Thanks everyone for you're responses. They were very incite full. :D

Yea its perfectly normal to feel that way since its something taboo in our society.

Just think to yourself though... why is something right or wrong, good or bad? Because a book says so, or a majority of people do, or a because of a tradition?

If the parties involved are both enjoying it and not being harmed could it possibly be wrong?

We think the gulity feelings were part of the acceptance of this lifestyle. Ask most women how they felt the first time the let a boy reach into her panties and she will say she had a bit of a guilty feeling. We are who we are and it is difficult to express our hidden desire to most all individuals... We confide in each other and love the choice that we made some 18 yrs ago and have never looked back or judged others for their choices.


KC

I agree with kinkycouple
our society in general makes sex taboo and enjoying it is almost a deadly sin
be who you are
be true to yourself
and nothing else matters
it is normal for you feel to guilty and it is what you decide to do with it that is YOUR choice that is the important thing
I am who I am because it is who I choose to be, I worked hard to be the person that I am today
there will always be someone who will judge you for something ou cannot live your life for other people
and it is perfectly okay to love our dog and not be sexually attracted to her but enjoy watching it no one says you have to act out your fantasies to enjoy them
some of my fantasies I acted out and it didn't worked out so then I couldn't fantasize about them anymore <_<
anyway, I love this forum for the same reason, I can read stories and talk to people and I feel comfortable, like I don' have to wear a mask...it is a great place to be

If you live by your own standards, instead of the standards of society...You have the ability to be the happiest person in the world... if u can accept the rules of society and superseed them, you have the ability to flourish...

However, if u are limited by the ideas of society...life can be a long a lonely road, for you will walk it with the others that idealists have yet to set free, a prisoner in your own mind...


Thats some pretty serious stuff, but its what i truely believe...

*Quote* From my imaginate poetic mind =)

-Danielle

a.k.a. The Beast Is Sexy

by the way, that is 100% mine so...if u use it, have respect and give credit where it is due...Thanks so much

This post has been edited by BeastIsSexy on Jul 24 2007, 03:59 AM