Definitely a "both" for me as well. I do prefer partners of roughly similar size (in both senses of the word), which is probably why dogs are far more attractive to me than horses. :)

It happens in nature occasionally. In sharks, spiders, mantids, and snakes the female is usually bigger and occasionally makes a meal of her partner :huh:

But in Mammals the one I think of is the Spotted Hyena. The female is fully 1/3 larger by weight then the male, and even more intimidating, her "cock" is larger than his as well (google it if you don't know about hyena anatomy). Talk about an intimidating date :lol:

So yeah, sometimes erotic, and always fascinating.

I think it would have to be a little of both although i dont really see how it is possible but still thinking about it is a little of both! Thanx for the poll!
Crash