Broaching Subject With Boyfriend, how do i start?

so ive been living with my boyfriend for six months now. i used to have a relationship with a neighbors dog. Now that he and i are living together, we have talked about adopting a dog. naturally, i would want to the dog to be an active sexual member of the household.... my boyfriend is pretty vanilla and has expressed shock at someone jacking their dog off....
how do i ease this idea into our relationship? HELP!

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Hi! I would suggest you let honesty guide your approach. If you present yourself to be something other than you are, then your lover will fall in love with someone who doesn't really exist. Be yourself!!! If your boyfriend is repulsed by k9 activities, the sooner you learn of his feelings, the better off you'll BOTH be.
If your bf doesn't share your sexual interests, the relationship would be doomed anyway. Be honest with him. The sooner, the better! Just my opinion. Good Luck!---Jim :)

always a tricky situation .....try watching some porn with him after a few drinks to see what his responce is
^_^

Try to start a conversation about the subject somehow, probe his feelings on the matter. If he really finds it repulsive, there isn't much you can do about that.

I agree totally. My advice to every one is to tell your partner right at the start about your k9 desires and/or activities. If your committed to this lifestyle, don't let your human relationships get too serious before telling him/her. I've told every guy I'm with that I'm into to k9. Obviously I don't tell them out of the blue, but I always let them know before things get too serious. This way I know wether or not to continue in the relationship. Otherwise if you keep it a secret. You might not be able to come out later, out of fear of losing your human partner.

Honesty is still the best policy. :clapping:

This post has been edited by playgirl66 on Jul 10 2005, 11:09 PM

i dont think you shud drop the bomb so quick, just get on the subject everyonce and a while and work with that to see what he feels about it. the best way i think an how i got my partner interested is when your turned on. tell him you want it doggy an u want him to be ur dog, leash him even if u want, an just tell him how u like it. more than likely he will agree to this, and after a few times that can be how u bring it up, from there u can probly tell him an maybe interest him.

good luck with your situation. ^_^

i love it... leash him. thats a whole other can of fun fun fun worms! a tight leather dog collar, etc. he'd be hot on that!
maybe this is too much information, but when im with a human, doggie is the best. he can get ni me and reach around and stroke my dick too. soething about doggie, the angle is always perfect.

Honesty is the only way to got about this ...but timing is every thing ...Failure on your part to not telling your vanilla B /F is tatamount to a BIG disaster of the worst kind ...like earthquakes and Hurricanes .....Just tell him and then you will know how he really feels ...also it will allow you to be you ...again .....Raven Bear

My boyfriend and I don't share similar interests, I was blunt when I told him that I enjoyed the company of a canine, but I also told him that it was 100% of my life. I still like the same music, movies, have the same friends, I'm still the same person.
He's into bd/sm and I'm into k9, the other's sexual fantasies doesn't do anything for me and vice versa, but we still love each other and 5 years on, we're doing wonderful, so if he isn't into it, it's not doomed.
I guess the only thing I can say is tell him, and take it from there. You don't know how he will react, so saying you should do this or that, predicting his reaction, it's not worth the stress, and trust me, I know the feeling.

I agree totally. My advice to every one is to tell your partner right at the start about your k9 desires and/or activities. If your committed to this lifestyle, don't let your human relationships get too serious before telling him/her. I've told every guy I'm with that I'm into to k9. Obviously I don't tell them out of the blue, but I always let them know before things get too serious. This way I know wether or not to continue in the relationship. Otherwise if you keep it a secret. You might not be able to come out later, out of fear of losing your human partner.

Honesty is still the best policy. :clapping:

YES, I AGGREE WITH YOU