Absolutely. My first girl and I shared a deep emotional bond. I loved her more than anything, and miss her greatly. 17 months together was way too short, but it has been the best 17 months of my life. The day she died, I cried my heart out, and was willing to try to take my own life just so we could be together again. But with my other girls, I feel an emotional bond with them, and love them all with all of my heart. Like I told my friend on here, I don't care about the sex. If my dick was chopped off, I would still love them the same. The sex is just an added bonus, like Tundra said.

Man monochromefox. Your avy is swingin'
10 for the cool effect.

I think it has been decisively decided that YES people can have deep emotional bonds with the animals they mate with. Like some of the posters here have mentioned though, not all do. Everyone here I know in this thread would be considerate and thoughtful with the animal but some just don't connect with them emotionally/spiritually. Just like some people (particularly swingers and such) do not get wrapped up emotionly with other humans they have sex with as well. Different strokes and all. My 2 cents.

This post has been edited by doggowar on Sep 5 2008, 04:32 AM

I definitely have experience a deepened emotional bond with Cosmo while having sex. The way that gives me most pleasure in having sex is when I am on my back so I can see his head and he can lick me and I can lick him back. Then I feel the closest to him...

I have a strong bond with my mini mare, and she has with me too. I cannot imagine any other way with her, with or without the sex. The sex is the icing on out cake!

of course its possible i have a emotional bond with my mare.

I find it hard not to form one, I've always become closer to the people I've had sex with, whether it's because I'm a complex individual or just AWSOME at what I do remains to be seen... :lol:

As for animals, I've only ever given hand jobs to one dog a couple of times, but he and I already had a loving connection. ^_^

A strange question indeed!

Having sex with animals or humans involves having an emotional bond even if the sex is only a "Quickie".

My experiences with both dogs and humans meant that such a bond enhanced the whole sexual aspect, without it, I can imagine it being very robotic and cold.

Pokerman

I don't think it's possible not to have a bond.

I know I do!

i have not always had an emotional bond with every dog i have had sex with...nor every human either, for that matter -_-

but i have loved some in the past and i love my boy now, there is definately an emotional bond with him when he mounts me :wub:

Yes. Its always there, the affection comes before the arousal, affectionate arousal is the best. We like missionary because its so intimate and we can communicate and show our emotions and our sexual desire for each other so easily in that position, I cant imagine anything more satisfying, for me and my gorgeous Rotty anyhow.

i would have to say yes .sex is nothing if the feels arent there.i love looking in my girls eyes holding her and telling her how mutch she means to me sex is just a bonus :D

monochromefox think of the ones you leave behinde that care about you and your girls trust me it will get better .i know its hard loseing your girl to cancer but you still have 3 girls that depend on you .take care mono if you need to talk im here ,mop.

no, not really, I love my dogs, but an especially emotional bond between us because of sex. . . no, none

I woul dlike to believe i do. When i have sex with my dog it just feels....connected somehow i cant even explain it. I love before we start they he gets flirty with me and will romp around a little bit. i pet him and stroke him and his him. I try to make it as emotional as possible for us.