Maybe you will get lucky... and he realized that his advances were being turned down. He'll leave it at that.
But here is another way you could go about turning him down politely, and in a way that he will know you won't be telling his secret to anybody.... tell him you're a strict lesbian. Only into females. :P
Him and his dog do nothing for you. I've had girls tell me that, and the chase ended pretty quickly. Even if the fantasy didn't.

You've got this one in the bag, girlfriend (I'm dating a boy, I'm allowed to say "girlfriend")! If he were going to make an offensive move, he'd have done it by now. It sounds like he's honestly afraid of his wife. Without any hard evidence that you're a zoo, he's got nothing on you, and he knows it. He crossed a line, and you have him backed into a corner. Well done. :lol:

The only warning I'll give is this: don't keep him in that corner too long. People are just big, stupid animals, and if you threaten them for too long they will attack regardless of the cost to themselves. I know, you're not really threatening him, but make sure that he knows that. You want your relationship to be on neutral grounds, and you want it to stay that way. Make that abundantly clear to him, then let it go.

EDIT: Actually, after some more thought ... you may have already made that clear to him. If you're sure that he doesn't feel threatened by you, you're OK. but make triple sure!

This post has been edited by SwiftFox on Aug 26 2007, 02:23 AM

Hmm..That's for sure a bad situation to be within. I don't think I will be able to help you completly, but maybe I can give you a few suggestions. First I would recommend you to talk with this guy. Make clear that you don't want to have sex with him or oral sex with his dog. If you want to still be his friend(Even though I think that might have lost trust for this guy), tell him that.
If he still wants to have sex with you, I don't know what you should do. I'm sorry about that :(. But you can try to keep talking with him. If he threats you to tell to others about you're a zoo, say that you will tell others that he is one too. Good luck.

From your post, it seems this guy is some sort of squirrel, and regardless of your possibly mutual interests and proclivities, needs to be avoided. Just because you and he have a mutual interest doesn't imply mutual compatibility!

carefull :mellow:

He sounds like a nice guy, but when it gets right down to it, it's all consent. We have consent, Animals have consent. Don't be afraid to say no, and heck, you'd be great friends with him nonetheless! :D

I too agree with you on the adultery issue and may be slightly scared of the man. Do not allow him to continue to harass you.

how is he harassing her!? He made a pass, she rejected it. Geez, its just a guy being a guy. I could see if something else was done towards her, but he didn't. He saw an interest, went for it, didn't end up working out. I don't understand why everyone thinks this guy is a total creep that is to be feared. Other than the fact that he's married, which just means he's a jerk.

My opinion is just be very firm yet remain polite and sensible for as long as he allows. Don't resort to drastic measures as long as he doesn't come across as someone that might actually end up harming you in some way.

Indeed, perhaps you gave him the impression you were interested by inviting him over for dinner, but just make it as clear as you can that that was just a friendly thing to do and not because you seek a relationship of any kind with him.

This guy does seem like a bit of a problem but he is one you shouldn't be afraid of.
Tell hime straight that you are in a relationship but don't say you don't want to risk messing it up, that's like "i got to be careful we don't get caught" to these types. Tell him you are in a relationship that you have absolutely zero interest in him in that way and the fact that you were blushing when you saw him is you were embarrased for him, you didn't mention it to other people because you think what he does behind his door is his buisness but if he brings it to your door again it will be show-buisness if you get what i mean? Shouldn't have to out someone but if he's becoming a problem, it's his doing.