In the end though, these are all just opinions helping out an issue that only you have the true answer to. Hopefully you will make the right choice in the end. -_-

Each person is different.
Early on I liked the idea of sex with animals, but had not yet beome a zoophile.
I would love to have found a girl who was okay with my having relations with both her and certain animals.
I was, many years ago, engaged to a girl who loved dogs (but as far as I know, not in a sexual way). I have always wondered how she would have felt if she knew that I also liked sex with dogs (and most likely any other female animal that would let me make love).
But I will never know.
One problem I have had was that too many girls want to change the guy to what they want, and not simply love them for who they are.
Now it's a bit late. I am totally into animals, and there are only a very few humans who I would be interested in.
Though I would love to find a girl, older of course, who would love to share our relations with animals, it is not very likely at this point. She would have to like living in a very rural area, and going to town only a couple of times a month. Being a basic nudist would be a plus as well.

I have never told anyone, other than people here, and in similar grou(p)s, about my love and sexuality for animals. Indeed, I have never told any member of my family about this, or my bisexuality either.
Any person I get that involved with has to be someone that I know will accept me for what and who I am, and not try to change me to be something I am not and never will be.
Society is too sheeplike in that they will seldom go against what the "public" seems to want or accept.
And I am not what one would call religious either. My beliefs are not christian or jewish or so on.

So, one must feel out prosective partners with caution. the lucky ones find someone rioght for them, while many of us seldom do, or find them too late...
Better to find out early that the person is not right for you, than rush into things and find out the hard way.
That's my 2 credits worth...



This post has been edited by cabron45 on Mar 23 2008, 06:32 PM

By personal experience, I wouldn't give too much hope for such a relationship to hold out over time. It all depends on the individuals involved, how much bestiality means to you, and how set in their convictions your partner is. I might give it some time and see if a compromise or acceptance is on the horison, but wouldn't waste a whole lot of time and emotion trying to shape the world according to how you want it to be - or how the would should be. Accepting how things are make you a better person, and is a key player in the quest for happiness.

I couldn't be in a relationship ever again, with someone who couldn't at least respect my life as a Zoo. No, they wouldn't have to participate, I would never expect them too, but I also would not accept someone telling me I was forbidden to be the woman I am. Who I am and how I live my life, is both important to me and something that is part of the deepest personal makeup of all that I am. I wouldn't want a b/f who was uncomfortable with what I do or how I live. That's not a relationship I can see truly building and going somewhere positive.

I don't make easy relationships and I'm also not the easiest person to be in a relationship with. I understand that and though it can be hard at times to follow certain codes and ethics I have, in the long run its the best way for me to be. I've strayed from my course in life a time or two with very painful results. I don't do that now and will not ever do so again. I've been through some ups and some downs in the human relationship department, but I've lived and learned along the way.

Every Zoo or Beast has a lot of choices and hard decisions to make, when they bring the two sides together. Its never easy or simple, it takes a great deal of inner strength to not only start to build a relationship, but to also have one mature and grow into a beautiful one. I believe the stars aligned just right a while back and I was given the second chance at building something beautiful with someone I thought would only remain a former b/f. Hopefully it will continue to grow for us both. It sure seems like its moving that way, with every new day.

My dogs are so much a part of my life that I couldn't simply stop loving them as I do for the sake of a new human-human relationship. If the person I was seeing wasn't at least open to bestiality on my part, I would have to end the relationship.

At this point in my life, for me to become sexually involved with another human, the person(s) would need to meet certain requirement.
First, of course, is being totally open to zoo love.
Second is being open to bisexual behavior as well.
And last, but not least, either not have had sex with other humans for a long time, or have been tested for HIV, and any partner they have had would also, IMO, need to be tested.
I have been tested, the first time was voluntary on my part, and I had not had sexual contact with other humands for a number of years. the second was also voluntary, but was due to a hospital aide/nurse/ orderly sticking themself with a needle that had been used on me. I was negative the first time for HIV and STD's, or at least the major ones they tested for, and I would presume I would have been told if there had been a positive on the second test.
Though at present, there are few that I would become involved with. So it is not looking very likely.
My girls and boys are also not likely to give me any unwanted things, so not a problem there.
Enough...

Well, I'll put it simply:

If she didn't want to participate, then I'd be fine with it.

If she didn't want me to participate, then I'd likely break up with her, as I can't have something like that in a relationship.

Vary simple, HELL YES, drop them like a hot potato.

I'm at the point of telling my boyfriend of 'my secret sexual life' I have enjoyed since I was 15. I have a feeling he will be cool with it, but if not, I realize I must move on without him. I can't change who I am and my feelings. People enjoy and get off with sex in many ways, and while I prefer humans, I do find sex with dogs highly erotic.

First you meed to think through what you want and need.

If you need a zoo lover in your life you need to know if you need him or her to also participate.

Then you need to sit down with him or her and tell her what your needs are, and explain without threats or anger that if she/he can't accept you should part ways.

Chances are the are not going to come around, and chances are that you won't change.

Spare him or her, and yourself as much pain as possible.

Underaged references aren't allowed here. :rolleyes:

I was once exactly where you are right now, except I had no intention of moving on without him. I had the same gut feeling that everything would be okay. :D
I wish you luck.
Oh, and read the rules here before making your next post. ;)

I think that it's fine is someone doesn't know about your interests in beastiality. Sometimes it could be for the better. I love my girlfriend dearly but would like to find a friend, just an acquaintance that would be opening to playing with my dog. Someone that can be discreet and it be our little secret. It's unfortunate the we don't know what relationships we can ruin by stating our desires but somethings are better left to company of folks like myself.

I have been around BF for a long time and have been more or less very quiet. But I have it now in my mind that what a better place to share thoughts and ideas, inside jokes, etc. than with folks like yourselves who are safe to talk with.

Don't hate me for not telling my Circle of Friends :D

my fiance found out and she excepts it she just told me to not tell her when me and my mare do it lol
:lol:

For me, I don't think it would be a hard choice to make if it came down to one or the other. If I actually found a woman that I thought I might be able to share my life with I would drop this kink of mine until #1-I found out she was into it herself or #2-I figured out that it wasn't working and we went our separate ways. Understand that I don't have strong desires for me to mate with animals, most of my zoo kinks come from watching others.

Now what others have said so far I would agree with to a degree. It is not fair to expect others to change who they are in a relationship for you. However, I know that true love means you ARE willing to change and sacrifice for them. And that is what I am willing to do if I find that one woman who would complete me is not a hard decision. Sacrifice a part of what I like or enjoy to ensure that the relationship succeeds. Ultimately what I want is not the most important thing, it is what is the right thing for the relationship. If I believe or suspect that she could not handle this little kink of mine it is sooooo gone. Course, I haven't had a serious GF for a few years now and since I haven't met her yet I am not putting my life on hold until I do.