The truth is i really like this girl i have been seeing and she is very compatible with alot of things, but i am not so sure she would in to the whole animal thing, but i could be wrong, i have yet to see her interact with animals beings i myself don't currently have one. Please if anyone can help, i would be most appreciative.

Sincerely K9lover83 :huh:

Ok here's what I've done when trying to find out a man's reaction (I'm female).

I said I had the weirdest dream where I was having sex with a dog (basically) ..... and waited to see what the man's reaction would be. You can't be responsible for what you dream can you ? So if they aren't impressed ..... I just say yeah how weird was that etc. If they express an interest ....... well problem solved!

A smart way of seperating yourself somewhat as you have the choice to go ewwwww yukkk too if you need to .... and absolving yourself of any responsibility or showing any interest until you've seen their reaction ^_^

That's not a bad idea, maybe i can think of something other then saying i had a dream....thanks for your advice, and hey feel free to pm me if ya think of any other ideas...i really don't want to lose this girl, but i refuse to be a closet zoo

How about something like your last girlfriend had this fantasy of having sex with a dog ? or ...... you remember seeing a documentary on television about people who had sex with their animals ? I actually did see such a programme many years ago on Channel Four.

Though you might be better off at the beginning ...... asking her does she like dogs; finding out whether her family had dogs when she was a kid etc if you haven't already. If she's not much of an animal lover in the general sense .... might not be worth pursing your interests any further.

Well if you are absolutely NOT concerned about being outted, then just come right out and say it. But, being a closet zoo is in virtually all cases a fact we zoos must live with. You need to weigh your needs for being with this girl versus your need not to be a closet zoophile. Unfortunately since all people react differently, and you don't even know his/her basic thoughts on the subject of zoophilia, I suggest you proceed slowly. Because once you are out, you are OUT. If he/she is really against our lifestyle you find that that person may wish to make your life a living hell. So be careful about how you proceed.

There are many ways you could ask with asking it straight out, IE, like "I seen or read an article about people having sex with animals" or the old favorite "I had a dream". I think that most of us would like the idea of not hiding in the closet, but if one is to out oneself then from personally experience "it can get very lonely out there".

thanx all your ideas are good, worst case scenario, any single girls out there into animals

Single and into animals?

I am! ;)


But regarding your question, seriously, try some of these ideas, they're all really good from what I'm seeing. Best of luck!

In my particular case I've only been in two serious relationships in my life, and in both cases I came right out and told them about my love of animals. I was one of the lucky ones. Both guys thought is was very hot and loved hearing me talk about what I'd done with animals(though they weren't keen on me doing it while with them all the time). Definitely not everyones scenario, so I hope you get the best one possible in your situation. ^_^

This post has been edited by EnigmaticVixen on Feb 22 2008, 05:14 AM

Just to let you know, ive been a fan of girls with dogs since i was a teenager.

I always felt so ashamed for some reason and felt like i was the only one on the planet into such things, even though thats of course not the case.

I got married 4 years ago to a gorgeous blonde that i had known since elementary school. She is so loving and caring i couldnt be happier.

Then we got into a sexual rut and i was starting to lose interest in our love life. It was the same old same old all the time. I asked if she was into anal, we tried it, and she hated it.

Well i had been hiding my passion from her about pet sex and everytime i would download a movie would delete it before she woke up the next day because i was terrified she would think i am weird and to the extreme leave me.

Well we got into a small argument over why im never in the mood anymore and it lasted for a little while, no yelling or anything, just a dispute.

Well i couldnt take it anymore because i love her and didnt like feeling like this. I said, " Maybe if you were into some other things or tried to be kinky i would be a little more turned on instead of expecting the same old all the time. I mean get on the internet and look something up, suprise me."

She got on the computer later and said ," What do you want me to look for. i have no idea what you want me to do."

Then she said the magic words....." All i know about is sex with animals."

I replied," theres no way you are into that."

She then asked how i didnt know she hasnt done it before and from there on out found that my wife of 4 years loves it and hasnt had the opportunity to try it with a male dog, that she just let her dog help her masturbate.

What a weight lifted off my shoulders and we have never been happier.

Find out what your partners into and you may just be suprised of what they say.

Also as soon as we get a male dog ill will be posting with questions and of course she wants to make movies and we will gladly post them.

When I've wanted to tell a new partner about my interests, I've always done it by emailing a pic or vid from a different email address to my main email address. I make it look like a friend sent it. I'll then open the email while my partner is nearby and say, "OMG, look what Becky sent me! It's a porn or something of a dog fucking a woman!" If they're grossed out, then I just pretend to be grossed out as well, and I drop it. If they're interested, or at least entertained by it, I will ease into a conversation about k9.

thanks for the ideas.
I've been wondering since I joined how to subtly bring it up with my g/f to see if she might be into it... she can be very kinky but I'm not too sure about THIS kinky.

does any one know how it went for K9lover83 ??

did they find out anything...

well to tell yatruth it hasn't actually come up yet and the ideas are all so good i don't which one would work the best. maybe if i give someone her email address they could ask her about it through an email and see what she responds

I don't necessarily think that having some stranger out of the blue ask her if she's into dog fucking, is the way to go on this one. :huh: One it's more likely than not going to get the sender into trouble. Two, even if she doesn't report the sender to the authorities or complain to their isp, its unlikely she'll give them an honest response. Three she's more likely to feel threatened, and clam up even more, even if she is into animal sex. No I think what you really need to do is take some of the advice already proffered and see her reaction for yourself. Then you'll know which way to jump. :huh:

You've got to be kidding!

:huh:

A thought struck me since reading another member's thread who's currently in court fighting her ex (or soon to be ex) husband for access to her kids. He's using her dog loving activities against her and the whole thing has been dredged up in court and made public knowledge ..... even her parents know now.

Once it's out there ...... it's out there and there's no taking it back ...... it may not bite you in the ass today or tomorrow ..... but it may do 5 or 10 years from now ..... think carefully before you say anything to anyone ...... ever.