LONG LIFE TO HIDING MAN!!!!!!!
pd: I have 25 years old and still no human dates so... i think they suspect somthing
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| Posted by: booyah123 Jul 27 2007, 11:56 PM |
| So since my GF moved in with me i have not been able to get on AT ALL! It drives me nuts not being able to know whats going on!!! So who is open and who hides their lifestyle from the signif. other, and if you hide it how do you do it?! |
| Posted by: alekpo Jul 28 2007, 12:13 AM |
| hiding or going to jail are mi options in my coutry (Argentina). if i evoid the jail im going to a nuts house. LONG LIFE TO HIDING MAN!!!!!!! pd: I have 25 years old and still no human dates so... i think they suspect somthing |
| Posted by: squad917 Jul 28 2007, 12:28 AM |
| I can't put yes or no. I still live with my family so i hide it here. but a couple of my friends know i'm into it. I'm pretty open about it with the ones i know but cautious on who i tell. |
| Posted by: KitsArriet Jul 28 2007, 02:21 AM |
| I certainly don't have to hide it from my girlfriend. I'm actually encouraged. But there are many I would like to tell, but must hide it from them. |
| Posted by: Ravana Jul 28 2007, 02:58 AM |
| Yes I do. Only the community here knows who I am. Someday I'll tell my family and my closest friends. Rather that than have them find out on their own. But when I do I hope they understand. I've been this way for as long as they've known me - does it really change who I am? |
| Posted by: heandi Jul 28 2007, 03:04 AM |
| Wifey and I have only confided in each other. |
| Posted by: Itzwolf Jul 28 2007, 05:14 AM |
| It's too dangerous to let anyone know outside of anyone who participates as well..there is just so much that can go wrong. |
| Posted by: pokerman Jul 28 2007, 07:34 AM |
| As a general rule, Yes, I do hide my lifestyle, I would be foolish not to, seeing the non-tolerance of so-called "Normal" people. In my relationships ALL my cards were on the table BEFORE we got heavily involved, I have just been fortunate in meeting 3 lovely ladies who shared the same outlook as myself. From the point you make that you cannot get on at all, you have my sympathies, it is extremely frustrating not knowing what is going on and especially if the forum is the only outlet for your feelings. As to getting on to the forum, I go without unless I can borrow a PC and then download something like Ccleaner to remove all traces of my history, which is what I am doing at present. I also ensure that I am alone behind a locked door then I need not worry about anyone catching me out and exposing my "Abnormalities"! All my life I have hidden my love from my brothers, parents and other relatives, it has not been easy and at times downright dangerous! Just having a nude lifestyle is complicated enough especially when relatives called and found our children running around stark naked and then meeting my girlfriends who were also nude! They did not approve but they did at least tolerate the situation when viewed from the point of view that we could not understand their wanting to be smothered in clothes all the time. Anyway, I digress. If your lady friend is not into your way of wishing to live then your whole future looks bleak, it can work but.......... Steps down from soapbox, Pokerman |
| Posted by: akaricloud Jul 28 2007, 07:50 AM |
| Yes, I hide it from my friends and family, but would not hide it from a anyone that I was in a relationship with. If you are truly serious about a relationship with your GF then shouldn't you be honest and show her who you really are? If she can't accept that then you probably shouldn't be together. It's your life; you shouldn't have to hide your lifestyle from somebody who loves you. |
| Posted by: GreatDana Jul 28 2007, 08:05 AM | ||
Are you intent on marrying this girl? I'm confused as to why you keep increasing the level of your relationship to only go through this stress. |
| Posted by: Valaska Jul 28 2007, 08:53 AM |
| Well, yeah, but a few of my ex's were into it.. ANd since my family owns a stables, had some good times. It's actually not illegal here either though, Canada, well least last time I checked. |
| Posted by: dixiedoll Jul 28 2007, 01:53 PM |
The only one who knows is my dog... and he ain't telling either...  |
| Posted by: booyah123 Jul 28 2007, 04:08 PM |
| thanks for the replies! |
| Posted by: Wirehair Jul 28 2007, 04:34 PM |
| Generally, why should other people know about your sexual preference? How many "normal" people boarst about what happened tin their sleeping room last night? SOme few do, and from what I have experienced in different companies where i have worked, most find such reports annoying. It seems like a kind of inferority complex when they have to boarst around with that. Who needs to know about your sexual preferences? If you are into this kind of sexuality, you should consider it jus tone more time. It is nice, often even important to talk to others with same orientation. But we are nice anonymous towards each other here. |
| Posted by: rus80 Jul 28 2007, 05:05 PM |
| Dixi Your dog is not named Duke is he. There is a dog on TV trying to sell a family bean recipie. He is loyal to himself only. Just thought I would worn you R |
| Posted by: brandonharison Jul 28 2007, 05:31 PM |
| Man I know this is for interspecies sexuality, but if that is really your dick Squad 917, then you really got me horny, I would suck on that until you were empty, lol. Anyway, yes I hide my bisexuality, bdsm submissiveness and zoosexuality, because I don't need the ridicule it would bring me. I like this site because I doubt anyone who is on this site will be (effectively) ridiculing anyone, considering they are looking at this stuff too. |
| Posted by: k9horse69f Jul 29 2007, 01:09 AM |
 Oh I hide it big time You guys are the only ones who know about my lifestyle and I love this site because everyone do know about me and I know all of you are into it too k9horse |
| Posted by: Kinky Couple Jul 29 2007, 01:37 AM |
| We put NO only because we are open to each other....If it were asked if we were open to anyone other than each other the answer would have to be NO WAY would we tell. We kinda like having our secret anyway. KC |
| Posted by: st benard Jul 29 2007, 02:52 AM |
| Some may know of what I like, but I try to hide what I like doing. |
| Posted by: Ilikewolves Jul 29 2007, 06:17 AM | ||
lol we have a joker on this site.  To answer your question I do hide my zoo life style. |
| Posted by: LoneWolf333 Jul 29 2007, 08:16 AM | ||||
LMAO - Good one! In society I'm afraid I'd have to keep it between me and my partner. Now if that partner was human I'd hope that they'd be okay with it because the whole thing about relationships is being one with one another. And, secrets only make for strangers. |
| Posted by: Prank122000 Jul 29 2007, 08:43 AM |
| I hide my lifestyle from most people. There is no point for me to be open with it, as the risks definitely outweigh the advantages. Actually, right now I cannot think of any concrete advantages at all. On the other hand, I don't run around telling people I've sex with my wife, so why should I do this when it comes to my dog? Prank |
| Posted by: LongThinDane Jul 29 2007, 03:05 PM |
| Beware of hiding things like this from your GF, Booyah123. If you are as conflicted about this as you seem to be, why did you let your GF move in? Screts like this can be very damaging to a relationship in the long term. LTD |
| Posted by: bubjones Jul 29 2007, 10:43 PM |
| I have been found out twice in my life. Once when I was younger. I was ask who I thought the pups would look like from my female dog. It was much later when I realized what that comment was to let me know that they knew that I had sex with my female dog during her heat. The second time I was caught having sex with my female Setter during her heat. After that I have hid my sexual involvement with my dogs. The first one had Four pups that looked like her and the next door male dog. The second one was not k9 bred and didn't have any pups from our liaison ether. lol |
| Posted by: HairBear58 Jul 30 2007, 02:10 AM |
| well betwwen the law and people finding it only a step away from )&(^++*+*+ (cant uise the refance here) i find its easier to hide it that suffer any asshol;es nasroweminded attemptds to save me from myseof or force me to be a clone like them i,m old enough to remember when being  or lesiben would get a person tarred and featherd or run out of townwith all sorts of HATE crimes diricited agianst therm(((( so as long as i truly love my aniomals mate and none are hurt why should i tell anyone?? it my business sorta like which way dose the TP have to bwee in your house or is is coerrect to wipe frontward or backwards from the fronty or rear)) sometimes the things people get hung up on are scarey)) so i,ll hile it even if it suddenly became legal and ok what i do is my own business not anyone elses)) |
| Posted by: rus80 Jul 30 2007, 05:07 AM |
| HairBare Isnt age wonderfull. corse now we will probably be cast to the lions again. stuped as people are.. Rus |
| Posted by: Wirehair Jul 30 2007, 07:47 AM | ||
Wasn't there a discussion about making love to big cats somewhere around recently?  The law is not a problem where I live, but social issues may indeed be. On the other side, imagine you knew everything there was to know? Would'nt life be boring? I have my secrets, and other folks living around me have theirs. I can imagine, and fantasy about what might go on here and there, but where would my fantasies go if al walls were made of glas? |
| Posted by: kitsunekun Jul 30 2007, 05:45 PM |
| I've been pretty deep in hiding myself, fortunatly I don't live with my parents anymore so I don't have to worry about them finding out, they'd most likely be very dissaproving when it comes to sign others I haven't told any yet but now that I've found this site and I'm begining to feel more comfortable with this whole thing I will be sure to let them know who knows maybe they'll be into it too :] but I'm single now so I have no worries  |
| Posted by: Playhorse Jul 30 2007, 08:25 PM |
| i dont have to hide the fact that i am zoo ... my family knows and they are quite alright with it and ll the friends that have and hang out with are all zoos themselves ... the only time i have to hide who i am (which is not very often) is when i am around non zoos. |
| Posted by: kitsunekun Jul 30 2007, 10:02 PM | ||
wow, I must say you're really lucky o.o |
| Posted by: mack500 Jul 30 2007, 10:10 PM |
| I generally hide it, like others I don't tell people when I have sex with my girlfriend. So they don't need to know what goes on behind my closed doors. Sexual preferance is like religion and politics and should not be talked about with friends. |
| Posted by: Ziltoid Jul 31 2007, 02:08 AM |
| well, i've only been into it for a couple of weeks, but i think i would hide it no matter how long i liked it for. i just don't think most people would accept it, especially where i live. |
| Posted by: Ooola Aug 1 2007, 04:49 AM |
| I haven't had any sexual relation with any animal, but I enjoy watching the videos.. Yes I hide it because people think its wrong. And once, I was talking about this subject to my boyfriend, and he went all ITS DISGUSTING blablabla...So I said it was a joke. But I guess one day he will know and have to accept how I am |
| Posted by: Dogbert Aug 1 2007, 04:58 AM |
| Yes and no. My wife and I are open to each other and that is all for now. As time goes on and states laws change or we move we will slowely become open with like minded ppl. Sadly there is a sterio type that goes along with this lifestyle - well anything that isin't 'normal' for that matter. yay |
| Posted by: booyah123 Aug 1 2007, 02:12 PM |
| my GF was snooping around the computer yesterday. Sure am glad i usually delete my history trail! Thanks for the greta replies everyone |
| Posted by: Damo Aug 1 2007, 02:23 PM |
| I have to hide it cos I no how the world works and its just best for me to hide it but on here I can be who I am freely |
| Posted by: sweetgent55 Aug 1 2007, 02:55 PM |
| I have to hide my interest and I have to in fact be very discreet about coming here. It is only the friends I have made on this site that know. I am glad for those friends. I am especially glad for one very special friend who is much more than a friend and am very happy and joyful that this site was how we came to know each other. |
| Posted by: blacksupra Aug 1 2007, 03:03 PM |
| i have to hide it all the time... but im ok with that, no big deal |
| Posted by: 09Striker Aug 1 2007, 03:05 PM |
| well in a way I hve to hide it as well but Iīm glad my dad has totally no idea of how to use a pc and īcause I have my own profile he canīt check what Iīve done at the pc. But I found a couple of people here that think the way I do and that being a zoo means more than having sex with animals but also tha accept that they have feelings as well and to understand how they feel |
| Posted by: Tabarikan Aug 1 2007, 05:21 PM |
| I hide it all the time, too. For me it's a private thing and most people don't need to know about it. I'm rather selective with whom I tell it or not. It's still considered weird or sick by most of the community.. |
| Posted by: blackjack53 Aug 1 2007, 06:42 PM |
| Like many others here,I too must hide it from those outside this forum for many reasns as well. It's not worth the risk. I'm just glad we have a place like BF to come to and share. |
| Posted by: silkythighs Aug 1 2007, 07:11 PM |
| I voted yes. Only a few select people know about it. Aside from my hubby, I'd never reveal it, even to another family member. |
| Posted by: ricochet02 Aug 1 2007, 07:30 PM |
I to as well have to hide it, there is just to much of a risk. It's kinda scary knowing what could happen or how people would think of you.  |
| Posted by: humann Aug 1 2007, 09:41 PM |
| I know this is gonna sound kind of , but we are in a similar situation as the s were a few decades ago. I remember announcing to the public that one was was unthinkable in the 80s, just like the way we can't really let others know that we are into zoo. I believe though that eventually we will come out of the closet and we will be accepted by the public |
| Posted by: -=Werwolf=- Aug 1 2007, 09:46 PM |
| I'm hiding it too, because I'm afraid of what other people would think about me and I think my parents would never accept it. So only my best friend knows about it and he "likes" animals too |
| Posted by: kitsunekun Aug 1 2007, 09:48 PM | ||
thats very true, I was thinking that before. but I don't think we'll be seeing the outing of many zoo's anytime soon :/ |
| Posted by: energydog Aug 2 2007, 12:23 AM |
| Of course I hide it especially in my line of work. I don't need my life or my family's life ruined because some close minded idiot takes exception to my chosen sexuality. |
| Posted by: crashkid23 Oct 2 2007, 07:17 PM |
| There is only one person besides yall that knows that i am the way i am and that is my ex-fiance! so i dont have to hide it around him but i do with everyone else! Crash |
| Posted by: curious1looking Oct 2 2007, 09:21 PM |
| Far too much of a risk to take to talk about it openly. Besides it doesn't hurt anyone else in my life so why open myself up to criticism etc unecessarily ? It's my business and my business only primarily. I could just picture the outraged "moral" majority  |
| Posted by: boneherthedogman Oct 23 2007, 07:14 AM |
| booyah123, I would say why have her move in if she doesn't know. You tied your self down with a secret and that can cause problems down the road. My wife does know but is not into things as I am. Wish she were more my may but we still have a good life together, and that is the important thing Best of luck. A ten for the post and thanks for the wonderful question |
| Posted by: Solipsist Oct 23 2007, 07:51 AM |
| My partner and I both had this interest well before we met, though neither of us had any idea it was shared at first. Eventually it came out, though I don't remember exactly how/when. We're very open and share all our fetishes; amazingly, almost all of them are mutual so that worked out nicely. As for other people, we've recently started to be a little more open about it and have actually found out that some of our friends and acquaintances are zoos as well. So don't assume you're the only one! Who knows...your neighbor or best friend may be posting in the thread right above you |
| Posted by: LadyxxxWolf Oct 23 2007, 08:11 AM |
| I need to hide it also, but it's no big deal. I'm not in the habit of discussing intimate details about my human relationships with others so I don't feel this is any of their business either. My boyfriend doesn't know and I have no intention of telling him. Besides, I kinda like having a naughty secret all to myself.  |
| Posted by: cowlover3167 Oct 26 2007, 12:21 AM |
| Yes, I have to hide it. If it got out I'd find myself unemployed, possibly disowned, probably in a psych ward or jail. It's not tolerated very well around here needless to say. Posting here even makes me nervous. |
| Posted by: cowlover3167 Oct 26 2007, 12:24 AM | ||
Perfectly stated, people are too quick to judge. I wish people would use common sense, we're not hurting anyone or anything. |
| Posted by: ~A!~ Oct 26 2007, 02:19 AM |
| I can't vote because I don't have a significant other, and I see by your post thats what you mean. On some level every one hides it, like, at least from society, because they all know it ain't accepted yet. As for with there significant other, it depends on how the relation ship starts, most likely they will hide it, at least until they decide to share it. If it starts out with that understandment.. well those are the lucky people. |
| Posted by: kitsunekun Oct 26 2007, 08:08 AM |
| I've gotten to the point in life where can say that I don't hide it from anyone other then my family (and only because I depend on them financially ._. ) |
| Posted by: Fanspaztic Oct 26 2007, 11:35 AM |
| This subject is kind of a two way street with me. I am open, in the fact that I am interested in the lifestyle. But tend to use those little white lies when the subject is turned on me directly. I say I'm into the 'taboo' of watching women with dogs and horses. While hiding the fact that I would love to join in on the fun. |
| Posted by: newdater Nov 18 2007, 03:29 AM |
| Heck yes |
| Posted by: countryboy68 Nov 18 2007, 06:15 PM |
| I really wish I didnt have to hide the fact that I really enjoy zoo but if I did I think I would loose like all my friends and family so right now I have to keep it under wraps witch really sucks.. |
| Posted by: newdater Nov 18 2007, 06:33 PM |
| I dont mind keeping the secret from family and friends but it would be nice if I had a woman I could share my lifestyle with and enjoy in our relationship |
| Posted by: 789987 Nov 18 2007, 07:46 PM |
| as i am a senior in high school i think its best that i hide it. i would like not to get the sh*t beat out of me. not to mention some people look down on people that have "weird" fetishes. Oh yeah and i think it might be illegal where i live, im not too sure. |
| Posted by: Blikkies Nov 19 2007, 08:04 PM |
| Although the myth is that in Africa, there is a form amongst the native black people, any form of animalsex is punishable.Like s they will be castrated.Yes if you can not deal with it in a relationship, you have to practised it in secret and hide.If you can trust your partner, you can bring in the open.Your instinct will tell you. |
| Posted by: The_Beast_Within Nov 24 2007, 10:45 AM |
| I hid the fact that I was a zoophile for a quite a long time, but it wasn't until earlier this year that my mom and my brother discovered my collection of animal porn. My brother is against stuff like that, so he doesn't want me watching bestiality videos. I've basically been doing what he told me, but I want to watch them, despite what people say, so I'm confused. |
| Posted by: fuzzmart Nov 24 2007, 11:01 AM |
| Yep ... I could never imagine a time where it wouldn't be awkward beyond all belief to tell someone who wasn't also a zoo. I don't mind, though, I guess. |
| Posted by: VulpesVulpes Nov 24 2007, 11:27 AM |
| I think I can hide it. I don't think I'll ever have a girlfriend, but if yes, I'll think about a way to solve this problem. Plus, it's not so hard to hide being a zoo, just keep any information in secret. |
| Posted by: Swedishboy7 Nov 24 2007, 12:54 PM |
| I hide it from the people which I don't trust. But my nearest friends know of it. But I still vote no, since my family don't know of it. |
| Posted by: FolsomDog Nov 25 2007, 12:01 AM |
| Howdy people! My first post. Can't tell you how difficult the last 24 hours were until I was able to do this. There's lots to tell but this isn't the place for it so, I'll say that there are only 2 people that know about this side of me. Sad, but true that society is where it's at. Anyway.... GLAD TO BE HERE!!!! |
| Posted by: Elvime Nov 25 2007, 07:42 AM |
| I have to hide it for most everyone i know. I have told a few people, my cloesest friends who i hide nothing from. Although they were a little confused, they have grown to accept it and talk about it quite a bit. Im glad I have them but, I would love to be able to tell my family. Although if I did, I think they wouldnt talk to me again >< |
| Posted by: getofffaster Nov 25 2007, 11:44 AM |
| Being in the Bible belt I have had to hide anything not related to Christianity or traditional values. I never told a sole about my Zoophilia and the pornography I had was hidden very well: In a password protected rar file renamed to something like system_amd.dll, and placed in a random system folder. I hid it so well that not even my GF which I had a 4 year relationship, suspected a thing. However, that changed when I decided to stop hiding my anthropomorphic fetish and I start looking at furry porn in front of her. You know the gig, look at some furry porn, pretend you just randomly clicked on it on a humor website and that you only find it funny then gauge her reaction. Her reaction wasn't all too bad, a little disgusted, but mostly interested. After a while I eased her into it and finially admitted to finding it quite erotic. We would do minor role playing in bed and I would pretend to be various animals, then one day I decided it was time to share with her my even darker secret. My zoophilia. I tried to bring her in slowly by finding Furry porn that more and more resembled real animals rather than a mixture of human and animal and finially. One day I asked her that I would like to try something new, I pretended it was a new idea at least. She kept asking me what and I would simply tell her that she might find it too weird. Finally, I told her and to my amazement she reacted by saying. "That's it, you find that attractive? You should have told me, I thought I was weird because when I was younger I would read books about dogs and often had fantasies." Unknown to the both of us, the other was a closet zoo. This became the biggest relief in my life. From that point on there was nothing left to tell her, she new my darkest secret and she accepted it and we actually found a way to bond with it. I now hide nothing from my GF. All my porn, furry and zoo, is clearly accessible from my documents. I only have to lock my computer when my parents come to visit. Though, there are very few poeple I have told and most of them are online. All but maybe one. |
| Posted by: docbear Nov 28 2007, 04:17 AM |
| i do hide it from my family and frends. the only peaple how know about me and my animals are the peaple on BF and my ex-girl. |
| Posted by: dogfan81 Dec 1 2007, 07:46 AM |
| i have hidden if for a long time but recently started making hints to close friends i knew i could trust and such, and they took it well, and when asked if i have ever tried it i would say yeah once when i was younger to see the response then move from there recently i reveiled it fully to a few friends view making a video with my cellphone and sending it to them after asking if they wanted to see, i think they didnt believe me really at first cause i am known for saying things as a joke all the time but after i sent the videos they had no doubt haah and are all cool with it, i found out one was into it too but hasnt done anything so i might help him with that soon and one is ok with watching in person however in open life i keep it very very secret, and even on here i have to keep my personal identity very secret for now for fear of being discovered sadly |
| Posted by: Natureboy Dec 1 2007, 08:22 AM |
| only the wife knows ..... she knows all........  This is very very tricky for tho's who have familes  |
| Posted by: wicked mutt Jun 25 2008, 02:17 PM |
| I have no significant other...i tend to hide it often tho |
| Posted by: Darkwrath Jun 25 2008, 03:54 PM |
| I have to hide it since it's illegal and ppl around here won't take it lightly if they knew. Me and my brother also prefer to hide it from our family since we don't think they will react well. I'm now in the process of telling my current girlfriend and so far she reacted well to the hints and was interested. |
| Posted by: Skyrune Jun 25 2008, 04:50 PM | ||
Same here. It never ceases to amuse (and annoy) me how the people in this area claim to support freedom and the right to choose...so long as you choose to believe in thumping a bible and doing what furthers the ends of the local church. Anyway, I voted Yes. I have no significant other, no friends I would trust that much, and while I love my family, I'm not about to tell any of them, either. The risks simply outweigh the rewards. But I don't get discouraged. Who needs a supportive, understanding girlfriend to share the interest with anyway, when I have you guys?  |
| Posted by: Ivy25 Jun 25 2008, 05:18 PM |
| Yes I have to be very careful to keep it a secret. |
| Posted by: neandernitz Jun 25 2008, 05:25 PM |
| Oh hell yes.... See the post "Couple faces Bestiality Charges" in this section....... |
| Posted by: SusanMichelle Jun 25 2008, 08:44 PM |
| What Hector, my mastiff, and I do is not legal where we live. |
| Posted by: dryke Jun 25 2008, 08:53 PM | ||
same way over here and my girlfriend knows because she told me she had already been doing some things with her dog. Even if she wouldn't have, I would have say to her. |
| Posted by: packmanpunk Jun 26 2008, 09:05 AM |
| I've always hid it cuz i still live with my parents n its wrong according to what thay b leave. the only ones that know are the people on this forum. |
| Posted by: docbear Jun 27 2008, 05:11 AM |
| ya i hide it from evrery one exept my gf, but i dont do it much any more so there is not much that i need to hide. |
| Posted by: black_lab8 Jun 27 2008, 03:10 PM |
| yeh, i have to hide, it. I have 1 person i can talk to about it, and a couple of friends that know but i'd never tell them anything past that (they don't need to know anyway). Parents would never accept it and feel distant from my family anyway. |
| Posted by: bubjones Jun 27 2008, 04:55 PM |
| I was caught many years ago, and Have had to hide my involvement, since then. |
| Posted by: knottaker Jul 4 2008, 07:05 AM |
| My girlfriend knows and is a Zoo too. Outside of her, no. |
| Posted by: Knotty4dogs Jul 4 2008, 07:19 AM |
| i have always hidden it only in the last few years on the internet have i told anyone about ALEX |
| Posted by: missywolf Jul 4 2008, 02:14 PM |
| aww, so many people have to hide. Its so sad that many people don't accept us. We all have to hide from someone. We can only imagine the day when we don't have to keep secrets because of fear of being arrested or disowned by family or friends or human lovers. I said "no" because the question to me sounded like hiding it from your significant other. He's into this lifestyle too, so no. I used to keep it a secret from him, and frankly that's painful to keep something like that inside. I was bound to tell him eventually. And life is grand ever since. As far as family and friends, they know nothing. I do not think I'd be disowned by anyone, but why try to find out? |
| Posted by: waggler Jul 4 2008, 04:11 PM |
just me my ex wife and friend pete.happy with that and just keep to ourselves to dangerous otherwise  |
| Posted by: Kay_dan Jul 4 2008, 07:57 PM |
| A big yes. No one knows it. I don't think I'll even consider coming out till I at least live on my own and even then I can't see it happening. I mean how do you do it? Most people don't even know what zoophilia means. |
| Posted by: inkky8 Jul 5 2008, 08:50 AM |
| don't hide anything form my wife never have and don't plan on starting now |
| Posted by: mikeyquinn6 Jul 5 2008, 10:53 AM |
| The way i see it, be who you are and fuck anyone who cares, bestiality FTW |
| Posted by: cuteblkssbbw4k9 Jul 6 2008, 07:31 AM |
| It feels good to be able to share this lifestyle with my mate. |
| Posted by: doggycurious69 Jul 7 2008, 03:41 AM |
My fiance knows...she always has. Her and one of my ex's(who came out to me) are the only people I know, that know. Well...I take that back. My fiance's family found out a couple years ago...so her whole side of the family knows...but I try to forget about that  |
| Posted by: darkshadowsearcher Jul 7 2008, 08:29 AM |
| I hide it from my friends, family, everybody... Although it's not too terribly hard for me, I just don't tell people. It doesn't exactly come up in casual conversation very often, you know? It helps that, dispite the community here at BF, we really are a overwhelming minority in the world. Zoophilia, as a real, actual thing being practiced by someone they personally know just doesn't occur to most people that often. Yes, it's becoming more common in popular culture as jokes and in films, but I think it's still labled as something "other people" do. You know, "well, those other people, they're weird, but me and my friends/family/aquantences, we're not like that." I was never quite normal; long before I'd ever heard the word zoophilia or even felt the slightest sexual connection, I loved dogs more than most people can understand. They have always been people to me, and I loved them like family members. Any yet the concept of zoophilia never occured to me (well, it did eventually, or I wouldn't be here, but that's a different story ). What I mean to say is that people often live in ignorance; they simply don't see what's going on around them. And zoophilia is far enough outside the norm of society that most people will never think to wonder about it. So all I have to do is keep quiet about the details of my feelings for my dog, and no one is the wiser. Of course, it helps that I have always been close to the dogs in my life. Anyone I know who would be in a position to be suspicious knows I'm close to my dogs, I have been since childhood, so it's nothing new. And I like guys too, so it's not like I have no interest in humans. I suppose that if I'm ever in a serious relationship, I'll have to find a way to tell him, but so far it hasn't been an issue. Wow, that got kinda long... *shus up* |
| Posted by: neoleo Jul 11 2008, 12:31 PM |
| Yes just because it is illegal in my country... |
| Posted by: K9CuddleCpl Jul 19 2008, 11:06 PM |
my husband piqued my curiosity  . Just about everything we are into is well know by family and close friends.......... however noone else has any remote idea of the "wild" side of our extra curricular activities. |
| Posted by: PantherChick Jul 20 2008, 08:08 AM | ||
Same. I hide it because I dont say anything about it. Its not like mom walks in the kitchen and goes "so how is your cereal, on and when was the last time you had zoo sex?" I do it late at night, when my family is sleeping. Or like now in the summer time, mom and dad go to work and I am almost home alone. My best friend knows so does my zoo buddy. Other then that I dont say a word about it. |
| Posted by: KJCNM Jul 21 2008, 03:43 PM |
| Maybe hide isn't the word, more like I don't shout it out to the world. I have a few that know, that just accept it, they don't label me as sick or wierd. |
| Posted by: Deverve Jul 23 2008, 05:43 AM |
| I prefer to hide, because my family and most people i know cannot keep a secret |
| Posted by: The Manhattan Project Jul 23 2008, 06:51 AM |
| I hide plain and simple the people i know are to narrow minded. |
| Posted by: hillbillygirl Jul 23 2008, 11:34 AM |
| It's pretty easy, but I do hide it... |
| Posted by: givusxerectus Jul 23 2008, 10:28 PM |
| Yes, I hide my lifestyle. From... well, everyone. This forum is the only place where I can discuss beastiality and zoophilia. Foster (my sweet doggie) knows, obviously, but it's just him and you guys. I am in a serious relationship with someone. Though I've tried telling him on numerous occasions about both this and my other perversions, he's been so brainwashed to believe that anything other than normal human sex behind closed doors is a horrible, horrible thing. He won't even look into S/M, anal play (unless it's his anus) or other perversions. He won't even confess to masturbating, but I keep finding his masturbator in drawers around the different computers. Kind of funny when you think about it, but it sucks at the same time. But for some reason, he keeps wanting me to become bisexual after I've explained numerous times that I'm pansexual (meaning that I'm not after sex for the sex, I'm after sex for the emotion involved.) However, I'm alone nine hours a day, so it's not like I don't have the opportunity. Oh, and the only person who ever knew anything about my zoo fetish died last year. Surprisingly, that person who accepted it was my father; the same man who was completely against my sister becoming a lesbian until he realized he didn't have a choice in the matter. He was weird, but really cool. |
| Posted by: Debbiex Nov 16 2008, 08:14 PM |
| Yes. I don't think my family and friends would take too kindly to my little secret. |
| Posted by: dogandhorsecum Nov 17 2008, 12:14 AM |
| hid it from everyone so far:). not planning to tell anyone either... |
| Posted by: dirtbiker2000 Nov 17 2008, 12:55 AM |
| I try to hide it as little as possible. And next long term human partner I have I want her to know as early as possible to avoid for issues later on |
| Posted by: jeepdog89 Nov 29 2008, 09:36 AM |
