I've come right out and asked friends before, usually right after telling them I'm interested in and active in this lifestyle ^_^

This post has been edited by EnigmaticVixen on May 2 2008, 01:44 PM

Hmm how do most people react when you talk about it out of the blue? I mean I am sure you get a lot of quizzical looks. Along with the response, "What's wrong, you're so beautiful can't you get a real man?"

That only happens when I talk about it HERE, to be honest -_- I've gotten tons of harrassing PMs on this site(and on yahoo when I had my sn in my profile) of guys saying crap like that and calling me "c*unt, w*ore", etc

AND...this is an actual quote from a PM I recieved from a member of THIS SITE a couple months ago...

"what, you must be hiding a dick up that skirt or have some horrible deformity or a green stinkin c*unt, you must be a filthy c*unt, yuck, I would never touch you now that I've seen you on an animal site, you must be screwd up and can't get a man to f*uck you blindfolded, you queer tranny dog w*ore"

<_< Yes, someone actually sent that to me after viewing my pictures -_-


So, that's what happens on the net.


In RL though? I've gotten several responses of "wow, that's incredible, I think that kind of stuff is awesome", I've been told by my two ex boyfriends that they'd have no issues with me continuing to be with animals and they even encouraged it and used my fantasies to enhance my personal pleasure during oral sex(they'd whisper the fantasies and experiences I'd shared with them to me inbetween licks in a husky voice and ask me if I wanted to feel a dog again... :blush: ), and my other friends whom I've told have said "I accept you for who you are, that doesn't bother me, what you do sexually is your own business and we would never tell you what you should and shouldn't do".

So, my experiences online with being a zoo have been 100 times worse than my RL experiences when I've told people. ^_^

Generally I think the men that say "you're pretty, why don't you want a man?" are just insecure with a woman that isn't 'normal', or they think animals have somehow stolen their chances of being with a woman they like, as if the animal must be "Better" than them. In my particular case, I like MEN *and* ANIMALS, so they're quite silly to find it somehow a barrier for themselves. :lol:

This post has been edited by EnigmaticVixen on May 2 2008, 06:20 PM

Ok, I am normally not a violent person, but...EV, would it be possible to have whomever sent you that awful PM dragged out into a field and kicked by a horse? Might knock some sense (to say nothing of respect and manners!) into them.

That's terrible. :( I'm sorry to hear that you've had to deal with that sort of thing. A person should never be treated or talked to in such a manner...RL, online, or anywhere else.

Well, I am glad at least you've been able to balance the scales with some good experiences. And that your boyfriends have been open-minded and supportive. ^_^

You certainly are very pretty, and you seem like a genuinely nice person on top of that. Suffice to say, you could have anyone you want. Whether they have two legs or four. :heart: I think we'd agree anyone who could capture your affections would be very lucky, indeed. It's a shame that some people do have that "barrier" in place, but that's the world we live in I guess.

Good Lord ! I have to say I feel for EV having read her last post and am grateful I've never received any of those type of PMs!

Getting back on topic ...... it's amazing how you get to recognise the regular dog walkers in your area and often end up chatting with them. I do wonder about a few I meet ..... where the man is single and has a large female dog (at least one hasn't neutered her either) ...... and when I see a female with a very large male dog and no male human partner.

On the other hand there could be very reasonable explanations too such as some men might consider a small dog "not manly" and females are generally thought to be easier to control ..... more placid etc.

As for the female humans with the large male dogs .... maybe they just feel safer with a big male dog. I know it was one of the factors that made me pick my dog as a single female living on her own who has been burgled previously.

