I really, really love your posts :) and I have a question for you in PM

:o Ooooh, this is interesting. She's knows you were active before though? You don't regret not telling her for personal reasons or for "the good of all" so to speak?

This post has been edited by GreatDana on Jul 30 2007, 04:59 AM

honestly I was hiding my feelings for other species for quite a while fearing for my gf to find out...one day I walked in on her with my dog rocky she screams Oh shit I didnt want you to find this out....and I just sat there staring at her and said...holy shit I LOVE YOU lol I couldnt beleive that the girl i was in love with was hiding the exact same thing from me that I was hiding from her lol....basically what Im trying to say is why not date nonzoos you'll never know they may be zoo's in hiding

lol
True... It's safe in my closet, and I'm not coming out any time soon. So to anyone I meet outside of BF, I'd look like a non-zoo. Animal-loving non-zoo, but non-zoo all the same...
sheperdlover, you are so lucky!

You usually don't get the chance to choose that special person you decide to get involved with. You can't say Ok, I'll only fall in love or get involved with a zoo friendly person. Good luck trying to find a relationship or a mate that way. :(

As for me, I could've given up the lifestyle at any point if my hubby had asked me to. If he hadn't accepted it when he first learned about my activities, I'd never have continued on with it. So if you simply value your human relationships more than k9, getting involved with someone who turns out not to be zoo friendly is not the worst thing that can happen. :thinking:

there's no easy way to answer that personally

I imagine that there are just a few things I can't get from animals or at least thats how I feel

when I'm with someone nothing else in the world matters, I can forget my attraction to animals, or just not think about it.

but having found this forum I feel maybe it's easier to find someone else who's into this stuff too

yes I feel that I am a lucky person that I found someone that shares one imbarressing thing with me lol...you should really try and find someone interested in beastiality just look for the signs man...animal over likes their privacy....respects animals

I think a respect for animals is a given when it comes to relationships
I could never see myself with someone who didn't have the utmost respect/love for animals

For me, I couldnt pass up the chance to be with the perfect girl just because of my preference towards animals. I love animals but you have to have human interaction too. If that means keeping my zoo life secret then so be it. I can live with it as long as Im not caught. But Im ussualy really good about not making stupid mistakes and getting caught with things like that.

hahahaha yes sneakyness its a key item in the life of a zoophile

Well first I can't believe I missed this post the furst time around. At anyhoo, well its a two part question in the original post. Why seek human relationships at all? Well, while some zoos can successfully be zoo exclusive, I suspect most zoos, and certainly beasties, still desire some human contact at some level. Whether this has to do to being wed to some nebulous idea that should have a normal family life, or they simply like doing human things on a regular basis like talking, movies, dinner etcetera I can not say for sure.

Part two, why don't we date/mate within out own class of persons. Well to be honest we as a people are few and far between. Further the very nature of our sexuality, requires that we hid it in public. Thus making it very hard to connect up with others of our ilk. Until society becomes more tolerant of us as a whole, we'll all be force to live a largely underground lifestyle.

that was almost poetic ::tears:: Bravo in describing it beautifully and doing so to reach all views on the matter

I bolded the last part of your great post because I think that's pretty much why most so far don't have any problem dating non-zoos and not actively only seeking out zoos because it's not such a prominent need in their life/ relationship. I just wish some of the people speaking about hiding from their wives were posting in this. :lol:

I pretty much agree with everything you said ^_^ but I'm surprised even now you still think zoos/ beasties are few and far in between enough that someone wouldn't just exclude themselves to fellow zoos. But to be honest, you're probably right and it's only this site that's allowed us to see the few hundred others interested in the same thing but that's far from a vast population.

Yeah but I don't need the person I'm in a relationship to be INTO zoo. I need the person I'm in a relationship to be OK with zoo. Neutral with it. If they're into zoo, great, we'll have fun times, I intend on getting another dog. But they just gotta be ok with it... Ok that I'm into it. If the person truely loves you, they should be ok with your ideals and fetishes, but that doesn't mean they have to participate in them.

This post has been edited by squad917 on Aug 2 2007, 02:39 AM