I want to know how do you ask a woman if they are into bestiality without offending them if anyone can give me advice please thank you.

This post has been edited by edge31 on May 17 2008, 07:55 PM

Now WHY would you want to ask that question? Is this just any woman or some one you know well?

There isn't a "way" of asking. You will likely need to be cautious and use your gut feel. But blurting it out over dinner is most likely NOT the way to do that.
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it is of someone I know of

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Actually this can be a bit tricky to do without causing great embarassment and humiliation for yourself, and I suspect that this is the situation that you are in. I apologize if my assumption is wrong. I am guessing that there's a woman out there that you think may possibly be into beastiality, and you'd like to ask her without having to stick your neck out too far in case she is absolutely disgusted by the idea.

So, I think the best thing for you to do, is not to come right out and ask her so that she could say something like "What in the world ever made you think that I'd be into that?" . I think it would be much better instead if you were to just tell her that a friend of yours sent you a photo of a woman having sex with a dog as an E-mail attachment. You can even act a bit shocked yourself and say something like, "Imagine my friend thinking that I would be interested in a picture like that." Or you can say that someone sent you a story about a woman having sex with a horse or a dog. Or, you could say something like "I had the strangest dream last night." She might totally agree with you and say it's disgusting, or if you know each other pretty well, she might say something like "Well actually, I like looking at pictures like that because they actually turn me on." This way you haven't admitted anything to her that could be incriminating and you can gauge her reaction to see what her general attitude is about it and take it from there. That's how I'd handle it and what I'd do for what it's worth. Good luck.

Shy

Using dreams works wells. Just tell her you had a dream involving dogs and ask if that seems weird to her.

I agree with shydoglover. Any of those would work.

Well the flip, crass answer is, "Hey baby, do like to screw dogs; and do you mind if I watch?" Of course that question will more likely get a slap in the face. So I do not recommend it.

A better approach is not to come out directly. But rather try to feel out her sensibilities on the subject. This is best done by indirectly through several ways, to bring up and discuss the subject of bestiality/zoophilia in a round about fashion. If she seems amenable then you can slowly bring up that you may be into some aspects of it as well. But in short, go slow, and don't out ourself prematurely.

In Africa we say slowly slowly catch the monkey.

So be cautious, laid back and avoid a full frontal approach. There are actually many opportunities to pop the wuestion without making it a yes or no type of answer. Leave the question ambiguous so you can adapt to her response.

Never ask, "are you" directly because the consequence of asking such a question could hurt you physically.

people will give subtle clues that they are into it or curious about it
Like first time my and my girlfriend we together in bed, i noticed she was very comfortable with her dog being on the bed with both of us naked.

yes yes, a slow approach is best, even when after you have found she is into it, each action takes some geting use to by people. And if they are curious, play with them together with the animal, and let them try new things , not forcing any parties involved

My approach has always been one of mentioning bestiality as a fantaasy of mine. It's surprising how often fantasies are shared or become shared. Who can cricify you for a fantasy. We all have them. No?

I kinda know about my wife... my neighbor came over and said they saw my other neighbors dog had a "red rocket"... my wife made a puking/vomit sound... so I'm pretty sure that means I shouldn't bring it up. :o

I like the idea of the email thing... "check out this "spam" email I got with this crazy picture.... what do you think? Hell... I may even try it too... what the heck! :thinking:

Go with you gut feeling.