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Posted: Jun 7 2007, 08:27 PM
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QUOTE (HeartsofPaws @ Jun 7 2007, 07:58 PM)
My point of view on this subject is slightly different than those listed here. Personally I feel that a husband/wife who is unwilling to accept who you are, and demands that you conform to their wishes is someone you should not be with. I can see both side of this however.

He's the kind of person who seems set in his ways. While he lets you view your fetishes now, will he in the future? I do not know if you have any children, but the fact he knows you are into Zoo may give him the ammo he needs for any future arguments and issues.

A true long lasting relationship requires trust, love, and understanding. Without those, you become trapped in a relationship that centers around unhappiness.

My advice to you is- Take a good hard look at your relationship. Are you happy? Do you have children, and if so, are they happy? Are there things that you dislike your husband doing, but allow him to do so anyway?

Really, the core of this is not about being a Zoo. It's about your relationship. While he may take offense to your Zoo-nature, that doesn't give him the right to treat you like a child and just forbid you from doing what you want. To me that says he does not trust you and he feels insecure.

"This is who I am. I have feelings and desires that you do not approve of, but I am still the same person you fell in love with. I respect your beliefs, even if I do not share them, and I ask for the same respect in turn."

Have you told him that you need an extra "oomph" in your sex life? If not, you should. Sex is really a bonding thing. Without a satisfying sex life, partners end up becoming distant from one another. Love fades and is replaced with "Best Friend" like feelings. I know this first hand, unfortunately. If you are seeking ways to satisfy yourself sexually, and are adamant about staying with your husband, I can only suggest that you two work on your sex life. Try roleplaying, role-reversal (err... don't know if he'd go for that being religious and all...), toys, etc. Keep it fresh. The thrill of trying new things may rekindle what you feel is missing.

Good luck and I hope I didn't ramble on too much!

Everything Hearts said I have to agree with. Honestly your husband should be willing to accept any fetish you have, as long as it is not hurting someone else. There are some limits. ~.^

There are three stages of love. The Lustful and bountiful Love when you first met. Then the Power Struggle everyone goes through. Then Total Acceptance. That is when you know the love you have shall last a life time.

Look at your relationship and your life together. Look at if there has been anything you have denied him? Sit him down and place everything onto the table. Flat out saying, "Look you know the fetish I have. Here is everything else I love and enjoy sexually. Now I want you, no matter how dark it is, tell me what turns you on. What is within your fantasy and deepest sexual wishes. Lets work things out together, as lovers."

If that does not work, then you know the truth of the matter. You know his feelings and what he wants. Honestly any true man that loves his wife is more than willing to give them something they love sexual as long as they get something as well. Heck some, that is all they want because they know you would be willing for their pleasure as well.

Sex is a very bonding thing between lovers and very important. It is not just physical, it is also emotional and spiritual when you make love with someone you care deeply and passionately for.

I wish you luck and best wishes.
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