I posted about it here. I told her I was sexually attracted to animals. She reacted about how I thought she would. She wasn't interested in knowing more but she accepted it.

Well, the other night on the phone, we were playing the "What you ever" game, and she brought up a threesome involving a dog. She seemed curious, but when I pressed her a little, she acted like she wasn't ready to talk much about it yet.

Just thought I'd share.

Hmm, interesting! Maybe you can keep just easing her into the idea, just bring up the topic every now and then and see how she reacts!

I wish you good luck , I hope you will be able to get her into your lifestyle :)

For me, it was up front from the begining , i told her exactly every aspect of my life, all my deep inner secrets and told her if she didn't like who i was we could still be friends, but i needed someone who could share my life with all its unique quality's. She did not know much about any of it considering she was young and from a very conservative background, but was willing to lean and give it a chance, after explaining things in a simple way she smiled and nodded, and asked how long till we could find a pet we could both love

I was wondering how to do the same ... without judgement

Tread very very carefuly my zoo friend,
I have pondered over this same situation many times, but never even come close to openly admitting it,
I love my boyfriend dearly, we have been together for years, but I have a very deep passion for male dogs, I suppose you could call it lust, I have never told him of my passion, although I have dropped hints all round him , I even sent him a annonymous beast movie,, he thought it was a practical joke from his friends,
I have the best of both worlds at the moment, and dont want to lose any part of it,
Please take care
XXX

I completely agree. Be extremely weary because the situation can snap in an instant.

I am all for honesty with a SO, but in true it can wreck your life if the relationship ends badly. Be careful and very sure before you go any further. That said, good luck! :beer:

Its ironic that theres so many people here who feel the same. You have like minded people filling this site who would love to meet someone whos on the same wavelength. The thing is you dont couple up with someone on the basis of whether or not they are into zoo. Like you with your boyfriend, you saddle up with someone you love.

You would think that the odds of finding someone you love who happens to be into zoo are quite slim, but Im not sure. Every person you pass in the street has many more layers of sexuality than they would admit. Maybe s&m, maybe zoo or maybe they are in love with the Berlin Wall (thats actually true). Could be anything. Interest in beastiality on some level is a lot more common than I think we realise. You might find your boyfriend is like me... interested in women and dogs but no further (I love women and dogs are a man's best mate - as in friend).

It would be amazing to have a girlfriend like yourself. I dont know how many women are in your position, because its a lot harder for a woman to even hint at this in this society (Im also UK btw). Among my male friends I can tell you that loads of them have got women/dog women/horse clips on their mobile as a 'joke', so you might be in luck with your bf!

Personally I had a girlfriend find my small beast horde on my PC and delete it, all in the time it took me to got to the toilet and back (I thought I had hidden it well too!). I laughed it off and begged forgiveness and we never mentioned it again. Believe it or not I can be quite charming when I need to be. :D

Im in a relationship with a woman Im crazy about but I have no idea if she would be interested in her playing with a dog and I. Tbh, I cant risk it unless she gives me some sort of sign.

Congrats on yours appearing to be somewhat curious. I know my girlfriend would never consider it so I'll never ask her or anything. I'm just glad she's ok with me being into zoo and everything. That's all I could really want, her love and understanding of my interests and fetishes.

I know there comes a point in every relationship where its almost impossible not to say something, usually I'm pretty up front about it if I know I like the person, and in most cases they've been accepting (knocks on wood) You are lucky though that your girlfriend responded well, don't rush it, and maybe you can squeeze another zoo out of it.

Good luck, cuz I think you are gonna need it...

Well, when we met, she wasn't very sexual at all. In fact, she was raped when she was younger, so we didn't have sex until after we had dated for a year. I love her very much, and I've helped her deal with what happened to her. Since then, she's discovered and admitted a lot of her own fetishes, and I've revealed mine. She's never judged me on any of them, and she doesn't act differently. She's even cool enough about it to joke around every now and then about them. We have a very open relationship, and I tell her that if she wants to try something, no matter how weird she thinks it is, to tell me. She always does.

Its good that you can be that open with her, but none the less be wary, she may accept it and joke about it, but never want to partake in it, so don't push too much. Good luck, have fun, best wishes

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As others have said, be VERY very careful, lest we see a news headline about YOU!
Wouldn't it be easier to shop around for a new lady?
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