How To Approach A Woman Friend On Topic

I would like the advice of others (especially women) on how to approach a woman
friend of mine on our shared interest in bestiality. Some months ago my friend and
I were sitting at lunch with 3 other people. She kept talking about a former work associate who had 3 dogs. And the dogs always act "strange" when she visited at her house. She kept bringing up this topic at lunch. Finally an older woman at the table said "The dogs act this way because she is having sex with them, especially the bigger ones". My friend who brought up the topic acted shocked, but did not convince me.

I feel she is interested in the life style as I. However I am shy I guess about this.
And am unsure of how I should approach this woman on this. How does one approach a friend on this?

Any advice is welcome.

PA

Darn my big thumb wiped my post out again
This is short version
My guess is the ladies are fealing you out. They think so much of there friend they out her?
Let them talk if you want to join in say you owned a stud dog etc... I joked about my boys breeding because it kept people off my back. They want something dirty or on you to talk about and pick on you with.
Do not out your self.
If you have to trust ONE alone say well I ran accross a porn site site on computer
If that goes well slip BF in next time NOT signed on.

I have said before the meanest creature is man. The closer you let them get to you the more trouble they are.
Think with the head between your ears joke but stay safe
Rus

Rus gave some good advice... Try to bring it up jokingly without outing yourself in any way... Safest way to go about it.

Another way to go about it is, if you can talk with her one on one (people will act differently infront of their friends or other people in general), just try to strike up a not-so-serious conversation about "taboo fetishes", don't focus on any particular one too much, just disscuss what you think of this one or that one in a non-judgemental, open-minded way, like "Oh, I have a friend who is into that...", or "That's a bit too 'out there' for my liking, but everyone's different", etc... This way you can feel out her feelings towards it subtily... I have friends who have done it this way with their girlfriends etc., and haven't heard any negative experiences from it, the worst they got was a "Eww, that's gross I think", and life continued on the same. :)

It's going to be difficult if she's a girl with an extreme "ick factor" problem, but if she's less reactive, and/or more open minded usually, you'll have better chances.

Good luck and be careful. :P

Thanks
I am not a real good people person
I have been the but of jokes etc. till I learned to stop it.
Sarx That is good advise as well.
I thank you sometimes I need a reference point to know if I am too much a lowner.

Rus

Joking, bringing up that you also knew someone in the past who was into it. Perhaps saying something about catching someone in the act...Telling her to come over and see how your dogs act around her :D Actually no...I wouldn't use that one...
I don't think they were trying to out you though...I just think people like to gossip, and bringing up something shocking about someone else around the lunch table is a sure way to do it. There could be a number of reasons why your friend kept bringing it up, she could've been feeling you out, but with the other women around I think she'd be putting too much suspicion on herself. If she was going to do that she'd more than likely do it in a more private setting when others weren't around, look how much trouble your having bringing the topic up with her. I'd kind of have a hard time believing they'd conspire to feel you out on the topic, just imagine how that conversation would have to start out.

You could always plead ignorance and ask about that other woman and her dogs gently lead her on by asking what do the dogs do and what does the woman do when they show interest in her lower anatomy.

This is not a good thing for the general public to know and if they connect you to it your life will be very very different.
I let my self get involved with a dog [not a gsd this time a saint banard, it was his falt he seduced me and led me into an aley] [it was not my falt he was hung like a horse] one time but missed the security camera.
DUMB ME
That was a very bad bad thing. I moved
People talk because they like to have something on some one.
Where I worked people knew I breed and raised horses so they spent there entire free time trying to get me to say I was active with them. They wanted something to bash me with they were not into animals.
Do not let your self in to there sights.

You can always say sex is fine if people are of age and consenting with some love type atraction to bond it. You could support various sexual habits and you do not need to say animal sex is bad just leave your personal life out of it.

Rus

OK, tossing in my 2 cents, two words, YOU DON'T!!! I am old school when it comes to some things. I am "small town private", very private. And if I was ever confronted about my lifestyle, I'd be beyond embarrassed. I don't care how good a friend they are. Let it lie.

thankyou all for the imput. Lots to think about.

Pa

I breed stallions for people so there are usualy mare owners or owners to watch or help. It does not bother me one bit to take round peg in hand wash it and insert it in round hole.
But most people think it is dirty. Some evil
Look at the trouble people have just washing a horses penis something that is inportant to do when needed. A simple thing to do but as a horse owner they just cant reach out with mrs hand.
We as a groop by being here are disarmed by the subject we only normally talk about it here. We are open about it and it is easy to think others would be.
Hellow they are not.
I have lost jobes because I refuse to bash one sexual minority or other I do not fit in and I have a bad habbit of demanding to be left alown that sometimes does not go well eather. But majority say its bad well there you are.
I know there are others out there in the world that like us
world big place
be safe this could go father than you think
Rus