Without going into specifics, I have managed to avoid some bad situations from people that really creeped me out after awhile. One even involved a guy that was arrested and made it into the local evening news! Even guys get pestered a lot, to share their animals or try to pushed into gay or bi sex, even if was made clear that we are straight with hyoomans. Pushy people like to think they can 'change' you. I hate that. All I can say is its going to happen at some point to every practicing zooey, where they've let it be known that they are active or currently have a pet, whether you are sharing or not. Just always think twice and be incredibly careful about your own privacy.

Yea, now that I've posted a few pictures I've gotten plenty of requests asking if they could have a chance with my animals...although I have gotten some offers to come visit others. The creeps are out there, but so are a hell of a lot of good people.

I wish I cold say I was surprised by what I'm hearing but in truth I'm not. Ive already had my self requests to come make use of my animals as if they were a public utility in my time here. I just smile and nod more or less and ignore the requests. As a rule if some one wants to be my friend they need to be able to speak about things out side of sex. Being zoo does not mean I or many or the real people here are ruled by nothing more then hormones regardless of what some clueless people think. Witch is what I class people who IM mean and cant seem to talk about anything else. I am pretty careful about what I say in general as well till I get to know the person. Still I have scene signs that there are plenty of good people here. :D

Unfortunately if you are female and involved with animals then some males think that its open season on you, regardless of your age. I have received offers and requests for my address, photos, videos and interment details of my private life. I have been polite but keep almost every body at more than arms length.

This post has been edited by st benard on Jun 22 2007, 01:50 AM

Ladies,

Do not assume that everyone here is a zoo. There are probably more zoo voyeurs than zoos. There are a huge number of men attracted to the idea of women with animals even though they are not interested in animals themselves. That is probably why most of the commercial porn is with women and animals.

I highly suspect that the reasoning is "If she boffs dogs, then surely she will boff me!". That of course is not at all true, but it is commonly believed. I have never hit up on any woman on a zoo site even when they have emailed me. I am interested in talking with them but nothing more. I like mares!

And probably explains why its badly faked as often as not in the interest of the ladies for what there doing.

Hmm kind of scary reading al these posts. I will say that on the comment that men assume that if you boff with a dog u will bof with them also , may or may not be true . Some men really enjoy watching a women enjoy herself and only want to watch and that may be all . I can see why women are leary cause you never know.

Don't be scared, just be aware of that aspect of a site like this. Any paraphilia will attract some creepy people, so everyone here should be on their guard. You're being brave to contribute anything constructive to this forum; imagine how many people are reading this board and they have things to contribute, but they will not cross that line to put themselves into the record. And, for many good reasons.

I've thankfully never had very bad experiences with other members, but I can imagine there's strange folk around.

I do tend to be the one to make first contact though and only with people that seem trustworthy to begin with.

I have seen lots of guys like what you describe. I cant stand them but unfortunately they are. I have said it before and got blasted for it but I will say it again allot of the guys who are here (NOT ALL BUT ALLOT) are not into Zoo but seeing a girl get demeaned by getting f***** by a dog. They are not into the animals them selfs but are into watching women get f***** by a dog. I have seen it on my forum as well and we do not allow it. IF a guy contacts a female member with out her permission and starts in like that they can find them selfs banned pretty quick. I cant stand HNGs who just want to get laid. And as lots of you have said they think that just because a girl is into zoo she will f*** anyone.

I truly love a girl who is into zoo. But I was into zoo way before I ever met her. When we met I knew she was zoo but that did not matter. To me she was just another zoo friend. It has grown into allot more now. Part of the difference I think is that I am also into animals myself. Not just one of thoes guys who would never do an animal them selfs.

It still drives me nuts when she gets those types of messages. This is actually the main reason my board does not allow Hook Up posts. Lots of other dating boards out there we figured we would make a place where every one could feel safe that the person they were talking to was not just trying to f*** them.

Unfortunately, boys (I don't seem to have ever encountered girls) behaving badly do seem to frequent sex forums and similar sites. I'm sure there are women who are not behaving well at all, as the first poster here mentioned ... but mostly, its the guys.

I remeber being in chat rooms years ago, when I was checking them out for the first time, and the women would always get hit on pretty hard; same ol' s--t today, too. A site like this, where people all talk more or less openly about sex with animals, probably attracts a certain type of guy, who gets off on the idea of women as objects or sex toys or sexually desparate, or depraved or something. Frankly, I don't get it, but that does, seem to be the way it is with some men. I think it probably reflects a generally low opinion of women in general, some real phycho-sexual problem, or both.

I've had somewhat similar issues to some of the women here, but not nearly so severe. I've always loved to masturbate (read some of my posts, and you'll see, lol) and used to visit a few boards and chat rooms about masturbation. Male masturbation. To no one's surprise I'm sure, a good many of visitors to such sites were gay, or bi. I'm straight, my few jerk-off sessions with friends when I was younger aside. But there was always some guy I'd start talking to trying to turn the conversation to gay sex, or convince me I was gay. Or I'd be chatting enthusiastically with some str8 guy, and he'd make some comment about me being gay. C'mon guys. I like to jerk off, you like to jerk off. We both have penises. Who else you gonna ask about this stuff. Get over it. Usually what happened was most of the gay guys and even the straight guys I chatted with or traded posts with were very happy talkng to a straight guy about playing with our penises. No doubt, the gay guys may have gotten a little more enjoyment out of our discussions than I did. Which was find with me. But there were always the ones who wanted to make an issue of something.

This is one of the most pleasant places I've found. Of course, I'm a guy, so no one really bothers me. And I don't do IM's, and I don't post personal pictures, I'll spare you that. But I haven't had any unpleasant experiences with people claiming to be zoos, or 'better zoos' than I am. As I've said before, I've enjoyed sex with animals, but don't really consider myself a 'zoo,' though I've always tried to treat the animals I've been intimate with gently and with respect. And other animals too. I mean, that's just common decency. So maybe my lack of an agenda, or commitment to the issue, or lifestyle, has kept me out of the field of fire, for now.

Another stream of consciousness post from me, with a point in there somewhere.

This post has been edited by dogger37 on Jun 24 2007, 08:43 PM

What the f--k is up with all the flying pigs in my last post????

Ok, I turned off the emoticons. Damn, that freaked me out.

This post has been edited by dogger37 on Jun 24 2007, 08:44 PM

LOL Dogger I know what you mean man

I agree with Old Zoo. I am a voyeur, however most guys are in one way or another. :)
As far as men behaving badly, well it just ain't some on this forum. Just turn on the T.V. and you will see it around the world. When I first came to BF Dixidoll gave me some advice "Best to keep your private pleasures private." Good advice darlin!

Having said that all, I do appreciate those generous souls that share their pictures and movies with us here. Also the moderators who help keep it civil on BF. As a voyeur who likes women I do enjoy it here. :beer:

Pa

p.s. This voyeur does welcome email/pm/s from women. I do enjoy your thoughts
and will never show up on your door step at thanksgiving.

I want to send a personal thanks to K9Hottie. She pointed out how vunerable i was on my profile. I didn't have any personal info on it to view, but one link, that would have had the weirdos and such at my front door. Once I get my business page to par, so that i am safe, I will repost the link so everyone can see what I love to do.
SOOOOO Many thanks to K9Hottie for looking out for other people!!!