I've been asked several times by my family and friends why I got such a big dog .... I'm just about 5 foot 5 and his size and stength is an issue in relation to mine at times. I just say I didn't want a small, yappy thing under my feet all the time ....... (with no offence to smaller dogs, it just gets people off my back). I see people looking at me sometimes when I have him out and about and he's dragging me down the road .... (we're working on the lead training lol) ...... maybe they wonder about me too ? Who knows ? And anyone that does ? ..... let them wonder ! ;)

Vixey words really fail me at not only the stupidity, but how obnoxious people can get. I am glad (and proud of you) that you've got the strength of character to brush off idiots like that. I know a lot of people would really let stuff like that bother them. Either way I hope Southy froze his account till the next ice age :P

I guess on another note I think (though not for sure on this) that people may be a bit more accepting of females in the lifestyle than men. Kind of for the same reason straight guys accept lesbians more than gay guys. There is an undercurrent of sexual adventure that can appeal to straight guys that homosexual men can't capture. In some of the circles I move in Lesbians can be cool, "chic" even. But gay guys not so much. What do the rest of you think? Am I totally off base here?

:edit: I guess what I am saying a lesbian may not threaten a insecure straight guys' ego the way a gay man can. A lesbian can be a symbol of female sexuality that can be very intriguing for straight guys. In the same way a woman into the lifestyle could be more accepted than a man might. meh....I am up past my sacktime, talking in circles. night all

This post has been edited by doggowar on May 3 2008, 11:19 AM

lol, I start to sound ditzy when I start falling asleep at the keyboard don't I :lol: Ignore the above ramblings :sorry: :stupid:

This post has been edited by doggowar on May 3 2008, 10:34 PM

LOLLLLLLLL!! i had to laugh at this! AND i have to say....

ALL THE TIME!!

lol every time i see someone with an animal i wonder! lol

mrs.k9c

A question I run through my mind on a regular basis. I got to find out about a neighbor first hand a few years ago. I live in the country, I have a garden in the summer that borders to one of my neighbors. there is a old fence row that is grown up making a bit of privacy between us. One evening I went to the garden to do some weeding, usually the neighbors dog would bark all the time I was there. His pen was just on the other side of the grown up fence row. this time there wasn't a peep out of him. As I worked I got closer to the edge where his pen is. I noticed hearing some sounds that seemed muffled. I went to the edge of the undergrowth. I thought I could see something so I moved to another spot where it wasn't as thick. On the other side was my neighbors wife on her hands and knees, mounted by their lab mix. He had his front legs wrapped around her waist, his head resting on her shoulder by her head and was humping hard. I know some will say I shouldn't have watched but you couldn't pry me away from there. By moving a little i found a very good vantage point and could see her breasts sway as the dog has his way with her. it didn't last long until you could tell he was cumming in her, I wondered if he had knotted her and that was answered shortly when he swing his leg over and turned the other way, she moaned as if it might have been on the uncomfortable side ( ladies is it uncomfortable if the dog that has knotted you turns??) They remained that way for a while, It seemed like a long time but maybe 5 or 10 min. then he pulled free, she moaned again. He licked himself a few times then cleaned her up. I'm not sure how long i was there but had the chiggers to prove it from laying in the undergrowth. Then I knew her secret!!!!!

Bumpalooza!

a few days ago,i was cycling,and i met a beautiful young woman with a beautiful mastiff.the dog wore socks on his front paw,probably his feet were injured.im sure you can think of what i had in my mind :stupid: lol

everytime i see a girl with a bigdog walking in the park i wonder what if.

I wonder about it all the time, when i meet dog or horse people. Maybe it's because i have a dirty little mind, or maybe it's because i'm doing it my self!?! :)

I had a friend walk in on me together with my horse....luckily it turned out very nice, for all three of us! We had a merry old time, well several times actually.

Hi,

I don't really have anyone who lives near me with animals that I would consider good 'playmates' (i.e. toy poodles etc) but on my way home from work, I pass a trail that runs along the road for about two miles.

Most every day, a girl in her late 20's, early 30's walks her 'very male' boxer most every day. I've noticed he nuzzles her through her gym shorts, but that can be just me reading something into it that isn't there.

Other than that, nope!

Good thread!

Hugs

Donna

Go to "Fantasy Land" every weekend here. It's called my local dog park :devil2: :devil2: :devil2: :thinking:
Spend hours sitting on the bench watching and :thinking: :whistling: ;) B) :D
Very fertile ground for the mind! ;) :lol: :D <_<