As for the fact of why people insist on being miserable when there's happiness to be had, this is a result of the fact that a few miserable greedy ones control the existence of the many miserable and needy ones. Greed, religion (and its attendent warped ideas of morality and sin) are the major causes for most of the misery and intolerance and suffering in the world.

As for the shrinks, if they ever admitted that everyone is insane, they'd be out of a job because then it would have to be considered a "normal condition," so no need for treatment.

Well then come on over for dinner Love. I got a clean sheet and scissors. We paraphiles gotta stick together (tied) :lol:


P.S.- My mental image of Wyld (the flower is way too tame LOL)

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Are we perverted? Well ... considering some of the other forums on this board, I'd guess that the vast majority of members here fit that description. The real question is whether or not that's an insult ;) However, it's not the fact that our sexual attractions are somewhat ... different, that makes us perverts. It's the mere fact that we have those attractions and urges. Sexual people are sexual people, regardless everyone's individual quirk.

Now, to answer my own question, being called a pervert isn't an insult at all. When someone uses that term, what they're really saying is that you are alarmingly and somewhat annoyingly different, and that is a very good thing. Ask yourself, do you really want to be normal by today's societal standards? I highly recommend against it, myself.

So, make peace with your inner pervert. Join the ranks of those who are proud to be different. We promise, it's a decision you won't regret ;)

What so often gets me is when some one thinks I should accept their moral/political/religeous ideas as being the only acceptable ones!
If what you do does not affect me in any way then it shouldn't worry me!