Need Help, getting wife involved

[gtos]

what is the best way to get the wife involved ? would love to see her with a dog or horse

[Stolen Pixelite]

Why dont you sit down and talk to her about it. If she doesnt like the idea, atleast you talked about it... It's the matter of her actually wanting to do it not what you want...

[tank]

i dont know but talking about it to me involves a lot of risks. i think maybe you should be doing it with her and leave the door open for the dog and see if anything happens from there.

[Shadow]

As I have always said, give her some a story with light zoo content. See what she thinks of it. You might tell her it kind of turned you on. See how she reacts and build it up from there.

[nerp]

This is gonna vary of course like everything...you should know your wife...so in the end take what we say with a grain of salt...follow your heart.

My first step would be like Shadow suggested expose her to a mild form. Do you guys ever watch rated movies together? Or maybe read stories to each other? If so find a really good movie or story. Make it something low key, low pain, something that you think she would like. Gonna remind you now..the key is SHE would like. Try to think like her, see things thru her eyes. This is sorta sexiest and very much gender stereotyping, but women tend to see things differently. Men often just go with the "other head talking". Make it something she can see herself in. Timing make certain you time this right, not after an argument, when she has had a hard day, ect..,

Talk with her. I think in this area you need a lot of communication...it's sorta scarey, it goes against what we have been taught is "right". Be honest with her. Let her know your interested. I know for me, for a man who is my mate, I will do anything in my power to help create the things that bring him pleasure...that's how I get a large amount of my pleasure. See how she reacts. Give her sometime and space. Going personal here...for me, I have found most things when I first am told about them, I think yucko. Give me time and my mind starts wrapping around the thought, it grows inside, and then I find myself desiring it. This is me. This is a team pleasure trip, not an I or a her...you both need to want to do it. If you push when she isn't ready, you will most likely lose your chance.

You also need to be ready for her to say no. You are going against the odds here. Like someone pointed out there are risks. You should already have thought them thru. Think of the worse case scenerios, prepare for them, be ready to pay the price...still wanting to do this? Then go for it. In the end follow your heart.

Good Luck.

Nerp :rolleyes:

[dirtydog1]

How does one counter the ides that having sex with an animal is unsafe, dirty, bacteria, etc. I showed a still of a dog mounting a woman and she she could never do it as afraid od disease etc. Any facts to support the cause?

[thowra]

have a look back through the threads im sure there was a discusion about that not long ago

[jred11]

the biggest thing is to talk about it. I did with my gf from the start and she understood. but she would not partisapate she said thats not her thing but she wasn't going to stop me from look or surfing