well there lack of willing to participate is perfectly understandable, if they arent interested you cant force them to be or expect them to pretend to be so to please you; though if they where to forbid you from doing so yourself is wher ei would begin to question the integrity of the relationship; it would depend on there reasons for seeking to forbid you. it would also depend on your strength of feeling for your partner, if you love them you may have to make sacrifices if not then perhaps its not the relationship for you anyway

Well i confessed to both ex wives and both were very jelouse of their own dogs as they all paid more attention to me then to them and i wasnt having sex with them. well needless to say they are exes for those reasons that jelousy ate the relationships apart. It would be so nice to find someone who would join me in my pleasures but i doubt that will ever happen and i will be in the closet forever.

The only things you can change are habits like smoking or drinking and even those are hard.
I am who I am and there is no force in heaven or hell that can change me. If you don't like me for who I am 100% of the time than I don't need to associate with you. Its that easy. People find out very quickly how poor of an idea it is to demand any thing of me. That might make me an asshole to some or that friend you really want behind you when the shit hits the fan.

I would NEVER EVER force my g/f to participate, or even push for it. If a person isn't into it.. the person isn't into it. She's fine with me being into it and that's all I could ask for and i will NEVER ask her to try it cause i know she would never be up for it. As for her forbiding me to watch or participate? She has no right to tell me to do so. I am my own person and i will do what i wish. And i treat her to the same mentality.

ah but if that is the case would she be allowed to have sex with someone other then you?

I mean that within the standards of a relationship. My view of a relationship is to be dedicated to one person and one person only. She is the same way. What I meant was that she could be into what ever she wanted(zoo, bdsm, fisting, w/e) and do what she wanted, within the standards of a relationship. I will never cheat on her and she will never cheat on me. I think anyways and she says. I believe her because we both have a horrible past due to relationships. We both were cheated on in every relationship til this one. Don't really expect either of us to cheat.

but your haveing sex with an animal is cheating1 a monogamous relationship is were you have sex only with one partner if you are having sex with her and an animal that is a polygimist relationship. sex with any living thing other then your girl friend is cheating and so many people dont seem to realize that.

Ah but I have you on that one. I myself have never done anything with an animal. Am I willing to? You bet. But as I've stated before, I don't want it from anyone but my girl, she is amazing and is tight enough and gets so wet she literally sucks the condom off of me probably every 2 times out of 10, and yes I do get the correct size. Also as for that, I don't really see her caring if I ever did something with an animal, just as long as it isn't another human female. And obviously I wouldn't care if she did something with an animal, obivously would if she did somethimg with another guy. Am I going to do it? Probably not as long as I'm with her. Another thing I said before is being with one PERSON and one PERSON only. While animals, dog's for example, are smart beings, they're not quite a person.