Should You Be Scared Having Sex With Animals, please tell me

i swear i am so scare that have sex witt animal will hurt my family every
body wants me to do my best but what if i can't i came here because having
sex with animal feels wrong and iam scare of being a freak just tell me what
you think i am new here :(

Scared? Animalsex is vonderfull!!!!

Sessy,

It is ok for you to be scared of engaging in sexual relations with an animal. As I've said so many times in so many posts, you do not have to actually have sex with an animal to be a Zoo. It is just the feeling and deep emotional bond that you have that makes you a part of this community.

If and when you decide to take it to the next level and become more intimate, it will be right for you at that time. Don't feel that you need to engage in sexual activity to live up to the expectations of anyone, nor on the other hand feel that if you do, you will be letting anyone in your family down, as this is a verey private act between you and your animal friend or lover. Your family never needsw to know how you feel.

If you feel that it is morrally wrong for you to do this, then don't do it. There may come a time when you are past those feelings and then is when you will discover the joy that being intimate with a non human can bring to your life.

Enjoy the forum and I'm sure that you will get many more replies B)

Bah. Disregard the 1 vote for yes. That was me during a momentary lapse in sanity >.<

I'd say careful, not scared. I wouldn't do anything you don't feel comfortable with though.

I read your question like "every one wants me to", but you yourself do not really want, and feel wrong about it?
If so, I'd say: Refuse. If you let them talk you into it, you are under their boots, and the next challenge will come soon. It is your right to say no,and you better do it now, instead of wait until they got yu talekd into soemthing you dislike, or fear about.

Sexual relations to an animal can be beautiful. But they can be dangerous as well, if you do not know what to take care about. I could imagine that your folks making such pressure, would soon be there with a big stallion if you say yes. Stallios are way too dangerous, specially to newbies, our experienced horse handlers would agree in that.

It is your decision, and I mean yours, dont give that decision into the hands of some who appearently do not respect your dislike about this.

Well if it feels wrong to you, I suggest you just don't do it.

EXACTLY!!!

Well if it feels wrong to you, I suggest you just don't do it.

Yeah just don't do it. Its not worth it if something you wanna do feels wrong to do. And besides their are other things you can do such as cuddling and what not. :mellow:

Sorry about the double post- my computer just had an orgasm

This post has been edited by Squirllybird on Mar 26 2007, 02:24 AM

My own animals in my own space equals no. No fence hopping allowed!
In my area that is the same claim jumping. Generally, shots are fired.

I voted a definate maybe :P

Seriously, if you're doing it because it feels right to you, you're not stressing the animal, you've built a bond of trust and hopefully love with the animal, you have the privacy and security to know that your actions will not become public knowledge, and you can read the body language of your partner well enough to be confident you won't get yourself hurt, what's to fear :huh:

However, if even one of those factors (and there's probably a few I've missed - I havn't had my morning coffee :rolleyes: ) is in the slightest doubt then you have grounds for some fear.

Is there enough to fear to prevent you doing this? That's for you to decide - and only you :mellow:

Plain and simple it comes down to one thing, how does it feel to you. I don't think its so much a matter of sex with animals being 'scary' as much as the subconscious feeling that every time you do it your going to get caught. Otherwise, why worry so much about what your family thinks. Sex as a rule is a private matter to begin with. You are not going to grow horns or break out with polka dots all over your body to give you away. If you are going to be badly riddled with guilt every time you do it though, I would think that maybe you have other issues that you need to work through furst. But maybe the only really scary thing about animal sex, is the addiction factor. Because the trend is that once you try it you'll want nothing else ;) So either try to relax and enjoy it for what it is, a natural joyous part of your being. Or bury it down deep and try to get help working through all the ancillary issues that are making you feel so guilty about it.

I put yes, but after a thought should have put maybe insted. It is posable for you or the animal to be injured. It is a rather emotionally rollercoster with all the feelings going through your head. If you truely are that worryed about it I would agree with the above and do not try it untill you are more certain of your true feelings.

why be scared ,if you are talking the animal ,if you have built trust be for the act you shouldnt have any problums its normal to be nervous.