| I hide it for two reasons. One: It's a felony offense here. Two: Because I live in a redneck small town that's just dying for a reason to form a mob. Not to mention out governor's an  . Not sure if that has anything to do with the laws, but it helps. |
| Posted by: Wlat_Pziupp Nov 29 2008, 06:03 PM |
| My girlfriend and a friend knows. I actually regret telling my girlfriend, from time to time it ruins everything. Almost every time i'm with her and a dog walks by or anything the tension is terrible. She also told some of her friends because she was crying her eyes out and just heading into a downward spiral of feeling terrible and not wanting to tell me. I knew for a long time, but she wouldn't admit it no matter what I did. So one of her friends wanted to bring her dog and "test" me, to see what I did. When she told me I said that if that woman ever wanted to "test" me again, like a caged animal with no other purpose in life than to be studied a to fascinate others, i would fucking kill her. Just typing this makes me shake in anger. God how I wish I never told her sometimes... |
| Posted by: secret_admirer Nov 29 2008, 07:55 PM | ||
I feel like I'm in a similar situation. I hide my zoophilic attractions for the reasons above. |
| Posted by: Pulmifrons Dec 2 2008, 06:21 PM |
| I don't hide my interest in animal genitals, and in a play way I can joke about zoophilia hihi Some friends joke with me saying that I prefer to mate with a dolphin than with a girl lol I like when the said things like that If some one ask me if I like zoophilia I just say: "well I saw some stuff about that but I don't go to far, I'm just on faunophilia"  |
| Posted by: wet_lesbo_lover Dec 3 2008, 08:40 AM |
| the whole thing with it being illegal kinda' keeps me underground with it |
| Posted by: dawgz Dec 10 2008, 09:32 PM |
| Yes, I hide my lifestyle. Nothing to gain from making it known, and too much to lose. I don't feel like it's anybodies buisness outside of this forum anyway. |
| Posted by: debbienmax Dec 10 2008, 11:55 PM |
| Hide because I dont want to offend people who find it repulsive and I hide it because people don't understand |
| Posted by: dogandhorsecum Dec 12 2008, 11:29 PM |
| I hide it. Its not accepted my most other people and they'll think you're some sort of freak. |
| Posted by: boler Dec 13 2008, 03:44 AM |
| I hide it. If anyone in my family - or my friends - wuld find out what i am doing with my dog (and the horses "nextdoor"..) i wuld have to move to another country and change my name. Period. Its not an option with other words And hell no, i wuld never tell a girlfriend. Rather hide it so the girl stays. I dont mind having multiple sex partners - as long as there is only one human |
| Posted by: Sharkie626 Dec 13 2008, 03:47 AM |
| Yes I do. There is only one friend who knows I like this and it doesnt bother him at all. |
| Posted by: AnalxLover Dec 13 2008, 10:13 AM |
| There is one and only one person who knows (besides here, of course). I trust him completely and he doesn't feel repulsed in any way. I do not feel comfortable telling anyone else because I know full well that it will change things. |
| Posted by: silent_51 Dec 15 2008, 12:04 AM |
| I don't tell anyone really, just people here know. I did tell one of my friends about my love for dolphins and he replied "I would have one! I'll fuck anything with a hole" and left it at that. So far only one outside person knows, and sees it as a joke. But still, I'm not telling anyone any time soon. Even a slight word would get me banned from multiple countries, careers and cheap holiday packages, as well as make everyone think me a freak. |
| Posted by: Fabled Dec 15 2008, 01:34 AM | ||
That reason and also I kind of like having this other side of me no one knows about. |
| Posted by: lilshyone Dec 15 2008, 01:58 AM |
| Not voting either way... My SO knows... but he's even pervier than I am... ..other then that I don't tell anyone.. it's hard sometimes though when friends or neighbors jokingly offer to leave me alone with their pets for an hour or so  maybe they just pick up on that I interact with animals better than people... whatever.What would be great would be if nobody cared. |
| Posted by: debbienmax Dec 15 2008, 04:57 PM |
| The world would be a better place if everyone understood our lifestyle Unfortunately there are only a few |
| Posted by: Nomis1 Dec 15 2008, 08:52 PM |
| I don't know if I've2, but I realy don't wanna try out at the moment so no1 knows... |
| Posted by: Spunky Lafenga Dec 15 2008, 09:14 PM |
| Sadly i have to, A - its illegal and B - My somewhat crappy life would be made somewhat crappier. |
| Posted by: Incinerate111 Dec 15 2008, 10:06 PM |
| I hide it yeah, No one would realy get my facination. I've yet to do anything but i've always wanted a female horse or a calf to myself! |
| Posted by: 6u3k Jan 6 2009, 09:41 PM |
| i cant pick either yes or no mainly because when im around my freinds i can be myself bcause they all know but on the other hand my family has no idea |