Lately, there have been a lot of posts about what some of you have decided are "time wasters" or "fakes", as well as posts that suggest how one should behave and what one should expect from others.

Let's all get off our high horses, and get in the real world. Let's get some realistic expectations of what we're going to find on this site. You'll find some very geniune people who are serious about meeting others. But, you'll also find people who are curious and clueless.

As with any other site, there will be those who only come here to gaze in fascination, hoping someone will give them a glimpse into a very intimate part of life. There are those who are simply here to get off.

Whatever the reason for posting here, EVERYONE has a right to post their desires here, unless they infringe on the rules or someone else's privacy.

Can we please stop wasting time lecturing others on what they say or how they go about looking for what they want? If you aren't interested in meeting someone because of what they posted, then don't!!