but after they went in the afternoon I took him out for a long walk, we both seemed happy just to be out together alone again. On the way back I started to get excited at the thought of what would happen back at the flat. I thought how much I’d missed being licked even though it was only two days ago. Also I missed just being naked and intimate for him. I suddenly felt bad and an ashamed feeling, but soon the excitement of being alone together came back. When we got indoors it was just like we both knew what we wanted, Danny got really excited and I stripped off really fast and soon I was on the bed naked and wide open for him. His tongue was sooooo gorgeous and this time he also licked round my anus and my big bum which was lovely. I felt that fantastic feeling of my body being really open to him again. I got so aroused until he gave me an orgasm and then another one which was really big. It was the first time I felt the physical urge to be penetrated inside me. Afterwards I thought about and started to worry again. I really just want to try and keep things as they are, I hope I can get a bit less obsessed with thinking about Danny licking me because its affecting my job. I hope the novelty will wear off a bit. When I think about the past week its hard to believe especially as it already feels so natural to me. Thanks for all your advice, its so good. Love Valerie xxx :heart: