My Neighbors Knows I'm A Zoo, And wants sex from me.....

Not one to make topics but I need some help with this. Its a little long so bare with me:


I love taking walks with my dog. I live in a nice neighborhood with really friendly neighbors. A lot of my neighbors have dogs, too. I see some of the same people with the same dogs almost daily. There is this one guy who I see walking his st Bernard mix (I'm not sure what he is mixed with. looks like malamute or something) who's fur is trimmed. I never talked to him or even said hello but we both have seen each other many times. Well, a few days ago, I was walking home kinda fast because it was starting to rain (summer rains...you can never predict them <_< ) and I came across him and his dog near the woods by my house. I wasn't sure what was going on because I forgot my glasses and he was behind some trees but when I went a little closer, I saw he was rubbing his dog's sheath! I was shocked because I haven't seen this from someone else in a long time. He didn't know I was there because his back was turned from me. I had to walk by him to go home so I started to walk on the muddy ground loud, so he can hind what he was doing before i got really close. I had to get 10 feet before he jumped up saying "OH MY GOD!!!" and grabbed his umbrella to hide what it looks like an erection. He looked like he was ready to :censored: bricks and couldn't stop apologizing and making an rushed excuse. I just played it off like I didn't know what he was talking about and didn't see anything when his dog ran up and started smelling and licking the outside of my couch. Of all honesty, this aroused me very much but I acted very surprised while he tried to get him away. Thank god I'm a girl so there is no visible sign of arousal. :lol: I kinda feltl bad because I didn't give any real effort to push him away. He even tried to mount me. But the guy got him off (by this time, my dog attracted some attention by barking at the situation) and we were both blushing and apologizing while people asked if everything was ok. Around that time, we both just looked at each other. I can tell from that look and I'm sure he knew from my look that we knew we was zoos. I just told everyone its ok and rushed home embarrassed and soaking wet........from the rain. :lol: :lol:

The next day, ignoring the embarrassing experience, I went out for a walk again and found the guy near the same area the incident happened yesterday. It was almost like he was waiting for me. As soon as he saw me he stopped me and asked my name. We started to talk and he wanted to apologize for the day before and even gave an "excuse" for what he was doing to his dog. Something along the lines as "I was giving him a belly scratch" or something. It was a total lie because he was clearly playing with his penis. I don't need glasses to see pink. ;) Well, we befriended each other and I even invited him over for dinner. (we do that anyway because we are overly friendly. :rolleyes: ) There were times when we both had that "knowing" look. As if we both knew we were into zoo.

Well, this morning, I went over to his house because he forgot his baseball cap from dinner two night before. I knocked on his door and got no answer so I went around back (I'll admit, I wanted to see his dog. that's why I didn't wait too long) and I heard moving inside. I turned from the side of the house so I can see through his slide in door that lead to his kitchen and caught him giving oral sex to his dog! :o I have NEVER seen oral on a dog IRL so it shocked me. He looked up and saw me and instead of acting surprised or anything, smiled he motioned me to come in. I just nodded no and dropped his hat. He was telling me through the door "Come on! I know you like this!", "I bet you never felt a dog. It feels wonderful!", and "Come in, I won't tell if you won't tell!". Now, I am more of a REAL zoo. I prefer to know my partner first before any sex is given. And plus, I knew this guy probably wanted sex afterward because he himself looked like a horny pony and he was home alone. He was in his 40s and he said he had a wife and kids so the idea of adultery disgusted me. I just nodded no again and went home. I never ever been in a situation like that for years so it upseted me. What made it worst is the guy came to our door later today to "talk" with my family when I knew he came here to talk to me. He told me secretly that his wife isn't into dog sex so he wants me on the side. I told him no many times and put him out. Its not like I'm too young or anything. I'm in my early 20s but I currently in a relationship and I know this guy only wants sex. I am kinda upset because I don't know what to do. I'm afraid he might tell I'm a zoo (I never REALLY told him but he knows) if I don't have sex with him or something. I don't know how to handle him. Please help. :(

This post has been edited by Miss Rabbit on Aug 12 2007, 05:40 AM

I wouldn't be scared of him.. It's you who caught him in the act not the otherway around. I would just tell him your in a relationship that you don't want to mess up and if he wants to be friends that is okay but he needs to respect your relationship.

You said you never told him you were a zoo, but that he knows. How does he know? Did you talk about anything zoo related when he came to dinner at your house? If you are not interested in any type of relationship with him, you need to be direct with him. Tell him you have a boyfriend and that it would be inappropriate to have any type of relationship with him. If he doesn't stop bothering you, then maybe you should seriously consider talking to the police about him bugging you. Your feelings about him are obviously different than his feelings about you. Hope that helps. B)

I agree. Let the guy know where you stand, and if he still makes advances, go to the police. You did nothing wrong, its he who was caught. He should be fearing you, not the other way around. Hope you are able to get things sorted out.

This post has been edited by InTheHeat05 on Aug 12 2007, 06:23 AM

I'd not put myself in a situtation that may grow into something uncontrollable. You caught this guy, and he's embarassed, I mean, really embarassed. You don't necessarily go to the police, as I can imagine, but you could.

You have to stand up for yourself. Let this guy know that he should leave you alone. I wouldn't do anything zooish or otherwise sexual around him. Just imagine what would happen if he took pictures or made movies and passed them around!

I would step back a little and say that you saw what he did, and that you were sort of aroused, but it's not your pair of shoes. Letting other people know you're a zoo needs some trust, and from what and how you tell this story, I wouldn't trust this guy.

Knowing he's a zoo and you got him by the balls doesn't go into trusting him. Trust is a reward for a friend, yet he has shown nothing that'd make me want to trust him.

Prank

lol dont worry you have proof hes a zoo but he dont have proof that your a zoo s dont worry he wouldnt tell cause then you could tell

Hi, there is only a thing that I don't understand.

In the start of your message You said that

"I never talked to him or even said hello but we both have seen each other many times"

And then later you said

Well, we befriended each other and I even invited him over for dinner. (we do that anyway because we are overly friendly. )

Maybe I don't understand because I'm not a native english speaker (I'm from Italy), but the two sentences seem opposite ... or am I misunderstanding?

Apart that I suggest that you to simply say NO in replay to his advance because you're not interested. And IMHO You must do something to make him feel sure that you will not reveal what you saw.
You can tell him that you have had friends that were zoo and that you were not shocked by what you saw but that you acted that way because you were taken by surprise.

When he will be calm about the incident he will let you go. Simply say you're not interested because you have a sentimental story going on.

Let us know

:o what are you doing going to a guy you barely know's house alone, and upon finding him home alone and horny, going in anyway!? You have to be so careful, not all guys are creepy serial killer rapists but some are and theres NO way of telling - better to be safe than dead! If you ever have a reason to go near him again, take someone with you! He sounds like a real creep and I would cut all contact with him...if he wont stop pestering you, tell the police. He has no evidence you are a zoo and even if you are, if you havent actually committed a crime, there's no law against BEING zoo, only against ACTING on it. So what possible harm would come to you? Probably only heat from parents/family/friends but you could laugh it off and claim he was a deluded pervert making it up!

I just wanted to add a different perspective to this whole discussion. I don't presume to defend this guy if he is aggressively stalking or bothering you. But consider how alone we zoos feel in society. It may be that he just craves being with one of his own kind, and thinks that if he is persistant, he will have a partner to confide in and share with. It is a rare and wonderful thing to have a relationship with a fellow zoo. As for the adultery issue, I find that kind of ironic. If you are an active zoo, and engage in sex with an animal while in a relationship with a human, isn't that the same thing as adultery? It's apples and oranges. Those of us zoos who are in human relationships and still engage in animal sex (which I do myself) can never speak of adultery, because we are doing something that would be consider much worse than mere adultery by mainstream society. I'm sure your BF would be much less shocked at catching you in sex w/another man than if he caught you in sex w/your dog.

IMHO

Erm, if he's so desperate for a zoo partner he should leave the wife and go find one, get to know her properly etc etc and share a life together in zoo harmony, rather than be royally and selfishly screwing his wife over.


some people consider sex with animals cheating, some don't. I don't but I'm pretty lax with the whole audltery thing even in human-human relationships...that's up to miss rabbit but clearly she's not comfortable with this situation. A BF might be less SHOCKED to find his gf with another man, but if he found you with a dog (and wasnt a zoo) he probably wouldn't be thinking 'oh my god she cheated on me' he'd be thinking 'oh my god my girlfriends is a sicko' y'know?

LOL!

I feel like you do about the adultery issue. I do what feels good for me, and I'm pretty discreet about my affairs. Human and otherwise. I am a zoo, which, in my way of thinking means that I'm oversexed and can't get enough from my human partners. Therefore I resort to my second choice, which is animal sex. Third is cyber, fourth is my hand. I freely admit that I am addicted to sex. But human is my first choice, and a fellow zoo would be a treasured companion to me. Because human is my first choice, I would not leave my current partner for a zoo, (she is an incredible treasure in herself) but I would seriously consider a very discreet affair with a zoo if the opportunity arose.

That's fine, BUT - we don't know what the wife thinks and we know that miss rabbit is uncomfortable with the idea of being 'the other woman'. When I say I'm lax about adultery I don't mean it's OK to sneak around behind your partners back. I would never cheat on my partner to carry out my fantasies, if I loved them first and foremost I would keep it in my pants or come to some kind of arrangement with them.

That's an admirable trait. I've never been that noble when it comes to my own satifaction, but that's just me. B)

seemingly few are...but they seem to see that as some kind of justification for their behaviour? :huh:

I never listened when mama told me to "behave." ;)